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By *etiton45 OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

Need to redo profile as getting zero interest

Suggestions from fems and couples please on ideas to get some meets.

Spent £140 yesterday on a good time. £400 couple months ago.

Rather meet real people and have natural good times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve had meets. What worked then that you’re doing differently now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try clubs?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Why are you spending money to meet others

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By *idden Gem69Woman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire

"Penis looking for holes to unload in" id read that and block you right away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Penis looking for holes to unload in" id read that and block you right away "

Certainly not the most appealing header.

I saw that and read no further.

Viv

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


""Penis looking for holes to unload in" id read that and block you right away "

Didn’t see that

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


""Penis looking for holes to unload in" id read that and block you right away

Didn’t see that "

Definitely a turn off before even opening the profile. Cock pics are also a turn off.

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By *hirdTimesACharmCouple
over a year ago

northamptonshire

The fosters can is a proper L. Drink Stella instead

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By *etiton45 OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon


"The fosters can is a proper L. Drink Stella instead "
cool

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"Why are you spending money to meet others "

I presume hes referring to ladies of the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your partner making you pay for sex with them?

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


""Penis looking for holes to unload in" id read that and block you right away "

At least that is better than the infamous "Can I throw my cock snot up your fart tunnel".

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Is your partner making you pay for sex with them? "
]]I think he means he has been paying escorts/sex workers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have much success with your couples profile OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is your partner making you pay for sex with them? ]]I think he means he has been paying escorts/sex workers. "

Well that seems a bit frivolous when he clearly mentions his partner

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Can't you just go to Shoebury Party tomorrow night and every month - spend £30 and save yourself a fortune

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By * lolita xWoman
over a year ago

North

Oh dear that’s all I can say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The numbers are just too silly. Needs to be a way to attract more single females to the site and the NSA scene as a whole. No matter what you do on your profile the numbers will always hold us guys back. Considering only 10% of females are actually not timewasters who never meet then the battle is a hard one.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

It is unfortunate that one of your verifications says "chirpy crappy"

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"The numbers are just too silly. Needs to be a way to attract more single females to the site and the NSA scene as a whole. No matter what you do on your profile the numbers will always hold us guys back. Considering only 10% of females are actually not timewasters who never meet then the battle is a hard one."

Perhaps not threatening to name and shame and report “timewasters” might be a good start. Its not always easy to spot time wasters. Might just been not interested in you. 10% seems far too low based on the Fab verified ladies we have come across. Probably 90% meet in the end with somebody. If not Fab verified then different as could well be men but that’s up to you to pick who you approach.

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By *ally_be_coolWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Several phrases in your bio read like you want an escort but don't want to pay for it.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"Several phrases in your bio read like you want an escort but don't want to pay for it. "

Must admit first time I’ve seen “gf experience” on a Fab profile

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"The numbers are just too silly. Needs to be a way to attract more single females to the site and the NSA scene as a whole. No matter what you do on your profile the numbers will always hold us guys back. Considering only 10% of females are actually not timewasters who never meet then the battle is a hard one."

It's not the numbers that hold guys back. Stop blaming others for your lack of success. Some guys will never get a meet on here. Women have preferences if you don't match them it wouldn't matter if you were the only guy on the site. It's not a matter of any cock will do unlike the any holes a goal mentality of some guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is hilarious..... smh

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

The wrong side of the tracks.


"The numbers are just too silly. Needs to be a way to attract more single females to the site and the NSA scene as a whole. No matter what you do on your profile the numbers will always hold us guys back. Considering only 10% of females are actually not timewasters who never meet then the battle is a hard one.

Perhaps not threatening to name and shame and report “timewasters” might be a good start. Its not always easy to spot time wasters. Might just been not interested in you. 10% seems far too low based on the Fab verified ladies we have come across. Probably 90% meet in the end with somebody. If not Fab verified then different as could well be men but that’s up to you to pick who you approach. "

Especially as one mans time waster could be someone who after talking to them, doesn’t like their attitude. If you’re not compatible, you’re not compatible!

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

The wrong side of the tracks.

I’d also say, spell check your profile, upload better pics (full body with dick in order s always preferable), write in paragraphs rather than a list and sort out name and header!

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