FabSwingers.com forum: Any advice

By *helt93 OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Hi fab,

I’ve recently re done my profile after being on here for a few weeks without setting it up properly. Does anyone have any advice for me? Be as critically or complimentary as you like haha.

I’ve been getting a fair amount of messages read and profile vists off the back of them (which I’m quite surprised about tbh given the amount of guys seemingly on here) but very few messages.

Any messages/ feedback appreciated & happy fabbing all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics could do with a bit more imagination and your bio doesn’t really tell me anything that your pics and profile doesn’t already say.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

What did you expect from fab after a few weeks? Reality check there are too many men on here so you really have to stand out. Yours unfortunately doesn’t. Milf? Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sorry but there’s nothing on there that would make me answer.

For me it looks like a minimal effort profile

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm personally not a fan of cock pics, in fact I now use them as a filter. Your age is too young for a lot on here, also what do you expect..... it's not insta shag, regardless of what you have heard

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By *risxbrisxMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Delete those pictures and take new ones in focus with good light.

Sort out bio and let people know what you have to offer them.

Competition is v high for single men.

Remove any mention of milfs and don't say cougar.

And bring jaffa cakes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi fab,

I’ve recently re done my profile after being on here for a few weeks without setting it up properly. Does anyone have any advice for me? Be as critically or complimentary as you like haha.

I’ve been getting a fair amount of messages read and profile vists off the back of them (which I’m quite surprised about tbh given the amount of guys seemingly on here) but very few messages.

Any messages/ feedback appreciated & happy fabbing all"

Get rid of the milfs line off your bio. Add more of what your interested in and what you hope to get from here. Add what you bring to the party.

Also change your pics. As a rule of thumb we tend to not look at profiles that use a cock pic as the first pic. Be creative as its where you sell yourself.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

You almost had my eye out so I couldn't (wouldn't) even read the text

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Your bio reads ok but it’s a bit bland/ dull, nothing really stands out about it to show your personality or the type of woman you’re looking for. Most women get hundreds of messages so you need a profile that’ll set you apart a little. Maybes be more specific about your likes / dislikes / fantasies. It would make it a bit more interesting.

You also need new pictures that are bit more stylish / sensual / appealing. The ones you have uploaded look very slap dash and grey. I personally don’t like close up dick pics, especially as a first pic with your pants round you leg, it just looks careless. I find them a turn off regardless of how big the dick is - most of us are more interested in the man attached. The pic of the bulge in your boxers is pointless - it’s not even that clear what we’re supposed to be looking at. The standing pic again os just not very appealing, not because of your body (there’s nothing wrong with a dad bod as you’ve described yourself) but you could do with some warmer lighting and a bit more of a confident stance etc.

I hope that helps. Inbox if you want any more pointers and will do my best to help

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By *helt93 OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

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By *helt93 OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"I'm personally not a fan of cock pics, in fact I now use them as a filter. Your age is too young for a lot on here, also what do you expect..... it's not insta shag, regardless of what you have heard

Thanks for getting back to me, sounds like I definitely need to get more creative with the camera haha. Also just to clear up, I wasn’t expecting instant sex just for signing up, apologies if that’s how it came across.

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By *helt93 OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Delete those pictures and take new ones in focus with good light.

Sort out bio and let people know what you have to offer them.

Competition is v high for single men.

Remove any mention of milfs and don't say cougar.

And bring jaffa cakes."

Hahaha Jaffa cakes definitely improve any party.

I’ll do some work on my bio and pics and hopefully it has the desired effect haha, thanks for the advice

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By *helt93 OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Hi fab,

I’ve recently re done my profile after being on here for a few weeks without setting it up properly. Does anyone have any advice for me? Be as critically or complimentary as you like haha.

I’ve been getting a fair amount of messages read and profile vists off the back of them (which I’m quite surprised about tbh given the amount of guys seemingly on here) but very few messages.

Any messages/ feedback appreciated & happy fabbing all

Get rid of the milfs line off your bio. Add more of what your interested in and what you hope to get from here. Add what you bring to the party.

Also change your pics. As a rule of thumb we tend to not look at profiles that use a cock pic as the first pic. Be creative as its where you sell yourself."

Thanks for commenting, sounds like my bio definitely needs a bit of work, I’ll have to spice it up a little (or a lot haha)

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By *helt93 OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"You almost had my eye out so I couldn't (wouldn't) even read the text

Point taken haha, my photography skills leave a lot to be desired apparently

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By *helt93 OP Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Your bio reads ok but it’s a bit bland/ dull, nothing really stands out about it to show your personality or the type of woman you’re looking for. Most women get hundreds of messages so you need a profile that’ll set you apart a little. Maybes be more specific about your likes / dislikes / fantasies. It would make it a bit more interesting.

I hope that helps. Inbox if you want any more pointers and will do my best to help

Thanks, all really helpful advice and looking back now definitely some points I should have realised before haha. I may take you up on asking for any other pointers once I’ve made the changes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now give up answering these. It’s not an invite to DM

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Lazy photos, and the bio basically says you just want some easy sex. It's not really going to inspire anyone to want to reply

But that's just my opinion x

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