FabSwingers.com forum: Finding it hard to meat

By *asual80s OP Man
over a year ago

Poulton-le-Fylde

As a single guy I find it hard to meat a genuine couple or a single lady bin to a club and i enjoy it but it was hard to talk and approach other couples as a single guy out of respect any advice wood be appreciated doesn't help me being Dyslexicthsnks wen I message people thay think I'm pissed or of my head ffs thanks Darren x

By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Not sure what you mean by find it hard in clubs to chat with people out of respect? I like many on here am dyslexic. Spell check is pretty much pointless. What i do, and yeah can be a faff but i use my phone to draft a message and check spelling or whats easier is dictate a message into my voice notes and just copy and paste it to a message or forum thread here.

By *ebwizMan
over a year ago

Clevedon

Its more the fact the site has a high ratio of single guys, so couples/women can be very choosy. Ive had more sucess at clubs, or get an invite to an organised party, they can be a lot of fun.

By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

When messaging people, I'd mention you have dyslexia, so that's why your spelling might be more interesting for people to read. I'm sure people can understand what they are reading, so it shouldn't be an issue.

You could always try going to an organised social if there are any in your area.

Going to clubs, I'm not sure what you mean about difficulty talking to couples. Best thing is to introduce yourself and ask if you can chat to them for a few minutes. Try to be polite, friendly and not pushy. Thank them for the chat and you might see them later. Mingle for the first part of the evening. Your goal should be to meet new people, maybe swap usernames and possibly have some fun later that evening or on another occasion. But having brief conversations with people is the first stage.

By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"As a single guy I find it hard to meat a genuine couple or a single lady bin to a club and i enjoy it but it was hard to talk and approach other couples as a single guy out of respect any advice wood be appreciated doesn't help me being Dyslexicthsnks wen I message people thay think I'm pissed or of my head ffs thanks Darren x"

Clubs can be quite clicky, and Club Play is no exception. It can take a few visits to get yourself known, and accepted. As you’re in Poulton, have you tried Infusion? They do day tickets which are very reasonable, so you can just pop in and use the place like a leisure centre if you like, with the benefit of the opportunity to chat with couples, so building your confidence