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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else feel like a few drinks helps when meeting

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Does anyone else feel like a few drinks helps when meeting"

if you need a drink to meet people then no...

and being d*unk isn't sexy either......

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By *ottscouple1Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

To much Drink ruins meets in our opinion

Xx

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By *coobyroo218Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Never drink on a meet me or the mrs,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not thinking pissed just Dutch courage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

L will have a glass of wine or two. I don't drink at all on meets. Tend to only drink water at clubs too as to much soft drink makes me feel rough.

Had one d*unk meet (not us) and it ruined it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't like being too d*unk at any point but a cheeky whiskey does help me relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was invited to join a couple at a hotel awhile back.

When we were messaging each other on here before the meet they said they had been "Let down by timewasters". They told me that the other couple had showed at the meet (in hotel bar) but left after just one drink.

So, I made my way to the hotel expecting some sexy fun and when I got there they were both (M/F) pissed out of their heads. So I made my excuses and left their room.

No wonder the other couple did the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think I'd do the same good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the situation imo.if both partys have a few drinks id say it helps.i personaly would rather meet over a few beers but if the lady didnt drink i wouldnt either.roaring d*unks no good to anyone but nicely merry makes for fun.again imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else feel like a few drinks helps when meeting

if you need a drink to meet people then no...

and being d*unk isn't sexy either......

"

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like getting d*unk but not IF I am meeting

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Have never needed a drink to do anything in front of other people, and to be honest I've always felt sorry for those who have needed to get tanked to ask a girl out, get up on the dance floor, shag someone at a meet and so on...

I can understand some might want a loosener and that might be okay, just from what I've seen one leads to another and another and they end up so they need help to stand - I just can't play with people that d*unk. There could be all manner of false accusations levied of non-consent. A drink in moderation might be an asset but if not it's a liability.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and i wonder how many of the above posters will admit to waking up in the morning and thinking - what exactly happened last night !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All good points so far keep it up peeps

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

Emm here - a drink or two helps me chill over some of the issues I have regarding body confidence BUT I would never, ever drink enough to render me d*unk. I've seen too many people in that state and it's not attractive or sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never drink anyway never did like the stuff, had 2 glasses of wine on my wedding day and was promptly sick in the toilets .. not a nice picture xx

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By *uck_us_hardCouple
over a year ago

N.E Lincolnshire


"To much Drink ruins meets in our opinion

Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only once had a quick drink before a meet but found it didn't really help.

I've seen to many d*unken incidents at clubs

Cali

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm happy to have a few drinks. Not too much but then I know what my limit is.

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By *atinaBabeCouple
over a year ago

casa caliente

oh no confidence why love?

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"oh no confidence why love? "

Who are you talking to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wud hav a lil drinky wen we meet... We don't drink at any other time! It wud just b 1 r 2... I find it just relaxes me a lil cos I'm always excited-nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we went to a meet at a house once and the lad was d*unk,talking like he was 10 men,we made our excuses and went home

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Does anyone else feel like a few drinks helps when meeting"

No. If I'm going to meet someone - I want to perform my best AND remember it afterwards.

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By *ndy pandy and looby looCouple
over a year ago

YORK/LEEDS/HARROGATE/EAST COAST/NORTH WALES

This is a situation where you should be sure of yourself and your partner before you proceed to play. If you need to falsify your agenda/personality with the dubious benefit of alcohol then maybe you should change your hobby. We don't drink when playing, not least of all acid wine or beer breath as the evening goes on and that clearly eyed look does no one any favours! We have seen in clubs as people get silly, childish and purile...nothing sexy about people doing playground pranks and simply being crude and down right stupid. Sex is a grown ups game, for people with respect for themselves and others to make the time as enjoyable as it can be for all the players. Also we would hate to have a great night and either we, or worse the people we had pleasured couldn't remember how marvellous we were!!!! Whats the point.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"and i wonder how many of the above posters will admit to waking up in the morning and thinking - what exactly happened last night !!!! "

If that has never happened to somebody they have never lived lol. Surely everybody who drinks as at least once if not many times woke up and thought what happened last night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No aside from the fact that I drive to meets, I don't find it particularly attractive when a guy has to drink a lot at a social meet; once met a guy who drank the equivalent of 2 bottles of red wine and another occasion where a couple had already d*unk a bottle of wine before I arrived and proceeded to drink 3 more during the meal, god knows what they would have been like had we taken things further

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"No aside from the fact that I drive to meets, I don't find it particularly attractive when a guy has to drink a lot at a social meet; once met a guy who drank the equivalent of 2 bottles of red wine and another occasion where a couple had already d*unk a bottle of wine before I arrived and proceeded to drink 3 more during the meal, god knows what they would have been like had we taken things further "
bloody lightweights!

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

A couple of cold ones is fine we thinks.......

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD


"No aside from the fact that I drive to meets, I don't find it particularly attractive when a guy has to drink a lot at a social meet; once met a guy who drank the equivalent of 2 bottles of red wine and another occasion where a couple had already d*unk a bottle of wine before I arrived and proceeded to drink 3 more during the meal, god knows what they would have been like had we taken things further bloody lightweights! "

ha, this comment made me smile

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have had a few drinks on meets and we always drink at clubs but then at clubs its just ourselves we play with and on meets noone is d*unk and everyone has a good time if someone didn't drink we wouldn't either

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I never drink on meets as I like the security of being able to drive home whenever I want to. A safety thing more than anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never drink and dial....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple of cold ones is fine we thinks......."

we agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few drinks is okay, know your limits!

Ever poured a shot of flavoured vodka on a pussy and licked it ?

Try it, she loved it!

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By *mmBeeCouple
over a year ago

Maida Vale

I usually drink at clubs, I like to be tipsy... but I'm just playing with my guy and he stays sober and makes sure I'm ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never drink on a meet n find it unattractive .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto on the security thing I always drive so never take a drink and don't really drink much ever tbh, if I've met someone a few times and I'm staying overnight I don't mind a drink but that's where trust comes into play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby doesn't drink, but im not bothered either way, I prefer a social drink, not getting wankered so you loose any inhibitions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My confidence is shot when it comes to my body, being on steriods has made me put on weight and it dosn't matter how many times i am told it's ok i just don't agree. That's why i have I tend to have a couple of glasses of wine. But over the last 6 months that i have been on here my nerves have got better and the drink has got less and less. I agree with what is said about being d*unk, some friends of ours have had people fall asleep on them. That's not good at all. I am off to my first club on New Years Eve and i am as nervous as hell all ready, just hope i can do it with my rescue remedy and not the drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never drink, either when on a meet or at a club.

2 reasons,

1 I need to keep my wits about me

2 I drive

I wouldnt play with someone who had been drinking either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never drink, either when on a meet or at a club.

2 reasons,

1 I need to keep my wits about me

2 I drive

I wouldn't play with someone who had been drinking either."

Don't blame you. I don't drink on meets (never did as a single guy either) for both of the above reasons plus... why would you not want to be able to remember all the little details the next day and not be able to walk around with a big grin on your face???? Beats me....

Crackling Perky and I were talking to one couple a few months ago (who we didn't meet in the end) the fem of whom couldn't even TEXT us without, it seemed, at least a bottle of red inside her!!!

Hog/Pork (delete as appropriate!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry mate but booze and swinging don't go.

I light social drink great but I've seen a few "tanked" men (mostly) and the odd couple and it's not a good look for a meet.

You wouldn't go to meet a new girlfriends parent or a job interview cross eye'd and in my opinion it's the same here.

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

Maybe one or two to loosen up and relax but i find that I can't cum if I have more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From our point of view drinking and anything sexual is likely to lead to something very bad.

We will not swing with people who have had more than is reasonable drink wise....

Swinging/Fetish etc is an adults game requiring common sense and mutual agreements we feel that alcohol or other would impair such judgement so we would decline.

Regards

M and J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a few drinks when meeting, unless your the type of guy who has trouble getting it up lol

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