FabSwingers.com forum: What do women who do pegging get out of it?

By *ilhay OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Genuine question.

What do women who do pegging get out of it?

Is it the power thing of assuming a dominant roll over a man? or is there genuine physical pleasure there? enough to cum? are there bumps on the inside of the strap on that rub the clit for this?

Just wondering what it is that women would like about this situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s a number of reasons.

Initially I wanted to experience giving instead of taking.

I’m fairly dominant in sexual situations and I enjoy fucking someone regardless of gender.

I suppose you’d describe me as versatile.

Viv

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"Genuine question.

What do women who do pegging get out of it?

Is it the power thing of assuming a dominant roll over a man? or is there genuine physical pleasure there? enough to cum? are there bumps on the inside of the strap on that rub the clit for this?

Just wondering what it is that women would like about this situation.

There are double ended pegs/strap-ons with one end going inside the lady. Some of these are so called strapless strap-ons and others that work with a belt. But physically aside it is the mental side of things that I think a lot like. Why do we all do anything that doesn't give us direct physical sexual pleasure? For example a man using a dildo or wand on a lady. Same reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Genuine question.

What do women who do pegging get out of it?

Yes, this. However now that I’m actually giving it some thought I’ve realised that in the moment I’m concentrating more on their pleasure than my own.

Which of course means pleasure for me too if they are clearly enjoying it.

Viv

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By *om and LisaCouple
over a year ago

gateshead

What's in it for the man to go down on a woman?

Is that the same thing?

I get the sentiment though. I suppose for some women, it's the dominance thing?

We've got a strapless 'strap-on' that Lisa inserts.

It's not as robust as a normal strap on and can need holding, she can't go hard, but there's at least a feeling for her.

I think normally, you'd have to use a vibrator or something inside the strap on to get mutual pleasure going.

But then some women can't/don't climax from penetration only, so again, isn't penetration for those couples one sided?

Lots of thoughts there eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can stretch muscles they never knew they had

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

You could ask the same about a blow job, no?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Role reversal/power exchange

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By *sleWightCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ryde

Well, I bought a strap-on which has a small internal dildo for the wearer, and hubby attached a vibrating cock-ring to the base, so I get some really powerful orgasms from both that and knowing he's enjoying the action as much as I am.

It's one of the few times I am in charge of things, so that's also a big factor.

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By *ilhay OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

as someone who loves going down on ladies and giving pleasure , just for them, i do understand the desire and pleasure gained from giving pleasure ... so perhaps my question was a bit silly when looked at that way.

but im also hearing that theres a lot of wanting to be in control/dominant coming through too.

I know its personal to the individual but, which is the bigger factor do you think?

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By *ece_himCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

It's the same as handjobs or fingering. You're pleasuring that person and getting off on the fact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know its personal to the individual but, which is the bigger factor do you think?

If I had to pick the main reason it would be playing the dominant role.

Viv

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

Giving something that their guy likes?

It's a part of a loving relationship.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"You could ask the same about a blow job, no? "

Exactly

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

There is no bigger turn on than turning someone you fancy the arse off, on, with something they enjoy.. I am not dominant, I prefer thongs on a more even keel... Unless I know someone extremely well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found that men that enjoy pegging are better at anal. It's about giving and receiving pleasure. Xx

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

For me, its about pleasuring my man. He enjoys it and I love seeing him getting of on it. It does not happen often but when it does we have a wild night.

Mrs Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Satisfaction for myself, knowing I'm in control of his orgasm. It turns me on

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By *ndy man 61Man
over a year ago

Chichester

i just love seeing my stunning partner warring a strap on and the fact when she fucks me she can't stop cumming which is such a huge turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s what he enjoys and I get to sleep with other men, once I’m in the zone I do enjoy the power of me taking him though!!

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By *athyperkinsCouple
over a year ago

lifton

I like the power feeling but it also gives me a huge buzz to be giving him pleasure. A huge turn on for me. T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

K will cum from using a strap on on someone especially if she's goes deep with it and can grind giving clit stimulation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Satisfaction for myself, knowing I'm in control of his orgasm. It turns me on

This, and also the feeling of empowerment it gives me along with the actual physical feeling of it pushing against me too xxx

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By *arrenandhisduckCouple
over a year ago

blackpool

I love pegging Darren, when we know I'm going to be pegging him there's a lot of playing beforehand to get him ready which is so sexy when I'm actually pegging him I love how he enjoys it which definitely gives me a kick but I always cum too as the position of the strap on is over my clit so it's a win all round

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Power thing

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By *igtone2310Man
over a year ago

Beverley

I get my pleasure from giving pleasure and i'm sure some women feel the same, i was as straight as the day is long but the feeling of having your arse teased and played with gave me the most intense orgasms of my life, as Oliver said, more please ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is massively a creature of both the mind and body. Pegging allows women to explore the mental side of being the one to penertrate/be in charge, control, pleasure another, even dominate...

Sex is complex and wonderful. That's one of the best things about this site is that there are people here who want to explore and not just judge based on what society accepts as normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of reasons! I like it because of the power thing. Also I'm bisexual and like using straps with women anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be about having control over there enjoyment & hopefully making them groan & moan from the pleasure & them asking me to give them more & harder

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By *igNick1381Man
over a year ago

BRIDGEND

The few girl's I've done it with have primarily wanted to try it for the power exchange role play aspect

I know some guys can cum from it, the prostrate massage but that's not happened for me

However, if any girl wanted to try it I'd say yeah because I get off on my partner getting off, you know

Not cumming doesn't mean something didn't work

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

For us it's the role reversal, but mostly and seems often unspoken about is the trust, surrender and vulnerability he gives to me in the act!! That's the real thrill.

I sometimes 'try' to give it as hard as he does and both of us being switch with slightly sadistic streaks on occasion, pushing him to use our safe words is very hot too (although we get a little bored of the prominent "fem domme" portrayal sometimes)

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Depending on the size of the strapon, they might gain a new place to store large objects

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By *ightymouse123456Man
over a year ago

holywell

Well sign me up lol

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By *ltguy1Man
over a year ago

REDDITCH

Having been pegged with large toys and regularly fisted it's the whole experience, the excitement. The trust too and being pleasured in new ways without needing to touch my cock.

Plus just seeing a woman wearing a strapon gives me butterflies

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By *ripodius WillyusMan
over a year ago

Here and there

"Genuine question.

What do women who do pegging get out of it?

Is it the power thing of assuming a dominant roll over a man? or is there genuine physical pleasure there? enough to cum? are there bumps on the inside of the strap on that rub the clit for this?

Just wondering what it is that women would like about this situation.

They get washing out and dry...oh not that sort of pegging

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By *aldeeCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

Mrs here. I get my pleasure from giving him pleasure

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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago

Welwyn garden city

It's a mixture of the control and the pleasure he receives from it. I have had many orgasms from pegging my hubby. I have used a strap on with others. But it isn't the same. Enjoyable, but not orgasmic

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"Mrs here. I get my pleasure from giving him pleasure

That!

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

"It's a mixture of the control and the pleasure he receives from it. I have had many orgasms from pegging my hubby. I have used a strap on with others. But it isn't the same. Enjoyable, but not orgasmic "

And that!

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Love giving blow jobs and hand jobs so pegging just adds another bit of fun in bedroom xx plus hubby has bought me all sorts of sex toys for my pleasure so it’s nice to swap rolls xx

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

"You could ask the same about a blow job, no? "

Not. Really the same because some of us can cum from giving a blow job with no other stimulation required other than the love of doing it.

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

"Mrs here. I get my pleasure from giving him pleasure

That!

Exactly!! But I don't peg with a strap on its bullets only I don't want a role reversal I like the roles as is.

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By *ilhay OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

But I don't peg with a strap on its bullets only I don't want a role reversal I like the roles as is."

Woah, I would like some more information about this hot sounding situation!!!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Can stretch muscles they never knew they had"

Demonstrates how much effort men put in to sex normally

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"You could ask the same about a blow job, no?

Not. Really the same because some of us can cum from giving a blow job with no other stimulation required other than the love of doing it."

Speaking as a guy who rarely cums from a bj, this would be something to experience

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