FabSwingers.com forum: Any improvements I can make?

By *infullyNaughty OP Man
over a year ago

Stanwell

Hello lovelies!

I'm sorry I'm making this post, I know these posts can get tiresome but its gotten to the point where I need assistance.

I've been on this site for many years and in the past I used to have success with meeting people. Nowadays, I struggle to get a response.

The latest example of this, I was having a fun conversation with a lady for a couple of days, then I saw she looked at my profile then stopped responding. Could someone tell me if there's something offensive or off-putting about my profile? I normally only message people if I think we're a good match to have fun together. I understand that I'm not entitled to a response and it normally doesn't bother me but now I'm wondering what's wrong with my profile, and what can I do to be more appealing.

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on what messages you are sending. I read profiles before opening the message.

I didn’t think photos with black borders were allowed.

Your profile is okay but I read it and think what do I get if that makes sense. Talks about what you like done to you or are looking for but not really what you’re offering. And I don’t mean money.

So for me, personally, I wouldn’t reply

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Ok nothing really stands out and your pictures are not great.

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By *infullyNaughty OP Man
over a year ago

Stanwell

"It all depends on what messages you are sending. I read profiles before opening the message.

I didn’t think photos with black borders were allowed.

So for me, personally, I wouldn’t reply "

Yeah that makes sense! Thanks

I generally just send a face pic and just a friendly tasteful message

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By *infullyNaughty OP Man
over a year ago

Stanwell

"Ok nothing really stands out and your pictures are not great. "

Fair enough, thanks! What would you suggest for pictures

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Us and many others tend to avoid people who describe themselves are "professional" in terms of swinging. It's just self proclaimed nonsense.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I was having a fun conversation with a lady for a couple of days, then I saw she looked at my profile then stopped responding. Could someone tell me if there's something offensive or off-putting about my profile? "

You're perceiving cause and effect where it may not exist. If the problem was your profile, why would she engage in the original "fun conversation"? The fact that she looked at your profile means nothing - she could have clicked the wrong message header by mistake.

Fundamentally, if you want a reason why that conversation died, there's only one person to ask....unless she's blocked you, and assuming she's willing to provide that kind of feedback.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"Hello lovelies!

I'm sorry I'm making this post, I know these posts can get tiresome but its gotten to the point where I need assistance.

I've been on this site for many years and in the past I used to have success with meeting people. Nowadays, I struggle to get a response.

Thanks!

Got to say, that word "professional " puts a lot of people off.

We never see the point of it.

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By *oyboy181Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've just redrafted my bio would it be possible to get notes back to see if i'm on the right track please

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I've just redrafted my bio would it be possible to get notes back to see if i'm on the right track please "

One photo from 2016 lol. No it’s not good

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"I've just redrafted my bio would it be possible to get notes back to see if i'm on the right track please "

1 pic of your dic after a year of being on the site is not good oh snd in your profile you say ... " please show up to our meets as I let you don't or be late mutual respect is important." ... no idea what you mean?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I've just redrafted my bio would it be possible to get notes back to see if i'm on the right track please "

Was your own thread not enough?

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By *infullyNaughty OP Man
over a year ago

Stanwell

"Us and many others tend to avoid people who describe themselves are "professional" in terms of swinging. It's just self proclaimed nonsense."

I'll be completely honest, I put in the word "professional" very recently as a kind of test to see if it helps as I see that in profiles all the time. I never actually know what people mean by professional, I assume they mean they work in a professional job or something haha.

Thank you for the feedback though I've removed that word now.

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