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"I consider myself emotionally monogamous" This is the way it should be. Its just for physical fun.. Not emotional feeling. | |||
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"I consider myself emotionally monogamous This is the way it should be. Its just for physical fun.. Not emotional feeling." Some are genuinely polygamous which is great but not for me. ![]() | |||
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"I consider myself emotionally monogamous This is the way it should be. Its just for physical fun.. Not emotional feeling. Some are genuinely polygamous which is great but not for me. ![]() ![]() Agree with this. Pur relationship is the core. Our sex is different to when we play with others, then it's purely physical without emotion, other than pleasure and fun with the couple(s) we're with | |||
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"I’m not monogamous but my partner is " I always find couple dynamics like this really interesting. | |||
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"I consider myself emotionally monogamous" I like this description. Makes a whole lot of sense and probably describes what is in a lot of swinging folk's head when playing. | |||
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"I would say I am monogamous. I have a partner, we are a couple, we don't date other people. We're not polyamorous and we're not in an open relationship. Occasionally we have sexual encounters together involving others, but I wouldn't refer to that as having relationships with them. Tabitha xx" I'm sure the dictionary definition of the word monogamous is “having a sexual relationship with only one partner at a time" You swinging with partners purely for sex without an emotional commitment is not monogamy. Its often termed ENM Ethical Non Manogamy due to the consent of your partner. When you have multiple sexual partners with emotional feelings involved and a wider conection beyond just sex then your Poly/ Polyamorous "characterized by or involved in the practice of engaging in multiple romantic (and typically sexual) relationships, with the consent of all the people involved." KJ | |||
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"I would say I am monogamous. I have a partner, we are a couple, we don't date other people. We're not polyamorous and we're not in an open relationship. Occasionally we have sexual encounters together involving others, but I wouldn't refer to that as having relationships with them. Tabitha xx I'm sure the dictionary definition of the word monogamous is “having a sexual relationship with only one partner at a time" You swinging with partners purely for sex without an emotional commitment is not monogamy. Its often termed ENM Ethical Non Manogamy due to the consent of your partner. When you have multiple sexual partners with emotional feelings involved and a wider conection beyond just sex then your Poly/ Polyamorous "characterized by or involved in the practice of engaging in multiple romantic (and typically sexual) relationships, with the consent of all the people involved." KJ " Like I said I dont class it as a sexual relationship, it's an activity we do together and its little more than an encounter. And we're all free to interpret what those words like monogamy and relationship mean to us ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I consider myself emotionally monogamous This is the way it should be. Its just for physical fun.. Not emotional feeling." I don't think you can say it's the way it should be just because that's what you think, everyone is different and enjoys different things, each to there own. | |||
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" I'm sure the dictionary definition of the word monogamous is “having a sexual relationship with only one partner at a time" You swinging with partners purely for sex without an emotional commitment is not monogamy. Its often termed ENM Ethical Non Manogamy due to the consent of your partner. " How we feel about the word and define it is more important to us than what the dictionary says. I don’t like any of the swinging shorthand (though obviously some find them useful) as I don’t feel we fit any of them and they all mean slightly different things to different people. We just like having sex with each others with other people occasionally. What form that takes will be decided between all parties at the time. People who like swinging engage in as many different forms of swinging as there are people swinging. | |||
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"I would say I am monogamous. I have a partner, we are a couple, we don't date other people. We're not polyamorous and we're not in an open relationship. Occasionally we have sexual encounters together involving others, but I wouldn't refer to that as having relationships with them. Tabitha xx I'm sure the dictionary definition of the word monogamous is “having a sexual relationship with only one partner at a time" You swinging with partners purely for sex without an emotional commitment is not monogamy. Its often termed ENM Ethical Non Manogamy due to the consent of your partner. When you have multiple sexual partners with emotional feelings involved and a wider conection beyond just sex then your Poly/ Polyamorous "characterized by or involved in the practice of engaging in multiple romantic (and typically sexual) relationships, with the consent of all the people involved." KJ " One of the joys of language is it's fluidity and ability to be adapted, updated and moulded to suit our rapidly changing society. Monogamy as a word was first used in the 17th century. A lot has changed since then! Probably 20 years ago, I'd have been inclined to agree. Now, it's more a case of words being used to approximate a situation or feeling so that others can identify it. ![]() | |||
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" I'm sure the dictionary definition of the word monogamous is “having a sexual relationship with only one partner at a time" You swinging with partners purely for sex without an emotional commitment is not monogamy. Its often termed ENM Ethical Non Manogamy due to the consent of your partner. How we feel about the word and define it is more important to us than what the dictionary says. I don’t like any of the swinging shorthand (though obviously some find them useful) as I don’t feel we fit any of them and they all mean slightly different things to different people. We just like having sex with each others with other people occasionally. What form that takes will be decided between all parties at the time. People who like swinging engage in as many different forms of swinging as there are people swinging. " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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