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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ignore all the self appreciation tosh being written and simply enjoy yourselves

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Ignore all the self appreciation tosh being written and simply enjoy yourselves

Wise words!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like this guide!

Couldnt you have said it over 8 chapters though and thrown in a little holier than thou browbeating??

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"I like this guide!

Couldnt you have said it over 8 chapters though and thrown in a little holier than thou browbeating??

....and perhaps some tips on self abuse?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Ignore all the self appreciation tosh being written and simply enjoy yourselves

Could you summarise it please?

Or perhaps break it up with a few illustrations?

Thanks

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Ignore all the self appreciation tosh being written and simply enjoy yourselves

Can I just say thank you... and I think I love you.....

look... if people are going to be arses... they are going to be arses! all these guides do is show the arses how to get round the system.....

all you really need in swinging is time, effort and a bunch of common sense and how people should be treated...

the site gives people the tools to make it all work...if some can't do that, teach don't give

I don't need to be spoken down to or patronised by someone who thinks they are better than me......

phew.... been wanting to say that since guide 1..... god I feel better now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I apologise if the post seemed patronising or arrogant in any way. That was definitely not my intention. Many requested I put it up again since my return and I only wish for the site to become a more pleasant experience for everyone

I will gladly ask the admin to remove it if there is enough demand.

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By *yber pimpMan
over a year ago

durham area

"Ignore all the self appreciation tosh being written and simply enjoy yourselves

Can I just say thank you... and I think I love you.....

look... if people are going to be arses... they are going to be arses! all these guides do is show the arses how to get round the system.....

all you really need in swinging is time, effort and a bunch of common sense and how people should be treated...

the site gives people the tools to make it all work...if some can't do that, teach don't give

I don't need to be spoken down to or patronised by someone who thinks they are better than me......

phew.... been wanting to say that since guide 1..... god I feel better now...

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GO FABIO THE VOICE OF THE PEOPLE !!!!! at last i think we may have resolved this issue. well done to all who posted

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Whoa, hang on.

Let's not start fighting over it.

Fabio said something about "teach, don't give", which in my view is exactly where the "big" guide is coming from. Yes, I've joked in the past about it upping the overall standard and therefore making it hard for the good guys to stand out, but I was only joking!

I'm not arrogant enough to think I couldn't improve....

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By *ishful.thinkingWoman
over a year ago

east london

I for one would hate to see this advice go.

As a single female I get a lot of mail form guys who haven’t read my profile, who send through a single one line requests for sex. I do try to reply to all even if it’s a thanks but no. On the numerous occasions that those individuals come back wanting to know why I will make an attempt to explain further.

When this was up previously I referred a lot of the guys to it and in some instances got a note back to say thanks and they'd made changes to their profiles.

Don’t think it’s about been spoken down to or been patronised I think its more about offering guidance to the many newbies and those less certain. I know I got a lot out of it when I joined the site – so thank you Mr O.

Long may it stay

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

basically... I look at it like the chinese proverb....

Give a man a fish... feed him for a day,

Teach a man to fish... feed him for life!

I am all for giving hints and tips... but in the end people have to make there own way in the scene and create their own style.... just like Mr.O has.....

No need for some generic formula, or we all end up with clones.....

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