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By *aughtyherts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Hi all,

Looking at organising our first meet up with another couple, we’re going to book a hotel but I actually don’t know how many beds would need to be in a room if both couples are playing!

Please advise. Thankyou

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Hi all,

Looking at organising our first meet up with another couple, we’re going to book a hotel but I actually don’t know how many beds would need to be in a room if both couples are playing!

Please advise. Thankyou "

Is this without a social, because I'm sure you could discuss sleeping arrangements with them then you'll know how many beds would be needed unless they booked a room in the same hotel as well

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By *aughtyherts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

It would just be for the “fun” if there wasn’t enough beds, where would the fun take place….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really varies. Are you all playing together. Playing with each other’s partners. Or soft swing.

Not many hotels have rooms with 2 double beds. That said you can get rooms with inter joining doors, Premier Inn definitely do. That could work then you could venture to each other’s bedroom.

But if you’re arranging to meet I’d just ask them their thoughts

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"It would just be for the “fun” if there wasn’t enough beds, where would the fun take place…."

Some hotel's do family rooms which has an additional bed as mentioned premier Inn have these sofa beds or guest rooms. Search online gives you required rooms to facilitate

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By *aughtyherts OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Thankyou. There’s family sized rooms with a double and single. We’re hoping for a full swap, playing with each other.

Planning on booking and then finding a couple to come play

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

OP your profile mentions that you are relatively new. Make sure that you have had a social with them or at least a video cam with both of them. In the past I made the mistake of meeting a couple, but only the man turned up cos "he knows what his wife likes and needed to try me 1st" you'll all be fine on a double bed, premier inns king size are perfect. Enjoy yourselves x

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

A double is fine if your not intending to have them say over.

But if you want that option, book a family room or a twin if one of those hotels where a twin room consists of two double beds. And if your smugglers you can always pull the beds together.

But just be careful of arousing the suspicion of reception in terms of numbers staying in a room. Because they like to know numbers for fire safety reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankyou. There’s family sized rooms with a double and single. We’re hoping for a full swap, playing with each other.

Planning on booking and then finding a couple to come play"

Surely it makes more sense to find a couple before you book a room?

You can book a room for any night in 2 minutes flat but finding a compatible couple?

Don’t know why but this doesn’t seem right to me.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We book into hotels and other couples join us. 1 room = 1 big bed usually. After a play they leave and we stay the night. You don't need family rooms. Book as you normally would. Enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it makes more sense to find a couple before you book a room?

You can book a room for any night in 2 minutes flat but finding a compatible couple?

Too right, just look at the number of people complaining about timewasters and no-shows...

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

A double bed is fine for two couples to play on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all,

Looking at organising our first meet up with another couple, we’re going to book a hotel but I actually don’t know how many beds would need to be in a room if both couples are playing!

Please advise. Thankyou "

Have you found the couple already? If so, ask them if they’re staying over etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP your profile mentions that you are relatively new. Make sure that you have had a social with them or at least a video cam with both of them. In the past I made the mistake of meeting a couple, but only the man turned up cos "he knows what his wife likes and needed to try me 1st" you'll all be fine on a double bed, premier inns king size are perfect. Enjoy yourselves x

"

Total chancer what did you say to him?

KJ

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"OP your profile mentions that you are relatively new. Make sure that you have had a social with them or at least a video cam with both of them. In the past I made the mistake of meeting a couple, but only the man turned up cos "he knows what his wife likes and needed to try me 1st" you'll all be fine on a double bed, premier inns king size are perfect. Enjoy yourselves x

Total chancer what did you say to him?

KJ"

No but in a sweary way

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford


"Hi all,

Looking at organising our first meet up with another couple, we’re going to book a hotel but I actually don’t know how many beds would need to be in a room if both couples are playing! Be very careful on booking up a hotel before you have met them , we booked a hotel and had a no show ,

Please advise. Thankyou "

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Thankyou. There’s family sized rooms with a double and single. We’re hoping for a full swap, playing with each other.

Planning on booking and then finding a couple to come play

Surely it makes more sense to find a couple before you book a room?

You can book a room for any night in 2 minutes flat but finding a compatible couple?

Don’t know why but this doesn’t seem right to me.

Good luck. "

Exactly this! Find a compatible couple first, then worry about booking a room. Also, many couples prefer to have some sort of social first rather than jumping into bed straight away. As how are you going to know if there is mutual attraction and chemistry otherwise? It would be devastating if you arranged to meet, they both turned up to your play date but then chose not to stay and play.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Definitely find a couple you click with first ,so many no shows for people lately.

I'd advise to have a social before any play too ,to make sure youre all happy and to discuss boundaries etc.

As others said it could be an expensive lesson if you get let down or there's no mutual attraction.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

You can definitely fit 4 people on a double for fun, it's snug but that adds to the fun

Lots of people won't want to stay the night so sleeping space might not be an issue

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By *imher8587Couple
over a year ago

Kingswinford

Sorry to hijack the thread! If a couple want to meet a single male in a hotel, do they just book a normal double room, turn up then the 3rd person turn up shortly afterwards? Would this cause an issue with the hotel staff at check in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hijack the thread! If a couple want to meet a single male in a hotel, do they just book a normal double room, turn up then the 3rd person turn up shortly afterwards? Would this cause an issue with the hotel staff at check in?"

We book the room and meet our guest in the bar, have a drink and then all just head off to the room together.

It’s never been an issue but I suppose it may depend upon the hotel.

We tend to use larger well known chain hotels.

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Well I wonder how it played out? No veri, might not have been a fab meet but would be interested how it went for the newbies.

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