FabSwingers.com forum: Terms

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys

Louis here. I’m very confused when it comes to labels.

For me, I love seeing Naomi have fun. Love seeing her enjoy herself. She had her first taste of MFF fun without me and come back saying she loved it. She loved the real intense FF action.

What is the term called for when I think it’s possible for her to love more than one person? Like have a connection on an intimate level with me and others and I only have her. I’m so secure in our relationship I’d love her to have someone else knowing she’d never ever leave me.

What this called?

I am bi and she lets me go on fabguys and I have a regular guy that uses and abused me so it’s hot but it’s just fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that would be called an open relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought it was a term like polyamory or monogamous ?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I thought it was a term like polyamory or monogamous ?"

It's not monogamous. That is only having sex with one person

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. It’s these terms I get confused with.

And I am starting to question whether I should think it’s ok or not lol

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"Thank you. It’s these terms I get confused with.

And I am starting to question whether I should think it’s ok or not lol "

If you and your partner and happy with your relationship dynamic, then don't worry about anything else.

We only need labels to describe things to others.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Thank you. It’s these terms I get confused with.

And I am starting to question whether I should think it’s ok or not lol "

It's perfectly OK, if it's right for you and everyone understands your relationship style.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you guys.

I do find it extremely hot knowing she is mine forever and she has feelings for another person or persons.

She is looking to find a girlfriend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought it was a term like polyamory or monogamous ?"

Yes it could be polyamory/ polyamorous if you wanted to label it but don't be made to feel like you have to. Labels are your choice.

Pxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. It’s just for me when someone asks what we are into and so on. I love the thought of her having deep feelings for another person.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Some relationships have only one partner who is monogamous and the other is poly. Relationship wise that sounds like you guys. I'm don't know of a specific term for that specific format, to me it's just a polygamous relationship if the relationship allows other relationships too (even if it's only one partner who is taking on other relationships).

As for you both enjoying sex with others to me that's just sexual non-monogamy and different from monogamy in terms of relationships. Personally I class my self as monogamous relationship wise to My Girl but non-monogamous sexually.

But in reality I always thinks it's more complicated than that. I see love and sex as a spectrum rather than neat little labeled boxes. You can have many shades of freindships, relationships and sexual encounters.

So I would say don't worry about the labels. Just both of you be yourselves and enjoy what works for you as individuals and as a couple.

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