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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

iv been on here 5 weeks now, no meets as of yet, but i know that takes time. thing is i hardly ever get messages replied to. i try to make each message i send original and unique, pay attention to their profile etc. but still not much luck at all. any advice would be greatly appreciated. i think my profile is pretty decent.. i cant wait to get my 1st meet, because after that i reckon it will get easier.

Thanks for any advice given

Danny x

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

Just chill there has to be mutual attraction on both sides.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Patience it'll happen in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi mate, I would say that updating your profile so frequently and putting dates on it may look a little desperate.

The thing to do is get out to any socials that ate taking place. Then people will take time to say hello and get to know you. There are loads of guys on here, bit only a small percentage attend socials.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Danny!!!! Have a look at the newby wanted thread...only three takers so far...good luck..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice so far. cant seem to find that thread : ( and you say about update dates, yet you have 1 on your own page.? just thought it was informative as to my situation and what im looking for etc. ill keep trying, and yes your right about the mutual attraction. Thanks again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of all the update dates, just awful, keep the comments though

For me distance is okay but your age would put me off, change the age, surely you wouldn't consider a 65 yr old??

Nice face picture you just need patience, 5 weeks really isn't long, use the forums to show you are a nice guy and good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

okay thanks, yeah to be fair i wouldnt consider a 65 year old think i rushed through that part of my profile without really thinking. so the dates do seem to be a big no no. Lol. think im gonna have to start posting more on these forums going to look for some local socials too, will help get the ball rolling

Thanks x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

As it says you like bbw on your profile there is a bbw social on 27th December at chams on darlaston, if you are free then put your name down....always good fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh great, is it ok to message you for some details? x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Sure, there is also a thread in the meets and events board x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a bad looking fella. Just have to hang in there... It will happen xx bit too far for us, but if you ever pass through lincoln........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you yeah im just going to keep at it, going to attend that ^^^ social too.

and same goes for you if your ever in worcester or maybe even birmingham xx

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