FabSwingers.com forum: Cheaters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys what's the etiquette on here if you see a profile you know to be a lie because the guy is married. Iv seen a profile of a married neighbour claiming to be a single fireman. Do I name and shame or keep it shut. Thanks in advance

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

keep it shut

none of your business to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it shut.

His business.

I personally wouldn't play with a married man, but it's quite easy to determine those that are with a couple messages, so even if profile says single, can be worked out if you're like me and won't meet marrieds.

I certainly wouldn't say anything to wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay out of it! Don't get involved in someone else's marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the pot calling the kettle black. Your profile states you are straight yet you are looking for TV/TS

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Why even feel the need to get involved?

Stay out of it and concentrate on your own fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you could try and name and shame him but the rules don't allow it. But its not your place really to do it as its not someone's place to tell your neighbours you are a swinger.

The best option is not to interfere but you do as you wish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wasn't going to tell the wife I meant name and shame on here. But I get it keep my mouth shut lol and it shouldn't say tvs on my profile sorry bout that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read single firearm for some reason there..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn't going to tell the wife I meant name and shame on here. But I get it keep my mouth shut lol and it shouldn't say tvs on my profile sorry bout that x"

What would that achieve for anyone?

As others have said, you can often spot the married men even when they claim to be single.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok thanks guys. It was first time Iv come across a profile of someone I know and was shocked by it. Just wanted your advice wouldn't have said anything without it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok thanks guys. It was first time Iv come across a profile of someone I know and was shocked by it. Just wanted your advice wouldn't have said anything without it x"

and I bet ur wanting to shag the wife now lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha that's bad but not wrong. No seriously il stay well away not getting involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha that's bad but not wrong. No seriously il stay well away not getting involved"

her fannys wet and waiting.....go on..u know u wannnnaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Mind your own business is the answer. Not your life he wrecking keep it shut !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

This is concerning. Is he or isn't he a fireman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldnt name and shame on here

however if it were me and I had a hubby who was cheating Id want to know,

I heard (club smoking area years ago, so its not gospel) someone found out hubby was up to no good when the profile to include veris was printed and posted through their front door when he went out to work.

Im not saying you should do this at all but it happens more than we realise, personally I dont

where I eat

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Hi guys what's the etiquette on here if you see a profile you know to be a lie because the guy is married. Iv seen a profile of a married neighbour claiming to be a single fireman. Do I name and shame or keep it shut. Thanks in advance"
Im actually the op's mrs so while hes on here im left with 3 screaming kids wondering where their dad is everytime he leaves the house..that of course aint true now can you see why naming and shaming isnt allowed Op?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for advice although some people seemed quiet annoyed I'd asked the question lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for advice although some people seemed quiet annoyed I'd asked the question lol "

especially the fireman...or firemen..

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Now youve put a thread on here highlighting this neighbour what would happen if his Mrs finds out...... Will he blame you or seek revenge?

Personally I think Ida kept it to myself or had a word with him something like......

Say mate I know its got nothing to do with me..... But Ive had a message off someone that says theyre going to tell your wife about you being on here..... He might then change come off here or invent a new profile ?

How do you know his wife dont know???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"keep it shut

none of your business to be honest

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Hang on a minute

...one minute everyones moaning about fakes etc etc..next minute they are being defended???..a lot of the no shows/timewasters are put down to blokes who 'are probably married and cant slip away from the wife'

You cant have it both ways folks..

Why the fuck is he pretending to be a fireman??..have they got a monopoly on being 'real men'??

You could go for a happy medium message him, tell him you know who he is and ask why he is lying, or warn him that you will report him if he doesnt sort it out

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

No ones defending him theyre just advising the OP to keep his nose out... If he did as you advise he could bring something onto himself..... Either an attack on his person or his property ie car or house etc

Like I said his wife might know or be in on it........ I agree he shouldnt lie..... Why dont they say married but wife knows or dont know? The amswer to why most people lie is that it gets em more meets.... If they get found out they can just pop up somewhere else with a totally new ID. Its something we've got to live with

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Actually I don't moan about fakes, no meets or owt... I just think it is no ones elses business what the guy is doing, what he says he does or anything else.

That is between him, his wife and any potential meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would stay out of it cos shit like that tends u bite u on the arse

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm staying out of it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this the pot calling the kettle black. Your profile states you are straight yet you are looking for TV/TS

i hate this chesnut.. recieving a bj of a TS doesnt make someone bisexual :/

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Couple of points:

1) Technically - he is a firefighter.

2) And on the issue of being a 'single fireman(sic)' - there is only one of him - so that also comes under the definition of 'single' (if there were more than one - would he be paid multiple times?).

OK - pedantry over

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It wouldn't be none of our business, so we wouldn't say a word over it.

How other people live their lives is up to them entirely. It only impacts if it brings trouble to the door - so to speak.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"keep it shut

none of your business to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....maybe he's been following this thread and is hatching his own cunning plan?

....hmmmmmmm....

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Look out for the user name Baldrick then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look out for the user name Baldrick then

....he's already pinned a tail to it....

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Is this the pot calling the kettle black. Your profile states you are straight yet you are looking for TV/TS

i hate this chesnut.. recieving a bj of a TS doesnt make someone bisexual :/"

Like a vegetarian eating a T bone steak doesnt make them a meat eater?

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By *ndy pandy and looby looCouple
over a year ago

YORK/LEEDS/HARROGATE/EAST COAST/NORTH WALES

Probably not the most politically correct answer. But in a what goes round sort of way it has a modicum of appeal. First the most despicable bit is to pretend to be a fireman. I have put man as he is not claiming to be female TV/TS or bi, so despite the pedantic job description post on here saying its a fire person, in this context and on this site it could be more misleading!). So one truth, in the land of fakers, he is a man. But as the fire brigade comprises people who risk lives for others, shame on him for that pretence! Then the claiming to be single, could be wish full thinking, could be a near reality as divorce may be under way. People on here should know only to well we none of us know, or can judge what goes on behind closed doors. That brings us nicely to it being a neighbours door.There is a possible quid pro quo to be had, so while he is looking to play, maybe his wife is. The guy who put the original moral dilemma on here needs to ditch such qualms and start walking past her house with a welcoming flirty smile. Calling round when husband at work. Day one"Oh I thought you had a slow puncture, I may be wrong?"Day two be in local shop when she is, proffer a £1 coin and say "Hello again, I think you dropped this?" Day three a simple interjection on the state of the British weather. Day four "Hows your cat/canary/mother/car/husband!(why not!). Day 5, if you see her say "Sorry I cannot chat today Im off to do my voluntary work with small furry homeless animals". Day 6 "Would she like to call in for a coffee as she always seems to be on her own as you are?" Day Seven........ I believe the expression is "he who lives by the sword......" The scenario could only be improved upon, if in fact you were a fireperson!!!! Never mind tidying up someones else's life...get on with your own!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for advice il take that on board x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably not the most politically correct answer. But in a what goes round sort of way it has a modicum of appeal. First the most despicable bit is to pretend to be a fireman. I have put man as he is not claiming to be female TV/TS or bi, so despite the pedantic job description post on here saying its a fire person, in this context and on this site it could be more misleading!). So one truth, in the land of fakers, he is a man. But as the fire brigade comprises people who risk lives for others, shame on him for that pretence! Then the claiming to be single, could be wish full thinking, could be a near reality as divorce may be under way. People on here should know only to well we none of us know, or can judge what goes on behind closed doors. That brings us nicely to it being a neighbours door.There is a possible quid pro quo to be had, so while he is looking to play, maybe his wife is. The guy who put the original moral dilemma on here needs to ditch such qualms and start walking past her house with a welcoming flirty smile. Calling round when husband at work. Day one"Oh I thought you had a slow puncture, I may be wrong?"Day two be in local shop when she is, proffer a £1 coin and say "Hello again, I think you dropped this?" Day three a simple interjection on the state of the British weather. Day four "Hows your cat/canary/mother/car/husband!(why not!). Day 5, if you see her say "Sorry I cannot chat today Im off to do my voluntary work with small furry homeless animals". Day 6 "Would she like to call in for a coffee as she always seems to be on her own as you are?" Day Seven........ I believe the expression is "he who lives by the sword......" The scenario could only be improved upon, if in fact you were a fireperson!!!! Never mind tidying up someones else's life...get on with your own! "

Is it just me or does all that advice sound somewhat predatory and just a little creepy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"keep it shut

none of your business to be honest

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Keep it shut.

What's it got to do with you?

What if I saw a profile that I knew was a Grass without any discretion. What should I do? Should I grass him up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point....there are lots of people who are not truthful for whatever reason.....drop in the ocean....

Just get on and enjoy! xxxxx

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