FabSwingers.com forum: Bad luck

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey, I've not had any luck on here yet is there something off with my profile or something else I need to do?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I'm just going to lay it out straight and not sugar coat this.

The site is 2/3rds to 3/4qts single guys. On any given day there is thousands of horny guys looking for meets but just a handful of women. Statistically it's all stacked against you.

Somehow you've managed to take those average odds and make them even worse for yourself.

Your profile is barely even barebones at best. 1 boring torso picture (no offence), a few words in your bio and zero interests listed?

You're not telling anyone what you want, what are you offering, anything about yourself or What do you bring to the table that's different from other guys. It's kinda like posting an image that says "can we shag now?" on the internet then being confused when nothing happens.

I'm not saying that to be mean or have a go at you. It's just literally what you've done. created a minimal profile that appeals to no one.

You have to sell yourself and your not. It's a swingers site not a "snap your fingers and the fanny will come flying site". I'm a guy who's been doing this for nearly as long as you've been alive (yes, that does make me feel old) and one of the first lessons I learnt is sitting back and waiting for it to come to you just leads to disappointment. You have to work because it does not fall in your lap.

So look at successful guys profiles. Compare them to yours. Think about the person that a woman is looking for. She's looking for someone to chat and meet with...what makes you different from others?

It's also apparent you are not a swinger. You're here to get laid. Thats not a criticism, thats just obvious from your profile. Thats fine but it's gonna limit what you can do. I can suggest social events or clubs because I doubt thats the sort of thing you are looking for...

So spice the profile up and turn the charm on when messaging. It's your only hope.

And just remember, even if you do have a stellar profile, amazing photos and all the charm in the world, it might not make a difference. Like I said, there's possibly 100 guys now to every single woman on here.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

In eight months you have managed to write a 17 word profile. You haven't revealed your location, what you are looking for, what you are into or even uploaded a profile picture.

If this is the sum total of your effort then it is not surprising that you're getting nowhere tbh. Do you really think that you are making the best first impression?

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By *afksedMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"In eight months you have managed to write a 17 word profile. You haven't revealed your location, what you are looking for, what you are into or even uploaded a profile picture.

If this is the sum total of your effort then it is not surprising that you're getting nowhere tbh. Do you really think that you are making the best first impression?"

Absolutely correct.

If you write a 17 word profile can you really complain if a guy who writes 18 words gets all the attention?

Nothing turns a woman on more than a guy who can’t be bothered!

The women here ARE NOT SLAGS.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

"Hey, I've not had any luck on here yet is there something off with my profile or something else I need to do? "

Fab is not free hook up site. If you treat it as such no wonder you’re getting nowhere.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

We are not all here for the same thing !

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
over a year ago

dudley

Everything, Lazy half arsed attempt at a profile, I’d you want to get anything from this site you have to put the effort in

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"Hey, I've not had any luck on here yet is there something off with my profile or something else I need to do? "

Start again!!!

I’m not usually unkind on these type of threads but I’m amazed you have to ask

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why have you decided against having a pic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate you’ve nailed it.

It’s absolutely perfect.

Don’t change a thing.

We hope that you get everything you deserve and expect.

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By *afksedMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Have you noticed the common denominators with these types of messages?

It’s almost like a test. How fantastic am I if I can achieve “what we are all here for” with the absolute minimum effort?

Six packs and fitness peacocks and usually of an age that don’t have any experience of actually physically interacting with a human woman in the flesh.

Sorry for the rant but it is infuriating!

If these pompous narcissists don’t have the motivation to critically analyse their own profiles to see if they are worth the empty fag packet they were written on, then why the fuck should we do the hard work for them and tell them what to write? Fuck that!

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"is there something off with my profile"

Yes.

(Bry)

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

On the positive side great nipples. Surprised that hasn't been enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get out what you put in.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"You get out what you put in."

As the actress said to the Bishop

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People like others who show effort here.

Sell yourself. Including adding a range of pics so that others can have a clue if they may fancy you within touching distance.

Go to clubs and meet people too

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"You get out what you put in."

This ^^

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Why would you think there's something off with your profile? I mean you've got one and a half lines and no profile picture....how could anyone turn you down?

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