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Bull to cuckold transition

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have any men here had experience of switching from bull to cuckold, or vice versa? My own reflection is that it is not a binary thing - my preference being influenced by environmental and relational factors at a point in time.

For example, I have been a very enthusiastic and capable bull for several couples in the past, but with my own wife my preference is to be cuckold - nothing extreme or rooted in bisexuality, just the reality that while we still really fancy each other our ‘vanilla’ sex life is more about enjoying intimacy than lust-fuelled fucking. Playing the bull with my wife just wouldn’t work, and we both know we can only reach that level of excitement with the right extra man.

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By *r.SunshineMan
over a year ago

London

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By *r.SunshineMan
over a year ago

London

The refusion of binary picture sounds revieling. I look forward to reading the posts of husbands or boyfriends who experience the same situation described above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have any men here had experience of switching from bull to cuckold, or vice versa? My own reflection is that it is not a binary thing - my preference being influenced by environmental and relational factors at a point in time.

For example, I have been a very enthusiastic and capable bull for several couples in the past, but with my own wife my preference is to be cuckold - nothing extreme or rooted in bisexuality, just the reality that while we still really fancy each other our ‘vanilla’ sex life is more about enjoying intimacy than lust-fuelled fucking. Playing the bull with my wife just wouldn’t work, and we both know we can only reach that level of excitement with the right extra man."

We get this 100%

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

When I was with my ex she used to meet two seperate dom guys.

It started with her as a sub and her going to meet him because I told her to.

Its soon became the case when he called the shots and she went and met him when he said so.

To start with I would get to fuck her on her return, but that quickly turned to licking her.

Before I knew it I was helping her dress for her lovers.

She started leaving me items of her lingerie out to be wearing when she got back, she oned a strap on which was bigger and lasted way longer than my cock ever did so we bought a chastity device and the strap on became my new manhood.

She would sometimes wear it and face fuck me with it, she would replicate what her lovers did to her by slapping my fave with it and forcing it deep down my throat.

Rarely was i ever fucked with it thank god, maybe once or twice but it hurt too much!

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By *r.SunshineMan
over a year ago

London

Maybe during this transformation certain aspects got stronger. Such as what you feel and wish for your wife, putting her first, her closeness and honesty to you about how much she enjoyed her fun.


"Have any men here had experience of switching from bull to cuckold, or vice versa? My own reflection is that it is not a binary thing - my preference being influenced by environmental and relational factors at a point in time.

For example, I have been a very enthusiastic and capable bull for several couples in the past, but with my own wife my preference is to be cuckold - nothing extreme or rooted in bisexuality, just the reality that while we still really fancy each other our ‘vanilla’ sex life is more about enjoying intimacy than lust-fuelled fucking. Playing the bull with my wife just wouldn’t work, and we both know we can only reach that level of excitement with the right extra man."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s simply about seeing the woman I love experiencing intense pleasure, with no guilt or regret as I am fully supporting and encouraging her. After 18 years of marriage it’s only natural that the intensity of sex with the same partner will wane, so this is a way of bringing it back for us, with help from a third party.

My professional and sexual persona has always been very ‘alpha’, but I’m at a point in my life now where my self-image has shifted and I begin to identify with the husbands who used to lovingly and excitedly look on as I energetically and vocally fucked their wives.

I think a specific turning point was when my wife became able to orgasm only with the help of a vibrator a few years back. The clincher was a little later, when I bought her first realistic dildo - a thick 8” model - and she came very hard simply from taking it balls deep from behind with no clitoral stimulation. She acknowledged then that she craves another cock so we set up our first profile here, but a couple of ghostings followed by the vivid disruption led to a loss of momentum.

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