FabSwingers.com forum: Identification

By *G Lana OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Most of the time I just identify as me, it is not something I am particularly concerned about. I do, however, suspect that I am coming to the point where others are going to start getting overly concerned about which boxes to put me into. My questions are which label is going to cause the least agitation (and attract the most positive interest, if the two are mutually compatible)? And what is the right point to change identification?

I am guessing that the right answers are whatever I'm comfortable with and when I'm happy to do so but I would like to hear others opinions.

The background is that most of the time I present as a man and intend to continue to do so. I have, however, started to cross dress, although not terribly convincingly yet, and at the same time I am shifting my hormones and showing some early signs of feminisation as a result. My ideal situation is to grow smallish breasts that can be hidden under work clothes but show for pleasure. I would also love to enjoy the changes to body shape (fat distribution etc.), skin, hair and odour associated with the hormone shift.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Identify however you feel comfortable and don't worry about what others think

The right people will still adore you regardless of what box you tick x