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By *igBunny OP   Woman
over a year ago

My Town

My friend keeps going soft and having to let me masturbate him, to get it hard again.

We get there in the end, but it's all start and stop.

I don't say anything to knock his confidence. Just be patient

Dare I suggest viagra?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I had a caricature pic (of me) as my avatar for about 10 minutes yesterday.

Then it got deleted.

Just forewarning you.

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By *igBunny OP   Woman
over a year ago

My Town

oh, thanks! haven't been on here for ages.

Do we have to pics of us now?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Photo's these days.

Turns out I really am no oil painting...

Back to the matter at hand - if it's spoiling the moment then a solution needs to be found - I know I'd be quite happy to try a viagra if it was going to help keep the Titanic at full steam ( ). Have you spoken to him about it?

Or maybe take the lifesize poster of his mother-in-law off the ceiling....

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By *igBunny OP   Woman
over a year ago

My Town

lol!

not mentioned it yet. he told me he has had a couple of nasty girlfriends in the past.

me mentioning it might make him feel worse.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

He must know it's happening, though!

One way of broaching the subject may be while you're "rebuilding" to ask whether there's any other method of achieving the same goal that he'd like - this then gives him the opportunity to talk about it if he wishes.

I wish you (or more crucially, your fella) much luck!

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Was at a houseparty a coupple weeks ago, I had the same problem, after the first hour my todger would not stay properly erect, 6 hours later it was a complete failure, while wifey and everyone else was still going strong!

Of course this is the first time I had not had any chemical enhancement. I would suggest not using viagra, the headaches are truly awful. Go for a product called Cialis, costs more on private prescription but the effects last for upto 36 hours. ie slightest stimulation and he's up and ready for action again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most common reason could be that he might have diabetes..which causes loss of erection. It is a symptom men get.

Tell him to go to his Docs for a simple blood test to diagnose or any good pharmacy will offer this free test.

Viagra only works if you can actually get an erection in the first place..

So its best to eliminate any physical problems before addressing any psychological ones..and I must say you are very supportive.. which is a great medicine on its own. Oh and I am a sexy scientist..XXXX

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By *igBunny OP   Woman
over a year ago

My Town

Thanks everyone. I should add he also works very hard.

He is off to join a new GP this week and they do an mot and urine sample.

will try and talk to him about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Further to the advice already given. I also had the same problem. I'm diabetic and have trouble keeping erections. My GP prescribed Cialis, it works, but I still have side effects such as nausea and bloating of the stomach.

It could be just simple stress so it's good your being supportive. Keep doing that and you'll get through it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could also get to the gym - working out can help many men a great deal in so many other ways as well,can't go into all the details just now as I'm gonna be late for work if I stay on here any longer !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is he taking blood pressure tablets this has the same effects what youre going through,id try viagra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffered a similar problem, but found Golden Root very good, its herbal, and had no after effects

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By *itchfieldMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"is he taking blood pressure tablets this has the same effects what youre going through,id try viagra"

I hope you mean after visiting the doctor!

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By *iogd1Man
over a year ago

prestwick

Hi i am a 50 year old guy have met 1 female for a chat only and she describes me as very handsome and good to talk too ,so why dont the people on this site get in contact me as a new member i seem to be ignored in the chat rooms ,i dont smoke or drink ,but dont mind others who do,and i am looking for a female or couple for fun ,AND CAN ACCOMMODATE

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By *iss_BehavingWoman
over a year ago

manchester

If you are going to recommend erection creating drugs, then try Kamagra rather than viagra, there isnt the massive head ache side effect that often comes with Viagra. Also, try whispering really sexy things to him right in the middle of sex,its worked wonders in several situations Ive been in. And as usual...lol, feed his ego, just don't over do it. Tell him, or rather encourage him how good he is making you feel, it often increases the performance thus making your pleasure even more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know a guy who took viagra for the first time and had a stroke, be very careful when taking it, i know it all seems fun and to most its harmless but if you have any health problems you dont even know you have the results can be fatal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I'd be quite happy to try a viagra if it was going to help keep the Titanic at full steam "

You need to remember though, when the Titanic went down, her boilers burst

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

I have only tried Viagra once.. and once was enough.. The banging headache was really unbearable, in fact it was that bad it stopped me getting an erection!

Would never take it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suffered a similar problem, but found Golden Root very good, its herbal, and had no after effects "

You say the herb Golden root can be good for helping guys but does anyone know something that really works to help increase the ladies sexual appetite even more ?

(not including testosterone,white wine or horny goat )

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"I suffered a similar problem, but found Golden Root very good, its herbal, and had no after effects

You say the herb Golden root can be good for helping guys but does anyone know something that really works to help increase the ladies sexual appetite even more ?

(not including testosterone,white wine or horny goat )"

A credit card?

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By *tumpy guyMan
over a year ago

dewsbury

hi i had problems for many year and carnt take viagra as have ad heart prob but alas dont have a problem any more as i opted to have implat now have a perminant erection 24hrs aday but dont get luck as think others are afraid of me lol but i have had some good meets and have verification but am still looking for fun ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's happen to me a ew times a while ago it maybe like me nervous having sex around other people..but the more he does do it and feels comfatable around other people you may find the problem simly just goes away

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex


"If you are going to recommend erection creating drugs, then try Kamagra rather than viagra, there isnt the massive head ache side effect that often comes with Viagra. Also, try whispering really sexy things to him right in the middle of sex,its worked wonders in several situations Ive been in. And as usual...lol, feed his ego, just don't over do it. Tell him, or rather encourage him how good he is making you feel, it often increases the performance thus making your pleasure even more."

You are wasting your skill, you should be a sex therapist.

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By *aughtyNurse999Woman
over a year ago

Fabville !!!

There are herbal remedies for both males and females.but still better to check with dr first some of these things can have side effects. especially with Viagra. blood pressure needs to be checked..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would recommend cialis. When Jay was awaiting his bypass he had to go on medication and that caused erection problems. Cialis you just take a tablet and it lasts up to 36 hours and your just like normal. No side affects what so ever. You get it through your doctor but do have to pay for the prescription.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friend keeps going soft and having to let me masturbate him, to get it hard again.

We get there in the end, but it's all start and stop.

I don't say anything to knock his confidence. Just be patient

Dare I suggest viagra?

"

How about using some lolly sticks and elastic bands for splints

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"My friend keeps going soft and having to let me masturbate him, to get it hard again.

We get there in the end, but it's all start and stop.

I don't say anything to knock his confidence. Just be patient

Dare I suggest viagra?

How about using some lolly sticks and elastic bands for splints"

How about you understanding someone has asked a genuine and personal question and got respectful answers until yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friend keeps going soft and having to let me masturbate him, to get it hard again.

We get there in the end, but it's all start and stop.

I don't say anything to knock his confidence. Just be patient

Dare I suggest viagra?

How about using some lolly sticks and elastic bands for splints

How about you understanding someone has asked a genuine and personal question and got respectful answers until yours"

It was, it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know always wake up horny.

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