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By *haved and Smooth OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East

Has anyone had the same issue as us, Mrs has lost faith in fab, chatted to lots of people and does not enjoy the back and forth.

She loved the old single days, randon guy in bar and back to her place and wants the same from a mfm or mfmf couple….passing ships, hardly know them. But its small chance that will

happen naturally with the right type of people.

Has anyone else had the same, is the only option clubs?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Has anyone had the same issue as us, Mrs has lost faith in fab, chatted to lots of people and does not enjoy the back and forth.

She loved the old single days, randon guy in bar and back to her place and wants the same from a mfm or mfmf couple….passing ships, hardly know them. But its small chance that will

happen naturally with the right type of people.

Has anyone else had the same, is the only option clubs? "

Yes pretty much full of timewasters and fantasists on here. I'm just trying my luck with clubs as at least they're already there so won't get ghosted/stood up

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If you want an experience closer to picking up in bars, you could potentially find similar in a club. There'll be a range of people and some should potentially match your tastes.

Fab needs some careful use, to filter out the unsuitable as quickly as possible.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Clubs are definitely good for this but also try hotel bars. Just get chatting and see where it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs are definitely good for this but also try hotel bars. Just get chatting and see where it goes."

This is more what his wife wants

I don’t believe a club will suit her it’s the whole unexpected meeting that excites her I believe

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Organised socials are also good for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is full of cock flashers and fantasists but lately the clubs aren’t great either.

Lots of unconfident followers and scruffy d*unks.

What’s a girl got to do to get a decent spit roasting these days!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


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What’s a girl got to do to get a decent spit roasting these days!"

Ask nicely?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Has anyone had the same issue as us, Mrs has lost faith in fab, chatted to lots of people and does not enjoy the back and forth.

She loved the old single days, randon guy in bar and back to her place and wants the same from a mfm or mfmf couple….passing ships, hardly know them. But its small chance that will

happen naturally with the right type of people.

Has anyone else had the same, is the only option clubs? "

Fab has always been full of timewasters and dreamers what has changed is us. We are less tolerant and so know what we like and what we want and and not prepared to put up with any shit.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Yes my wife has give up with fab , she only gets interest when we visit club and parties , had to many time wasters ,but she is open to having fun if we bumped into anyone of interest in a bar

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By *lfasoCouple
over a year ago

South East


"Fab is full of cock flashers and fantasists but lately the clubs aren’t great either.

Lots of unconfident followers and scruffy d*unks.

!"

So true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone does seem to be going to clubs but mind you I have seen some guys being aggressive in them. Did not look fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had the same experience with timewasters and dreamers. Like the previous couple said, we are also less tolerant of guys and there inability to read our profile. We are looking for a suitable club to try and meet guys/people face to face rather than on here now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe just try askimg for what you want instead of back and forth emails.

Especially if your talking to single guys on fab, most will chat back and forth as movong too fast doesnput alot ofncouples/women off.

Theres nothing wrong with a woman asking for what she wants. Its a turn on actually!

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By *ornyman34Man
over a year ago

ipswich

I’d be happy getting a meet to be honest I wouodnt let anyone down lol

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We have been v lucky met with some lovely people over time but never chased anybody .. we wait for nice invites ..and enjoyed lots of experiences . usually find out the dreamers early doors

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By *irDomin8Man
over a year ago

Southend-On-Sea

It's very frustrating here. I do think many on here are jaded by bad experiences and to be honest some but not all have unrealistic expectations. Not all women are porn models, and very few guys have just stepped off of Mount Olympus.. I was considering clubs to meet but not sure now it's bad enough being seen as a wannabe fantasist on here, much less inviting in a crowd. Just gonna keep on being a good guy and hope to shine through. Happy fabbing

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