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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Can anyone tell me if any women like the older man?

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By *azzasheeneMan
over a year ago

kent

No

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By *rlicker123Man
over a year ago

gillingham kent

not very many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

It's great to get a yes, thanks

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

i find that its the younger women and i mean the younger women who find it a huge turn on having a mature guy to bed thm n pleasure them

and the older women like the toy boys

suppose what goes around comes around lol

im open to all ages lol

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By *azzasheeneMan
over a year ago

kent

Not from a younger woman though.

I find younger women love my older guy hacking morning cough.

And my swollen knuckle joints through decades of cracking them, go down a treat when some finger play is on the cards.

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm with you all ages have their attractions. Have to say I prefer my own age

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By *ekyllandHydeCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I prefer an older guy they seem to know what they are doing more

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

It seems that over 50 is too old though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

old women like old men

Seriously though, if your preference is for younger ladies your quest might not be as fruitful as you'd like it to be.

Be patient, it'll come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't generalise about ages, always said we'd never play with young guys but found on here that we take everyone as individuals now. We have had messages from older guys who can't string two words together and lovely messages from lads who are much to young for us. It's not necessarily an age thing more how you are with people I think

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I need to be able to converse with a woman. Too young makes it less easy to have things in common for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What would you say about a 42 year old in particular ?

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Lost me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Under 40s only for me. Found that a few I've played with that are over 40 the phrase two jerks and a squirt is relevant

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Bad luck by the sounds of it.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"Under 40s only for me. Found that a few I've played with that are over 40 the phrase two jerks and a squirt is relevant"

you have just picked the wrong ones then

not all are like that

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Not only that, I've a lot of patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Under 40s only for me. Found that a few I've played with that are over 40 the phrase two jerks and a squirt is relevant"

oh bollocks..... that's another one off the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not only that, I've a lot of patience "

You should be a doctor

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

You'll get over it!

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Maybe I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well my hubbys 20 years older than me so i used to like older men as well as younger men.

after meeting older men on sites like this am not so keen on them anymore.

a few years older is ok though.

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Patients?

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I imagine there are are many who don't appeal.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"It seems that over 50 is too old though "

i think not i married the most amazing one and he is 54 and just keeps getting better and better... Alot of young guys would never keep up with him..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Under 40s only for me. Found that a few I've played with that are over 40 the phrase two jerks and a squirt is relevant"

you've obviously been meeting the wrong guys! And I wouldn't describe someone of 41 as old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all subjective, it depends how good the older guy looks or how bad the younger one looks and vice-versa! T

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its all subjective, it depends how good the older guy looks or how bad the younger one looks and vice-versa! T

XXX"

P.S: When I checked out the O.P's profile I was expecting a guy in his 70's! T

XXX

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Under 40s only for me. Found that a few I've played with that are over 40 the phrase two jerks and a squirt is relevant"

not all like that though.. all nighter ive got lol and he can still be full on form for all night if we have had a night out drinking.. he'll be 55 next may.. i tried younger ones and they could not keep up.. but does depend on the bloke i suppose..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older guys, just my preference x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me if any women like the older man? "

A lot here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Under 40s only for me. Found that a few I've played with that are over 40 the phrase two jerks and a squirt is relevant"

Think you have been unlucky! All women I have played with over 40 have been the best!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer older men which, as our profile shows, is reflected in my choice of life partner. I won't play with guys who are over 10 years younger and certainly no one who I could have mothered lol. Ellie x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

squames had been enjoying the delights of black guys around 50 lately, and loving ever minute! and inch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older men everytime! Young guys don't know what they are doing - rabbit in the headlights comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, i do

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs


"Can anyone tell me if any women like the older man? "

No thanks, I have one of those at home. I prefer the young ones

Have fun

Jane x

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

G had a girlfriend over 25 years younger than him for a couple of years, so the answer is yes, some do like older men. More experienced and considerate than young ones perhaps - and better off? Depends what the women are looking for...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me if any women like the older man?

No thanks, I have one of those at home. I prefer the young ones

Have fun

Jane x"

yes, its nice to have a change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always found that it's not a problem , I think us older men still have a lot to offer !!

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

47 isn't old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oooooooo yes i do love the older men very much they know how to please in the bedroom and know how to be a great lover younger guys well what can i say BUT NO all mouth no play they say what they would love to do with a older woman yet never happens i love my men from age 40 up

lipstick xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"47 isn't old!"

nope it isnt at all babes

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By *hristina_m82Couple
over a year ago

Leeds/manchester

yes

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Can anyone tell me if any women like the older man? "

I can't tell just by looking at them. In the past I have found the question "do you like older men" quite revealing.

Occasionally, just occasionally, the lady gives the right answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"old women like old men

Seriously though, if your preference is for younger ladies your quest might not be as fruitful as you'd like it to be.

Be patient, it'll come "

Fruitful is a possibility. I find older guys such a turn on. They aren't selfish and they know how to please xx

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

Older men a real turn on for us....the older they are the naughtier it feels. And always pleasant and willing to please - an added bonus!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how old is old? 50 plus here and can cum like a 20 yr old for the right lady

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"how old is old? 50 plus here and can cum like a 20 yr old for the right lady "

Poor bloke! I know what I was like at 20 - squirting uncontrollably! Now I think I know what I'm doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not into older men, but older ladies........yes please x

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By *heekyladyCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Depends on how much of an age difference etc.

My regular playmate is 10 years older than I am and absolutely blows me away sexually ...

I've had ten years younger and it's left me disappointed ... So all in all older for me is better.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have met with older guys but not any more. I prefer 30 to 40 but will push those boundaries by a couple of years.

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By *rightloonMan
over a year ago

Stafford

I can understand those who want to specify age as a criteria and respect that but it can only ever be a guide really.

Some people age faster or slower than others so this has to be taken into account.

As regards mental age well: I have to admit that I didn't know my arse from my elbow when I was 20 much less how to make a woman cum.

My mental age peaked when I was in my early 30's. Away from work I seem to be getting younger by the year somehow yet in work I am sharper in my thinking than ever....

If Bruce can host Saturday night TV at nearly 90 then who gives a sh1t about age anyway?

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By *tressfree OP   Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I give a shit!!

As a sexually active and healthy 61 year old it feels we get ignored despite the pleasure we can give.

Not brain dead either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single fem I only ever met men over 40 with preference to 50+.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always been a fantasy of mine to have sex with a man who is lots older than me, pref over 70. Some fantasies stay as fantasy though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well plenty of young guys dont seem to have much luck either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's easy to answer simply by classifying as 'older' or 'younger.

Most will have an age bracket they choose to look for and often use to set filters. Nothing wrong with that as in general, if we're specifically talking about single guys here, lets face it - supply far outstrips demand.

The argument is often used that if ages were removed from the equation (eg at clubs/parties) people would simply go on attraction and first impressions. This is true - but since this is an online community where your profile is your 'shop window' then it's simply a question of seeking out those who's 'preferences' you match - or waiting for them to find you.

And short of fibbing about your age there's not a lot you can do - as in the recent case of a female friend of mine - unless you're looking for a 20 second meet after using old photos to portray yourself - honesty is always the best policy!

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By *ctavius StuntMan
over a year ago

london

More power to younger women who like much older men and vice versa of course. Im nudging 50 now and had some experience of interest from young women. Its a little bit taboo isnt it, which is fine as long as its legal. I personally find something fascinating about the character of young women who are open to older men, and its always great for roleplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More power to younger women who like much older men and vice versa of course. Im nudging 50 now and had some experience of interest from young women. Its a little bit taboo isnt it, which is fine as long as its legal. I personally find something fascinating about the character of young women who are open to older men, and its always great for roleplay "

Nudging 50?? profile says 43 lol.

There are plenty of younger ladies who are open to older guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The older the bettor for me mmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm open to playing with older men. From my experience I've found them to have more stamina than the younger men.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"I'm open to playing with older men. From my experience I've found them to have more stamina than the younger men."

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

My wife likes older men.Me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

over 70s.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me if any women like the older man? "

Yes

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