FabSwingers.com forum: profile advice

By *oyboy181 OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've just updated the text on my profile as i'm trying to transition from webcam to meets would someone please take a look and give me advice and see if I'm on the right track it would be greatly appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a young professional... professional what? A stopped reading after that sorry

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By *oyboy181 OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I dont want to post my job on here just wanted to indicate I had one, trying to show that i'm not one dimensional . Thank you for the feedback, do you any other notes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont have to post your job just that word "professional" as opposed to the rest of us being amateurs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More and better photos.

The bio is an eye roller. You come across as quite pretentious. It doesn't really make you stand out from the crowd.

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By *oyboy181 OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have change the bio, does it sound any better now, thank you for taking the time to give me advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesnt say what you have to offer except for being hung, its a bit boring and generic.. but your profile should reflect you some will like it some wont you cant please everyone

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Add a few photos, not just dick pics though. Add a profile picture too. The profile sounds like it’s written to appeal to what you think women want to hear. Be yourself, add some unique information about you, it’s very generic atm. Oh, being pedantic check for spaces that should be there, and it should be ‘to smile’ not too.

Good luck.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Have a profile pic

Post a dick pic that doesn't look Photoshopped

We'll post more if you do that.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Have a profile picture. Add some other more interesting photos, a variety ...fully clothed, suit, white shirt open, shower,torso, black and white etc etc etc...don't need more than one dick pic.

The text is concentrating on what you want. It's meant to get people interested in meeting you , so think more along the lines of why someone would want to meet you. What's your unique selling point, what do you offer.

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

"I've just updated the text on my profile as i'm trying to transition from webcam to meets would someone please take a look and give me advice and see if I'm on the right track it would be greatly appreciated "

You need more photos x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It is your profile, that reflects the uniquemess of you. Less about your demands and more about you. Indirectly, it's driving why we pick you, after we are able to see that you could be a great fit for our needs.

Physical attraction is important, as well as your personality. The closer we get to having certainty that we know how you look, the easier it becomes for us to be more certain wether we'd like your body close to us. Make at least as good a job of this than the others and you're helping us. It's no fun to be swamped with interest from others who have made it hard work. You'll not be a match for most people but if those who you are matched with, actually get to see this, you're creating a good foundation at start.

Your have to use empathy, to get to appreciate what we need. Which isn't about saying what others want to hear but satisfying our needs. If you do, it holds some promise for our sexual needs too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More interesting photos, maybe rewrite the bio a bit ..

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By *oyboy181 OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've redrafted my bio is it any better now ?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I didn't see it before, but I'd call that "sparse"...

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

No profile pic and blurry cock picture. Nothing that's going to stand out from the thousands and thousands of other single guys on here.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm trying to figure out the pictures because something just doesn't seem right unless I'm wrong then I apologize

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By *oyboy181 OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've just updated the bio does it sound any better , and what doesn't seem right ?

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By *onnybig9Man
over a year ago

bexley

Hi ive been on here for ages barely get replies im not pushy im polite im thinking maybe profile might be why? Or im just that unwanted haha any help?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Hi ive been on here for ages barely get replies im not pushy im polite im thinking maybe profile might be why? Or im just that unwanted haha any help? "

I've said this before and I'll say it again.

Fab is two thirds single guys now if not a higher percentage.

You than have to remember, not all couples or single ladies want to meet sungle guys either so guys need to realise many are not going to get a meet. Its statistically impossible and the people who do meet single guys often get hundreds of messages. You can up your chances by going to clubs or socials but if you rely on fab or fab alone, odds are, you'll be lucky to get a meet no matter how good or bad your profile is.

Its not a case of being unwanted, it's a case of it being numbers game and fab just isn't a winning ticket on its own for most men.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Now your bio too flowery so it comes across you're a total fantasist who just here to wank. It's a no for me and I like big cocks lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Hi ive been on here for ages barely get replies im not pushy im polite im thinking maybe profile might be why? Or im just that unwanted haha any help? "

Again if you don't mind me commenting on your profile? Yours is similar to OPs profile, look like another fantasist, who just here to wank. Far too many cock pics. Work uniform doesn't do it for me. I just think you go on fab on your break time to wank. If you're going to put a public face pic (which I wouldn't advise) at least smile as non smiley photos look makes me think you're a moody person. Remember, first impressions count. Even if you take away the fact women get 1000s of messages aweek, I don't want a moody person who just here to wind me up and wank over my photos.

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By *oyboy181 OP Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have redrafted my bio , what do you think ? thank you for taking the time btw

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By *ylonattireTV/TS
over a year ago

Radcliffe

Better pic would help

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I have redrafted my bio , what do you think ? thank you for taking the time btw "

You think a picture from 2016 makes it good

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

You think a picture from 2016 makes it good "

It's been hinted a couple of times above that this might be a very specific version of the pic, but I don't fancy another ban.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"please show up to our meets as I let you don't or be late mutual respect is important."

That is a bit presumptuous for somebody with no meets and slightly garbled.

As others have said yes a few tasteful pictures including a profile pic.

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