FabSwingers.com forum: Confused

By *ros in Prenton OP Man
over a year ago

Wirral

We are a couple who has been chatting to quite a few couples. Everything going well, exchnged photos and all good and then we mention meeting.

Then it all goes quiet. They still look at our profile but don't respond to messages.

Is this normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you sure that they are a real couple?

For lots of people the thrill is in the chase and once you ask to meet reality kicks in.

We do socials early and if it’s not happening then we move on quickly.

Avoids disappointment.

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

"We are a couple who has been chatting to quite a few couples. Everything going well, exchnged photos and all good and then we mention meeting.

Then it all goes quiet. They still look at our profile but don't respond to messages.

Is this normal?"

Short answer is yes (in some circumstances):

It's not really a couple

They somehow lost interest

Life got in the way

They chat to endless and lost track

Can be anything really, wouldn't read to much in to it. Either drop another message to "catch up" or move on

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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago

Baughurst

Pretty normal to us. Some we suspect it is a fake profile (just a male), others a real couple but where the female is unaware of your profile and the conversation and just fishing for more photos or to see the private only pics.

If they persist not responding to you asking for a meeting but keep looking again and again at your profile, means they certainly have time to spend on Fab getting aroused so it is obvious they (he) could message but does not want to because the female (usually) is unaware. I know this is a stereotype, so just sharing our experience. Simply move on.

You look great by the way and if you put more pics of your hubby (both with clothes on/off) then you will attract couples that the female actually look at the profiles (if bi- or straight) and I am sure you will get many lovely couples in your area. xx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Perfectly normal. The longer the chat goes on, the less likely you are to meet them.

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By *ros in Prenton OP Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Thanks, great advice.

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By *ros in Prenton OP Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a couple who has been chatting to quite a few couples. Everything going well, exchnged photos and all good and then we mention meeting.

Then it all goes quiet. They still look at our profile but don't respond to messages.

Is this normal?"

From experience, I have learned there are a fair number of single guys posing as couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a couple who has been chatting to quite a few couples. Everything going well, exchnged photos and all good and then we mention meeting.

Then it all goes quiet. They still look at our profile but don't respond to messages.

Is this normal?"

I would ask early on if you can chat with the female half. Single guys with a fake couple's profile will run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a couple who has been chatting to quite a few couples. Everything going well, exchnged photos and all good and then we mention meeting.

Then it all goes quiet. They still look at our profile but don't respond to messages.

Is this normal?"

If the guy asks what you would like to do to his wife run. She probably doesn't know he is on here or he is a single guy.

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