FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies advice please

By *4Fantasy OP Couple
over a year ago

Spalding

Hi girls, ok so recently due to menopause I have put on quite a bit of weight. My confidence has taken quite a knock but I am putting myself back out there with the hubby. I have a lot of sexy underwear and hope it looks good but would love to know the views of other ladies in my position on how they have found going out and partying once putting on weight. I am hoping that I wont be judged and feel confident.

K xx

By *ust_Play_JWoman
over a year ago

Leamington Spa

Hi OP,

Not quite the same as I’ve been around the same size since I started swinging, but I am a size 20/22 and had previously always felt uncomfortable about my body. In my experience the swinging community is not only accepting but very appreciative of ‘larger’ ladies and there are so many BBW events where people of all shapes and sizes are very much welcomed.

It comes down not so much to what other people think but how you feel about yourself, and any changes in your body can take a little adjusting to. Take your time and let that inner goddess find her feet again, and I’m sure you’ll be oozing confidence before long!

J x

By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I am exactly in the same boat…

Though not officially going through the menopause yet, I put on quite a bit of weight during the pandemic and I am finding it really difficult to get rid of it. Add to that a very demanding job that doesn’t really give me time or energy to exercise as I used to! That has also kept me from meeting…

So no real advice, just reading, hehe

By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

I’ve always been big (18) and before swinging felt very conscious about my size, since going through the menopause I have found it harder to lose weight. I’ve found a new confidence since swinging, being naked in front of others and having my body worshipped by other men has really given me a boost that I’m now more accepting of the way I look and feel about myself. It will take time, be kind to you and do what makes you feel sexy I wish you all the best