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By *hrill_seeker247 OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor

Been on here with the wife for a few years now. Had meets together with others and had fun. Both decided to set up single profiles to find fun alone. While shes had success i havent had a sniff. Trouble getting a conversation let alone a meet. Anyone with some tips to help me out. Thanks xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You're one man among many. Nobody is going to ask you to tell them about yourself when lots of other guys already do that, you need to set your stall out.

Good luck

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

You've had your single profile since 2019 so I would have thought you would have realised the imbalance in supply/demand between sigle females and males on this site

If you want some advise I suggest you improve your profile. Expand it and perhaps add some diiferent photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your looking for what half of the site is looking for... your pics are boring, and you dont state what you can offer.. rather a boring profile you need to sell yourself

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

BTW - Why don't you ask your wife to help you revise your profile. She will have an insight into both your qualities and also what a single lady will be looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In essence, you're just another single guy here.

Being the majority, it's beneficial to stand out.

Ask yourself, are your pictures and bio eye catching enough, and what about your message content.

After playing alone one time, Mrs suggested I find a Woman to play alone as she'd love to hear all about it.

I said, stuff that, it's way too difficult to be fun.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

I'd maybe mention you're married (with permission )and If you have a joint profile cross reference this on your single profile.

I'm half a couple and we have a single profile each ,my partner jack has had some good meets.I happily speak to anyone who wants confirmation that I'm happy with him meeting alone .

I would add some better pics op and sell yourself more ,what do you offer a meet and why choose you.

Good luck

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness


"Been on here with the wife for a few years now. Had meets together with others and had fun. Both decided to set up single profiles to find fun alone. While shes had success i havent had a sniff. Trouble getting a conversation let alone a meet. Anyone with some tips to help me out?Thanks xx"
give up?

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Been on here with the wife for a few years now. Had meets together with others and had fun. Both decided to set up single profiles to find fun alone. While shes had success i havent had a sniff. Trouble getting a conversation let alone a meet. Anyone with some tips to help me out. Thanks xx"

Maybe start again. Your profile is dire

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Fab is anywhere from two thirds to three quarters single guys and your a married guy.

The odds are not in your favour.

As a couple who meets seperetly, I'd just say forget fab and focus on networking at socials and clubs. That's how I get the solo meets.

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Been on here with the wife for a few years now. Had meets together with others and had fun. Both decided to set up single profiles to find fun alone. While shes had success i havent had a sniff. Trouble getting a conversation let alone a meet. Anyone with some tips to help me out. Thanks xx"

Simple dick picks = no

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By *atisfiedSighWoman
over a year ago

NW Wiltshire

Why don't you have a Veri from your wife? She's the perfect person to sell you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe change your name ? I wouldn't want to meet someone who is shy

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Coke on guys, he’s clearly not married and if he had a couples profile, he’d have had some inkling as to what works on here profile wise!

I smell BS of the highest order!

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Coke on guys, he’s clearly not married and if he had a couples profile, he’d have had some inkling as to what works on here profile wise!

I smell BS of the highest order! "

Coke = come!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If you link to another profile and your details don't match, people will be suspicious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all I'm new to fab could some of you view my profile and give me help and advice on what I should do to be presentable please. OK I understand I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I'm trying to figure what I'm I doing wrong thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly OP…..it’s a very lazy profile and you should be aware by now that nothing but dick pics is not a good idea.

If your wife is having success ask her for some pointers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you vivabs I'm not good with words I'm gonna look into that and that's for dick pics lots of profiles make it clear that's a no no.

I'm not married I'm single

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Thank you vivabs I'm not good with words I'm gonna look into that and that's for dick pics lots of profiles make it clear that's a no no.

I'm not married I'm single "

Hi mate, they were speaking to the original poster (OP), might be worth you starting your own thread and you’ll get more direct input. Good luck

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness


"Hi all I'm new to fab could some of you view my profile and give me help and advice on what I should do to be presentable please. OK I understand I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I'm trying to figure what I'm I doing wrong thank you "
doing wrong? Your a guy,like the rest of us,your meet chances are microscopic. You might get something soon,or be waiting years. You just have to accept that.

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By *hrill_seeker247 OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor

Thank you for all the comments. Either positive or negative. I will be looking to update my profile with suggestions from this forum.

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By *hrill_seeker247 OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor

Profile now updated. Hope its an improvement on the last one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile now updated. Hope its an improvement on the last one xx"

It's an improvement, though feel you need to work on those pictures

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By *hrill_seeker247 OP   Man
over a year ago

bangor

Thats the plan. Need to take some new ones

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I see you have changed your profile name.

Why did you decide not to reference your wife's profile or get a verification from her ?

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England


"I see you have changed your profile name.

Why did you decide not to reference your wife's profile or get a verification from her ?"

Was wondering the same?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London


"I see you have changed your profile name.

Why did you decide not to reference your wife's profile or get a verification from her ?

Was wondering the same? "

Because she is blissfully unaware.

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