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By *ystuff32 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex

Hi so the mrs has said she would like to try anal with her new vwe friend any tips on how she can get more relaxed there to make it easier ? We have done anal in the past but she is very tight

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Apparently popp@rs

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

Lot's of lube and ease it in

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

Lube and practice first with butt plugs

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Think colonsocopy: gas and air.

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By *hors fantasyCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Best way to be prepared for anal is to want anal, if your apprehensive it never works out properly

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Make sure you’re squeaky clean (colonic irrigation clean!)…and lube. Lots of it. I find it easier knowing that I’m spotless inside, and therefore I can relax about doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi so the mrs has said she would like to try anal with her new vwe friend any tips on how she can get more relaxed there to make it easier ? We have done anal in the past but she is very tight "
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Use a guy who is not so vwe to practice.... I'll happily help out haha

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By *hors fantasyCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Hi so the mrs has said she would like to try anal with her new vwe friend any tips on how she can get more relaxed there to make it easier ? We have done anal in the past but she is very tight .

Use a guy who is not so vwe to practice.... I'll happily help out haha"

Anal the only time a man will downplay the size of his cock….

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By *ily-StarWoman
over a year ago

street

Me personally, I used lots of lube and practiced with my butt plugs going up in size slowly so my body adjusted with each new one inserted and wore it for like an hour so I became accustomed to having something large in me

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By *ystuff32 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex


"Hi so the mrs has said she would like to try anal with her new vwe friend any tips on how she can get more relaxed there to make it easier ? We have done anal in the past but she is very tight .

Use a guy who is not so vwe to practice.... I'll happily help out haha

Anal the only time a man will downplay the size of his cock…."

Ha ha ha ha ha ha very true

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By *ystuff32 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex


"Me personally, I used lots of lube and practiced with my butt plugs going up in size slowly so my body adjusted with each new one inserted and wore it for like an hour so I became accustomed to having something large in me "

Thank you

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By *ystuff32 OP   Couple
over a year ago

essex


"Apparently popp@rs"

What is that ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit beside each other

Try one another - bond

Some of my best girlfriends have known an adjustable knob is best tryouts

Gate each other first and then play the body, doesn't matter who initiates, which position

It should be natural, lube will come in later

Have you tried air bone or pumping it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi so the mrs has said she would like to try anal with her new vwe friend any tips on how she can get more relaxed there to make it easier ? We have done anal in the past but she is very tight "

I (F - Mrs) love anal. Someone else said about wanting it in the first place helping you relax. I’d agree with that. Loads and loads of lube and start gently…J (Mr) is well endowed, and we just take our time, but once we get into it, it feels amazing. Hope she enjoys it

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best way to be prepared for anal is to want anal, if your apprehensive it never works out properly "

I concur... Bit of spit and yelling 'brace brace brace' works for me

If you are uptight /nervous /worried.. It won't be fun... Make it into a game until its a kink .. Then you won't look back

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Lots of Lube and try a position where she is laying on her back with her legs up. This will put less stress on her anus. It will be easier for insertion x

Mrs N

(Anal only hot wife) x

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral


"Hi so the mrs has said she would like to try anal with her new vwe friend any tips on how she can get more relaxed there to make it easier ? We have done anal in the past but she is very tight "

Butt plugs and Lube, & then when her hole is absolutely soaking apply some more. I'm a bi male and these helped me prepare for my 1st time - good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally need to have cum first before my bf can get his cock in. But once I have cum, lots of lube and slowly does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use a good decent lube, get him to use his fingers first. Then when ready let her take the cock slowly, let it rest in there for a bit at first to let her anus get used it. If the cock is very large I suggest using an average size vibro or dildo first.

Good luck to the missus, relax and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try silicone lube like Astroglide. The water-based stuff like KY or Durex Play etc are really no use for this.

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Being relaxed about the situation is a must, lots and lots of lube, and try different positions..... a butt plug can help get used to the sensation.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Start with buttplugs first. Then when he is entering her she can play with her clit. I love using a vibrator during anal.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Start with buttplugs first. Then when he is entering her she can play with her clit. I love using a vibrator during anal.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I like Liquid Silk lube.

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

Unlike most porn films it’s ver important not to go from arse to pussy ( The other way round is OK )

Various bacteria in the back passage can play havoc with those in the pussy and the most common ailment is Cystitis.

This can be painful and reoccurring.

I always use a condom for anal play whipping it off if I want to enter the pussy.

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By *ewhorizonsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Foot massage for the lady before it starts. Aromatherapy massage oils, scented candles and relaxing music. Hot bath, an orgasm and some lube (too much can cause it’s own problems I’ve found). Not thrusting too deep too early either.

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By *iquid GoldCouple
over a year ago

gloucestershire


"Apparently popp@rs"

No apparently about it! Our username works wonders. Slides in nice and easy after a little sniff *-

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By *udithdeneTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

That may be fine but if you have a heart issue may not be a good idea so what is another option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day it will hurt like hell to begin with, then it will feel like she is shitting herself and at the same time feeling like someone is pushing her turd back inside her until he lets go his load and unceremoniously pulls out with pebbles of poo on his cock and she will be farting spunk bubbles for an hour. Anal. So sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi so the mrs has said she would like to try anal with her new vwe friend any tips on how she can get more relaxed there to make it easier ? We have done anal in the past but she is very tight "

Amyl nitrate

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By *reakfast Not IncludedCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

I would say her getting close to Orgasm. That is my trick. Carry on stimulating her clit then he can push in with lots of lube... Back and forth little by little until its in. It should not hurt if she is aroused and wanting it

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By *ubynaughtyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Take your time lots of foreplay . Try different lubricant take it slow . A bottle of wine always helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day it will hurt like hell to begin with, then it will feel like she is shitting herself and at the same time feeling like someone is pushing her turd back inside her until he lets go his load and unceremoniously pulls out with pebbles of poo on his cock and she will be farting spunk bubbles for an hour. Anal. So sexy. "

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