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By *lowercandy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Hi

So all the single guys who ask for help on how to get meets/verification/improve their luck with profiles etc etc

Consider this..

If you get offered a social only coffee - take it. Don't badger or try to talk it into something else even before you get there.

Social meets still get you verifications.

If you agree to meet turn the hell up!

Because otherwise instead of the veri you get reported.

Stop posting threads complaining that women on here ignore you, are rude and should respond to your every message when you waste our time.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like this I had a meet last night and we were discussing just this but the worst thing is those that say they are going to meet then don’t

But quite right don’t moan there is no point as there are plenty of genuine people on here

Or are they moaning to hide something

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington


"Hi

So all the single guys who ask for help on how to get meets/verification/improve their luck with profiles etc etc

Consider this..

If you get offered a social only coffee - take it. Don't badger or try to talk it into something else even before you get there.

Social meets still get you verifications.

If you agree to meet turn the hell up!

Because otherwise instead of the veri you get reported.

Stop posting threads complaining that women on here ignore you, are rude and should respond to your every message when you waste our time.

Thank you "
sounds as if somebody got stood up my the biggest plonker on here,,, some guys just do not know when life gives them a big break,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to just get a coffee meet at this point lol

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By *lowercandy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Hi

So all the single guys who ask for help on how to get meets/verification/improve their luck with profiles etc etc

Consider this..

If you get offered a social only coffee - take it. Don't badger or try to talk it into something else even before you get there.

Social meets still get you verifications.

If you agree to meet turn the hell up!

Because otherwise instead of the veri you get reported.

Stop posting threads complaining that women on here ignore you, are rude and should respond to your every message when you waste our time.

Thank you sounds as if somebody got stood up my the biggest plonker on here,,, some guys just do not know when life gives them a big break,,, "

Correct

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

A coffee meet would be very acceptable. Except I don’t drink coffee. I’ll have a nice cup of tea.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

In this heat even an ice cream would be acceptable

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Get to know some men, meet for a drink and share tips, get verified. Just going in for the kill only, you are potentially postponing it and making it harder.

1 guy was in the forum this week, offering beers and veris. Think flexibly, work around your issues.

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By *lowercandy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"A coffee meet would be very acceptable. Except I don’t drink coffee. I’ll have a nice cup of tea. "

There's is a wide range of herbal tea or just regular tea. I do try to be nice.

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By *lowercandy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Get to know some men, meet for a drink and share tips, get verified. Just going in for the kill only, you are potentially postponing it and making it harder.

1 guy was in the forum this week, offering beers and veris. Think flexibly, work around your issues. "

In the past I've regularly done a stint if quick social meets. I understand the guys feel they need a verification.

The thing is most of them do not think outside the box. The person you've mentioned had a great idea good on him.

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By *lowercandy OP   Woman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Get to know some men, meet for a drink and share tips, get verified. Just going in for the kill only, you are potentially postponing it and making it harder.

1 guy was in the forum this week, offering beers and veris. Think flexibly, work around your issues. "

In the past I've regularly done a stint of quick social meets. I understand the guys feel they need a verification.

The thing is most of them do not think outside the box. The person you've mentioned had a great idea good on him.

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