FabSwingers.com forum: Finishing while wearing a condom difficulties?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone - just a quick one was on a tinder date recently and wearing a condom because safe sex yo but I was trying and trying to finish but alas no end product so we ripped it off and she tugged off until I finished. Anyone having difficulties like this while wearing? I dunno if it was the type I was wearing as well

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I’ve only played with three men who can finish wearing a condom, and I know a few who lose their erection, so no, not just you. Try more posh wanks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've encountered a lot of problems with men and condoms. More fails than successes, it's as frustrating for us as it is for you. No pressure lads

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Hi everyone - just a quick one was on a tinder date recently and wearing a condom because safe sex yo but I was trying and trying to finish but alas no end product so we ripped it off and she tugged off until I finished. Anyone having difficulties like this while wearing? I dunno if it was the type I was wearing as well"

Do a search for ‘UK condom sizing’, then follow the guidance about your cock size (the toilet roll tube test), and compare condom manufacturers and their shapes/sizing. When you work out which condoms actually fit you, so feel comfortable to wear during sex, it will feel more ‘natural’, and therefore enjoyable, and hopefully you’ll be able to finish

You also need to retrain your mind to think “this condom means I’m having an awesome time!” instead of “this rubber bag is taking the edge off my experience” Good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same... difference is once I've had one on then that's it, even once it comes off it still won't happen

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I'm the same... difference is once I've had one on then that's it, even once it comes off it still won't happen

I had a bad reaction to a free condom supplied in a club, and that prompted me to research the subject more. I now only use Mates Skyns, and they’re a part of the fun, not a barrier to fun

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I recently had a guy cum using a condom. He messaged me later to say he rarely cums so he was pleasantly surprised.

I have met a few guys who can’t cum wearing a condom but they are in the minority. Maybe you need to find the right condom and then actuality carry them with you. Don’t rely on the woman carrying them!

Meet people where there’s a connection, plenty foreplay and be relaxed. Also, if your using lube, make sure it doesn’t affect your condom.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve only played with three men who can finish wearing a condom, and I know a few who lose their erection, so no, not just you. Try more posh wanks?"

Yeah that might be a shout cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've encountered a lot of problems with men and condoms. More fails than successes, it's as frustrating for us as it is for you. No pressure lads

Yeah sometimes I overthink like why am I not finishing x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You also need to retrain your mind to think “this condom means I’m having an awesome time!” instead of “this rubber bag is taking the edge off my experience” Good luck mate

That’s brilliant I’ll deffo give that a try x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm the same... difference is once I've had one on then that's it, even once it comes off it still won't happen

I had a bad reaction to a free condom supplied in a club, and that prompted me to research the subject more. I now only use Mates Skyns, and they’re a part of the fun, not a barrier to fun

Not tried Skyns I normally go for Durex and not had complaints until very recently might consider the brand change

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I recently had a guy cum using a condom. He messaged me later to say he rarely cums so he was pleasantly surprised.

Meet people where there’s a connection, plenty foreplay and be relaxed. Also, if your using lube, make sure it doesn’t affect your condom.

I think I’ll try a few brands and see what happens and use the sizing guide as mentioned before but thanks x

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I recently had a guy cum using a condom. He messaged me later to say he rarely cums so he was pleasantly surprised.

Meet people where there’s a connection, plenty foreplay and be relaxed. Also, if your using lube, make sure it doesn’t affect your condom.

Wot she said...

In heyday of HIV it would be a death sentence if not wrapped. So you have to develop sexiness with condom... Like rolling it on him with your mouth while maintaining eye contact... And when you grip and ungrip his cock (pelvic exercises girls!) as he's fucking you... Then it is your whole mind/person having awesome sex... Not just your genitals...

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

So many have reported this and reading the comments here their accounts are corroborated.

At one time I thought that it was just a problem that I had.

One associated matter is that of the condoms lack of sensation causing my cock to go soft, fall off unbeknowenst to either of us, hey! Sensation returns, a lovely fuck follows but cum is inside the vagina not the dispirited bit of plastic that is fished out later.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried a thinner condom?

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

"Have you tried a thinner condom?"

Tried the thinnest available.

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By *hanel3Man
over a year ago

Nr Chester

I know from my own experience (I have a very large helmet) how difficult and uncomfortable they can be but never had the courage to ask the pharmacist if they did them in different sizes. I dont think they do - but correct me if I'm wrong

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By *asterandGenieCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Previously had problems performing with them and staying hard and between G and I it’s bareback

We started practicing using them and I also went with skyns and that seems to have done the trick

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

There are different types of condoms, perhaps try and find one that suits you best.

Or a woman you fancy more

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I know from my own experience (I have a very large helmet) how difficult and uncomfortable they can be but never had the courage to ask the pharmacist if they did them in different sizes. I dont think they do - but correct me if I'm wrong"

They come in different sizes.

The chemist is not going to name and shame you right there in the shop either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres lots of good condoms you can get online for the larger member, I like a company called my size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried a thinner condom?

Tried the thinnest available.

Which make is that?

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Even the free ones from the clinic come in different sizes. You could just Google it to see your options.

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By *fweonlymeettwiceMan
over a year ago

Madrid

I have a problem Cumming without a condom while having intercourse but still erect so frustrating at times end up having finish off with a hand job

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I'm the same... difference is once I've had one on then that's it, even once it comes off it still won't happen

I had a bad reaction to a free condom supplied in a club, and that prompted me to research the subject more. I now only use Mates Skyns, and they’re a part of the fun, not a barrier to fun

Not tried Skyns I normally go for Durex and not had complaints until very recently might consider the brand change

Skyns are brilliant, for me anyway, so I always have some with me, just in case, you know…..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm the same... difference is once I've had one on then that's it, even once it comes off it still won't happen

I had a bad reaction to a free condom supplied in a club, and that prompted me to research the subject more. I now only use Mates Skyns, and they’re a part of the fun, not a barrier to fun

Not tried Skyns I normally go for Durex and not had complaints until very recently might consider the brand change

Skyns are brilliant, for me anyway, so I always have some with me, just in case, you know…..?

Skyns are boss class condoms for me its almost like not wearing one

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

Mr here. In the past I’ve struggled on a few occasions. Worked out it was the condoms

The thing is, they’re a one-size-fits-all deal. But I’m quite girthy so the tightness of off the shelf condoms actually makes it difficult to maintain an erection. Yeah, they can stretch to ridiculous sizes but that doesn’t mean they’re going to be effective!

I use theyfit condoms since I discovered them. Not had a problem since

It’s really amazing the difference it makes. Highly recommend giving them a go

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By *otBrunetteHimCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Haven’t used a condom for 15 years so can only imagine the difficulties they present

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