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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My OH is treating me to my first mmf fun in a few days...I'm soo nervous its unreal lol. Kind of excited that he has sorted all the details, I'm not allowed to know anything but, he is on here and his real name! My mind is doing over time. Going to discuss with OH all the dos, donts and any worries I have...but wanted to ask all you fab people what your experiences were your first time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"My OH is treating me to my first mmf fun in a few days...I'm soo nervous its unreal lol. Kind of excited that he has sorted all the details, I'm not allowed to know anything but, he is on here and his real name! My mind is doing over time. Going to discuss with OH all the dos, donts and any worries I have...but wanted to ask all you fab people what your experiences were your first time. "

I knew the guy beforehand, I couldn't have done it with someone I hadn't met I have to know I fancy them. I was very nervous but it was absolutely fine, I felt great afterwards, empowered, confident and on a high for days. I hope you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My OH is treating me to my first mmf fun in a few days...I'm soo nervous its unreal lol. Kind of excited that he has sorted all the details, I'm not allowed to know anything but, he is on here and his real name! My mind is doing over time. Going to discuss with OH all the dos, donts and any worries I have...but wanted to ask all you fab people what your experiences were your first time. "

I never knew the other guy either but I totally trusted the guy who arranged it. When it happened I was like OMG can I do this or not, but knowing I was being well looked after and nothing was going to happen that I hadnt agreed to before, I soon relaxed and had a blast

Im sure that seeing OH is listening to your wants, it will go great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG I had the best time, both guys I had chatted to for a while and one of them I had met probably a dozen times before, they made me feel very comfortable from the moment they walked in, just lay back and enjoy the ride, it will be great....I'd do it again, but tbf I would have to know them both very well

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By *exki11enWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


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I knew the guy beforehand, I couldn't have done it with someone I hadn't met I have to know I fancy them. I was very nervous but it was absolutely fine, I felt great afterwards, empowered, confident and on a high for days. I hope you enjoy "

This. I also knew the guy beforehand which I think helped although I was still nervous as all hell. It was one of my most sensual, unreal experiences to date.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the input totally trust the OH with regards to safety, hoping he has got my likes of the other male sort of right hehe. Didn't have a problem doing ffm's or one on ones so am hoping two blokes will be just as fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for the input totally trust the OH with regards to safety, hoping he has got my likes of the other male sort of right hehe. Didn't have a problem doing ffm's or one on ones so am hoping two blokes will be just as fun. "

Just out of interest and with no hidden agenda behind my question did he know who the woman was going to be before your ffm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've got our first MFM arranged for next month but unlike yourself, I (F) have had full say in who is joining us. Don't think I could just have someone I'd had no interaction with join us.

Hope you have a blast

Red

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for the input totally trust the OH with regards to safety, hoping he has got my likes of the other male sort of right hehe. Didn't have a problem doing ffm's or one on ones so am hoping two blokes will be just as fun.

Just out of interest and with no hidden agenda behind my question did he know who the woman was going to be before your ffm? "

Yes he saw her, it was a last minute thing tho. Message and meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've got our first MFM arranged for next month but unlike yourself, I (F) have had full say in who is joining us. Don't think I could just have someone I'd had no interaction with join us.

Hope you have a blast

Red"

Well normally I would but he wanted to sort it as a treat, he has spoken to the guy on the phone, and last night said he would show me him on here but I never got round to looking lol.

I wouldn't normally meet someone I don't even know what he looks like, but this year has been one for new things so I'm all for let's give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been the 'extra' guy on numerous occasions. Quite a few being her first time in such a situation. Usually they have been very nervous and it's been down to me to initiate things but I always treat her with respect and take things at her or their pace. Your OH has probably already discussed this with the 3rd party so hopefully you'll have a fantastic time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby wants to do this but I can't not know who it it's because I won't shag a minger lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol my OH knows I won't shag a minger, just thinking about it, the male we plan to meet doesn't know what I look like. I might be a minger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby wants to do this but I can't not know who it it's because I won't shag a minger lol"

Bit harsh..hope they dont feel same way about you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby wants to do this but I can't not know who it it's because I won't shag a minger lol

Bit harsh..hope they dont feel same way about you!!"

It may be harsh but why would I have sex with someone I don't fancy? Presumably if they didn't fancy me they wouldn't shag me. I don't take offence to not being some ones type because everyone likes different things. What my husband might see as a decent looking man, I might not, so the idea is fab, but the practice probably wouldn't work for us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had my first MMF. I was really nervous but hopefully it didn't show. It was brilliant! It was with my bloke and someone I'd chatted to for ages so I knew it would be ok. Going to be thinking about it for a long time...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What this comes down to yet again is preference. Personally I couldn't have sex with someone I hadn't previously met and established a connection and mutual attraction with this does put some people off but so be it, we obviously have differing requirements. Other people love the excitement of meeting someone unknown to have sex with it the idea of their partner choosing someone for them and that's their preference. As long as it's all consensual nothing wrong with any of it.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


".......so am hoping two blokes will be just as fun. "

You mean double the fun surely?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"My OH is treating me to my first mmf fun in a few days...I'm soo nervous its unreal lol. Kind of excited that he has sorted all the details, I'm not allowed to know anything but, he is on here and his real name! My mind is doing over time. Going to discuss with OH all the dos, donts and any worries I have...but wanted to ask all you fab people what your experiences were your first time. "

Our first MMF was good but I enjoyed our second one better as I wasn't so nervous.

But wouldn't trust Mr B to choose the other guy without any input from me. I like to suss them out a bit myself before arranging a meet.

Enjoy x

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By *oodfella79Man
over a year ago

Banbury


"My OH is treating me to my first mmf fun in a few days...I'm soo nervous its unreal lol. Kind of excited that he has sorted all the details, I'm not allowed to know anything but, he is on here and his real name! My mind is doing over time. Going to discuss with OH all the dos, donts and any worries I have...but wanted to ask all you fab people what your experiences were your first time. "

I am sure that your OH has really thought about this and hopefully knows what kind of guys you would enjoy being with. The main thing is that if it came to it that you couldnt go through with it then you can just say No.

Personally, I really enjoy being the other guy but have never been someone's surprise!... Yet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was really nervous on my first one but was amazing. Yes blokes get nervous 2 :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two randomers from here after Id polished off a bottle of wine.

Very horny but absolutely not the way to do it.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Enjoy!

That's it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was really lucky, my very first meet from here was a mmf meet with a couple.

I didn't really have time to be nervous as we'd been chatting for a few days and then they invited me round one night when they weren't otherwise engaged so I didn't really have time to be nervous, apart from on the drive over (got really nervous) but they were lovely and I had a great time!

Its true what others have said about a second time as the times we've met after have been better, more relaxed but still just as horny!

Hope you have a brilliant time and try not to let nerves or what might or might not happen get in the way, just go with the flow and you'll have an amazing time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done it yet

And confessed to my friend that it was my no 1 fantasy and she flipping did it lol

She's knows who she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never done it yet

And confessed to my friend that it was my no 1 fantasy and she flipping did it lol

She's knows who she is "

jealousy is an awful thing pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow, thanks for all the input fabsters!

As strange as it sounds (to hear myself realize this).... I don't normally meet with people unless I have 'seen' them, but the fact I didn't know who had been chosen was really rather exciting now I have seen a face pic I'm more nervous! Umm why?

Can we fast forward to Sunday plz, so I Can just tell u all how it went lmao.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, thanks for all the input fabsters!

As strange as it sounds (to hear myself realize this).... I don't normally meet with people unless I have 'seen' them, but the fact I didn't know who had been chosen was really rather exciting now I have seen a face pic I'm more nervous! Umm why?

Can we fast forward to Sunday plz, so I Can just tell u all how it went lmao. "

Good luck! I've been very lucky and had my share of mmf fun - and I've yet to meet a woman who although nervous if her first time, didn't love the experience!

In all mine it's been a case of the woman being the centre of attention with a 'what she says goes' viewpoint! My top tip - just relax - if the guys involved have any experience they'll ensure that it's all about you - not them! The only problem I've found is once you have your first - they get very addictive! Not a bad problem really I suppose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Enjoy!

That's it..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My OH is treating me to my first mmf fun in a few days...I'm soo nervous its unreal lol. Kind of excited that he has sorted all the details, I'm not allowed to know anything but, he is on here and his real name! My mind is doing over time. Going to discuss with OH all the dos, donts and any worries I have...but wanted to ask all you fab people what your experiences were your first time. "

Its me your meeting!

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield


"Never done it yet

And confessed to my friend that it was my no 1 fantasy and she flipping did it lol

She's knows who she is "

The ginger one???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My OH is treating me to my first mmf fun in a few days...I'm soo nervous its unreal lol. Kind of excited that he has sorted all the details, I'm not allowed to know anything but, he is on here and his real name! My mind is doing over time. Going to discuss with OH all the dos, donts and any worries I have...but wanted to ask all you fab people what your experiences were your first time.

Its me your meeting!"

I wish! hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My OH is treating me to my first mmf fun in a few days...I'm soo nervous its unreal lol. Kind of excited that he has sorted all the details, I'm not allowed to know anything but, he is on here and his real name! My mind is doing over time. Going to discuss with OH all the dos, donts and any worries I have...but wanted to ask all you fab people what your experiences were your first time.

Its me your meeting!

I wish! hehe"

Can be arranged young lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My OH is treating me to my first mmf fun in a few days...I'm soo nervous its unreal lol. Kind of excited that he has sorted all the details, I'm not allowed to know anything but, he is on here and his real name! My mind is doing over time. Going to discuss with OH all the dos, donts and any worries I have...but wanted to ask all you fab people what your experiences were your first time. "

I remember my first mmf. I'd been 'dating' this guy for only a short time when we discussed fantasies and i said would love for another man to join in. He said he knew someone who would join in and i agreed even though i had never met him or knew anythiong about him,I just trusted my fella. I'm just so glad I did. It was an amazing experience here was I just an average (though slightly larger)female with 2 drop dead gorgous guys fulfilling my wildest desires. The outcome? Well I never saw my 'date' again but the other guy, that up till then I had never met, I am now good friends with both him and his wife and we have many adventures inc my frist ffm,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, thanks for all the input fabsters!

As strange as it sounds (to hear myself realize this).... I don't normally meet with people unless I have 'seen' them, but the fact I didn't know who had been chosen was really rather exciting now I have seen a face pic I'm more nervous! Umm why?

Can we fast forward to Sunday plz, so I Can just tell u all how it went lmao. "

My most amazing threesome meet was when I not only didnt know who was lined up - but I never saw him the whole time - I was blindfolded

Was so amazingly erotic, not only could I totally relax into it ( because I had no visuals with which to judge which would have modified behaviour)but also giving that much trust and control to another person ( the friend who arranged it) was mind blowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never done it yet

And confessed to my friend that it was my no 1 fantasy and she flipping did it lol

She's knows who she is

The ginger one???"

That would be me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow, thanks for all the input fabsters!

As strange as it sounds (to hear myself realize this).... I don't normally meet with people unless I have 'seen' them, but the fact I didn't know who had been chosen was really rather exciting now I have seen a face pic I'm more nervous! Umm why?

Can we fast forward to Sunday plz, so I Can just tell u all how it went lmao.

My most amazing threesome meet was when I not only didnt know who was lined up - but I never saw him the whole time - I was blindfolded

Was so amazingly erotic, not only could I totally relax into it ( because I had no visuals with which to judge which would have modified behaviour)but also giving that much trust and control to another person ( the friend who arranged it) was mind blowing"

Sounds like you had amazing fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well back to the drawing board for us lol.

will I or won't I get my surprise mmf tomorrow night or no? Watch this space

Really enjoying reading your experiences tho fabsters, keep them comming! I get more excited and less nervous with each one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame your in plymouth cause I would of knocked your socks off!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shame your in plymouth cause I would of knocked your socks off!"

cool! Best offer all week hehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done it

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By *ovlad1986Man
over a year ago

Bedworth

never done it but would like to

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

can remember my first clearly, very nervous, had a few drinks first but loved it !

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

My first mmf was in fact a mmmf, I instigated it in a hot-tub by touching one under the water while the other then came over for a bj ... I felt great afterwards, hubby was there keeping other single guys from trying to join in then he gave me one fantastic session immediately after the other guys finished. Been more than keen on the whole mmmf since, even had myself a rousing mmmmmmf after a club trip.

Its a real ego boost if, like me, you suffer from a little self doubt when all these guys desire you, even if its just for that short time.

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By *oublewodkaWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I had my first Mmf with my Hubby and a black guy last night.

was so good I want more! enjoy Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the best time, like I said before, but thinking about it, I think being part of a couple might have made it even better, who knows tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we met for a drink a week before and hit it off straight away, he was very sexy and we were horny and excited all week leading up to the meet, it was all what we expected and we had lots of fun. hope yours is just as good. enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This what we do all the time... U will never look back & will want 2 do again & again!! Enjoy!!

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By *onderlust76Woman
over a year ago

St helens

My first time I'd known them both for a short time slept with one of them a few times, it wasn't planned it just happened one night but the following 3 times were planned lol enjoy xx

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