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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone,

I've been on here for just under a month, I've not had any meets yet (no problem with that though, I've been busy as hell with uni work), but I have got chatting to a few ladies. I was wondering if I could get a bit of feedback on my profile. I know there's probably around 20 guys for every woman on here so I'd like to make it a little more appealing.

Also does anyone here know if there are any limits for what non-verified users can do? I've seen a few profiles saying they have ran out of messages and need verifying? I'd make a thread asking for verifications but I'm not that pathetic (yet!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

welcome..ur target group is fabs smallest percentage and therefore the hardest to get meets with.

For at least some more notice, try checking clubs and socials.I do have to say u might not get alot of 40's women just from ur age alone.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Hi!

Here's my 2 pennies worth..

Get a few more pics on, not necessarily cock shots but a body pic and maybe a nice bum one. Also try and put what your into and what you can offer. And then just send messages with a bit of thought. From what I've seen single males can wait a very long time to get a meet. Can u get on cam? Maybe get verified that way then people would know your ok to some extent? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have nothing to add to what the lady above has said, but can I just congratulate you on a post that asks for advice as opposed to moaning and whinging - that in itself is more refreshing than you are possibly aware.

Good Luck - I hope you make the site work for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chris, the best thing about your profile is that - for once - it's not written in text speak, and is in pretty good English, which is a good start. However, it could be a little longer, maybe an extra paragraph or so with a bit more info on what you have done, are looking for and can offer.

I would agree with keenfucktographer that your target audience is the hardest to find on Fabs - specially FF couples - so good luck with that!

Your photos (all one of them!) are letting you down at the moment. Have a look at some of the guys who post regularly in the forums and see the sort of standard of pics they show - and remember: they get meets!

If you're chatting to people already, you must be doing something right, but 'at your age' (makes me sound like the old fart that I am!!) the best thing you can do is find a club within comfortable travelling distance and go there REGULARLY so you get known. The problem with all younger guys specifically, is that you can find a very mature 19 yr old, and an equally immature 29yr old. Which are you? How does one know from your profile? But in person, someone can make a much more informed judgement and it will have an effect on your success rate almost immediately.

Other than all that (!) good luck with it.

Pork

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I like your profile, its upbeat, cheerful and not cocky. Maybe a couple more photos but mostly I think it'll just be a question of patience. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, I thought the age range might have been a bit of a stretch. I always make sure to do an advanced search so I only find people who might be interested in someone my age (as long as it isn't cocking up). Still, you never know when a cougar might find me on the prowl

I'd prefer not having to go to clubs and socials yet, mainly because I'm a jobless student (I've been looking for the past 2 years with no luck) who can't drive, so the only way I'd be able to make my way there is by public transport (trains I'm fine with but I think I can count the number of times I've got a bus on my fingers, I walk practically everywhere).

Until I get a job I'm being kind of tightfisted about everything, so the idea of paying out £35 to get into THI doesn't really appeal to me at the moment.

Have you got any other advice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh god, a sudden flood of messages! I didn't expect this thread to get so many posts so quickly. My last post must seem really random.

Thanks for replying so quickly everyone, I'll start taking your advice and see how things go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant drive, have been jobless a while(working now),I barely accom...of course I still look in my twenties

sorry meant to add 'look at me'!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yeah, I thought the age range might have been a bit of a stretch. I always make sure to do an advanced search so I only find people who might be interested in someone my age (as long as it isn't cocking up). Still, you never know when a cougar might find me on the prowl

I'd prefer not having to go to clubs and socials yet, mainly because I'm a jobless student (I've been looking for the past 2 years with no luck) who can't drive, so the only way I'd be able to make my way there is by public transport (trains I'm fine with but I think I can count the number of times I've got a bus on my fingers, I walk practically everywhere).

Until I get a job I'm being kind of tightfisted about everything, so the idea of paying out £35 to get into THI doesn't really appeal to me at the moment.

Have you got any other advice?"

Totally understand about the money situation and the travel.

Just a thought but might there be some women on campus who could be interested in an "arrangement"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, I thought the age range might have been a bit of a stretch. I always make sure to do an advanced search so I only find people who might be interested in someone my age (as long as it isn't cocking up). Still, you never know when a cougar might find me on the prowl

I'd prefer not having to go to clubs and socials yet, mainly because I'm a jobless student (I've been looking for the past 2 years with no luck) who can't drive, so the only way I'd be able to make my way there is by public transport (trains I'm fine with but I think I can count the number of times I've got a bus on my fingers, I walk practically everywhere).

Until I get a job I'm being kind of tightfisted about everything, so the idea of paying out £35 to get into THI doesn't really appeal to me at the moment.

Have you got any other advice?"

Okay, fair enough. Do what you CAN do at the moment if travel and the cost of clubs is out of the question right now. BUT... don't get disheartened as it may take you longer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I cant drive, have been jobless a while(working now),I barely accom...of course I still look in my twenties

sorry meant to add 'look at me'!"

Haha, showoff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't really travel and you can on the face of it only accommodate in a student house when your housemates are out. However good your profile is, these 2 factors will really work against you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Totally understand about the money situation and the travel.

Just a thought but might there be some women on campus who could be interested in an "arrangement"?

"

It'd be a little awkward for me to try and ask something like that, I made the mistake of living at home in my first year (which is about half an hour outside of Liverpool by train) so I never really made loads of new friends in the first 2 years of my course. Now I'm in my final year I've started making a few more female friends, but I always assume that they're seeing someone so I don't accidentally say the wrong thing and balls everything up (it's a blessing and a curse).

At least on here everyone is looking for near enough the same thing and it's clear as day. I'd like to make some form of arrangement with someone on campus, I just have no idea how to go about making it happen. The thought of asking makes me nervous, and nervous me is about as subtle as a flying brick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't really travel and you can on the face of it only accommodate in a student house when your housemates are out. However good your profile is, these 2 factors will really work against you. "

Oh it's even worse, to save money I stayed in my parents house, I've still got to pay rent but it's not as expensive as a student house, and I get a bigger room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I so wish I was a student again... (apart from doing a dissy)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Totally understand about the money situation and the travel.

Just a thought but might there be some women on campus who could be interested in an "arrangement"?

It'd be a little awkward for me to try and ask something like that, I made the mistake of living at home in my first year (which is about half an hour outside of Liverpool by train) so I never really made loads of new friends in the first 2 years of my course. Now I'm in my final year I've started making a few more female friends, but I always assume that they're seeing someone so I don't accidentally say the wrong thing and balls everything up (it's a blessing and a curse).

At least on here everyone is looking for near enough the same thing and it's clear as day. I'd like to make some form of arrangement with someone on campus, I just have no idea how to go about making it happen. The thought of asking makes me nervous, and nervous me is about as subtle as a flying brick."

It's really difficult isn't it. The desire to experiment sexually and the opportunity to do so rarely present themselves at the same time.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I miss my student years every day...It was like a candy shop...Plenty of hot girls and all brainy.

Right your profile...you are such a nice boy...some ladies here will kill you in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I'm in my final year I've started making a few more female friends, but I always assume that they're seeing someone so I don't accidentally say the wrong thing and balls everything up "

NEVER assume anything mate - all they can say is No.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss my student years every day...It was like a candy shop...Plenty of hot girls and all brainy.

Right your profile...you are such a nice boy...some ladies here will kill you in bed "

Yeah, but what a way to go!!!!

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Youre 20 years old, you have a 15min train ride to a few major towns and a few big cities, you are educated, can hold a conversation and studyingo for an 'ology'. Stop worrying, its called the beginning of the road, you have 40yrs ahead of you to play and have fun. Enjoy the hunt and dont limit yourself to websites, theres a whole wide world out there

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Youre 20 years old, you have a 15min train ride to a few major towns and a few big cities, you are educated, can hold a conversation and studyingo for an 'ology'. Stop worrying, its called the beginning of the road, you have 40yrs ahead of you to play and have fun. Enjoy the hunt and dont limit yourself to websites, theres a whole wide world out there "

only 40? I hope not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Youre 20 years old, you have a 15min train ride to a few major towns and a few big cities, you are educated, can hold a conversation and studyingo for an 'ology'. Stop worrying, its called the beginning of the road, you have 40yrs ahead of you to play and have fun. Enjoy the hunt and dont limit yourself to websites, theres a whole wide world out there

only 40? I hope not lol"

Oh Gawd! You mean I've only got another 9 years????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you are at Uni in Liverpool during the day - and I am assuming that those days aren't too chocka with lectures ?

Why not get talking to someone off here who is firstly OK with meeting guys your age and secondly is willing to meet up in the City Centre and enjoy a drink, a sandwich and a no strings chat one lunchtime ?

You can then take it from there at a pace that suits you both. If it goes nowhere other than lunch, what have you lost ?

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"studyingo for an 'ology'."
Maybe Fabswingerology..

Kris listen to the ladies . They know better. If you need help contact me, i will corrupt you just by taking you to some places..

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Youre 20 years old, you have a 15min train ride to a few major towns and a few big cities, you are educated, can hold a conversation and studyingo for an 'ology'. Stop worrying, its called the beginning of the road, you have 40yrs ahead of you to play and have fun. Enjoy the hunt and dont limit yourself to websites, theres a whole wide world out there

only 40? I hope not lol"

true, ill stretch it to 50

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Youre 20 years old, you have a 15min train ride to a few major towns and a few big cities, you are educated, can hold a conversation and studyingo for an 'ology'. Stop worrying, its called the beginning of the road, you have 40yrs ahead of you to play and have fun. Enjoy the hunt and dont limit yourself to websites, theres a whole wide world out there

only 40? I hope not lol

true, ill stretch it to 50 "

well never tell them I told you this but my parents are 85 and 78 and had to be told by a consultant to lay off sex for a while before my father's impending operation so I'd put it at least 65 more years if you're lucky. They aren't swingers as far as I know but you get the idea lol

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

im impressed, and very very happily looking forward to my retirement years now lol ...... wonder how old the oldest people on here are ( just a thought).

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"im impressed, and very very happily looking forward to my retirement years now lol ...... wonder how old the oldest people on here are ( just a thought). "
99 years old of course...some guys are even ready to shag her hahahaha...or him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im impressed, and very very happily looking forward to my retirement years now lol ...... wonder how old the oldest people on here are ( just a thought). "

There is a genuine couple on here - she is 67. He is..... 81.

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