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By *at1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hi this might sound a silly question but if it says on a female profile looking to meet guys but cant accom or travel how can they meet ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Magic!

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By *at1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Lol weird haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's Magic!"

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Can't accommodate mean you can't go to her house and she can't provide hotel. That mean youtake her to your place. Can't travel means she is not ready to get out of her postecode or go miles away. That mean you go closer to her or you must live not too far.

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By *at1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

A bit confusing realy

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By *at1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Can't accommodate mean you can't go to her house and she can't provide hotel. That mean youtake her to your place. Can't travel means she is not ready to get out of her postecode or go miles away. That mean you go closer to her or you must live not too far. "
IS THAT YOUR VERSION

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit confusing realy "

I don't see why? She may be married, live with children, care for elderly parents or house share, therefore she cannot accommodate.

If she does not have a car, she is then reliant on public transport and it can be expensive travelling so therefore she is probably only willing to meet those who live not far from her.

Not confusing really is it?

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Can't accommodate mean you can't go to her house and she can't provide hotel. That mean youtake her to your place. Can't travel means she is not ready to get out of her postecode or go miles away. That mean you go closer to her or you must live not too far. IS THAT YOUR VERSION"
contact someone with that option on her profile and ask what she means by can't travel and can't accommodate then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or she may choose not to accommodate to say being talked about by neighbours if she lives in a little village, or she may just choose not too, lots do as their home is not a knocking shop

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"A bit confusing realy

I don't see why? She may be married, live with children, care for elderly parents or house share, therefore she cannot accommodate.

If she does not have a car, she is then reliant on public transport and it can be expensive travelling so therefore she is probably only willing to meet those who live not far from her.

Not confusing really is it?"
thanks for pointing that out

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By *at1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Well.yes it is cause where ever your meeting is classed as traveling even if its even next door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually means you have to provide the accommodation and the transport. Shouldn't be an issue if you live in the same town and drive.

Or if you're from out of town be willing to use the extra fuel and pay for a hotel.

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

maybe she likes tantric sex

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By *at1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Maybe she wants all thefun with no expense

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By *at1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Maybe she wants all thefun with no expense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Local hotel, car/van/lorry, etc. etc...

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By *at1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hotel is surely traveling think there needs to be an option saying how far you would travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wont travel far. i do enough travelling with work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotel is surely traveling think there needs to be an option saying how far you would travel"

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I have a Travelodge within walking distance from home, and do not consider going there as travelling.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"A bit confusing realy

I don't see why? She may be married, live with children, care for elderly parents or house share, therefore she cannot accommodate.

If she does not have a car, she is then reliant on public transport and it can be expensive travelling so therefore she is probably only willing to meet those who live not far from her.

Not confusing really is it?"

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By *at1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have a fuck buddy at end of rd i consider it as traveling as im not accomodating

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Or she may choose not to accommodate to say being talked about by neighbours if she lives in a little village, or she may just choose not too, lots do as their home is not a knocking shop"

we meet people in our home occasionally and don't consider it to be a knocking shop in any way

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi this might sound a silly question but if it says on a female profile looking to meet guys but cant accom or travel how can they meet ????"

whenever I see this I assume that the person isn't meeting, it never occurred to me to think otherwise I'll have to rethink now as it seems to have different meanings for different people

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"I have a fuck buddy at end of rd i consider it as traveling as im not accomodating"
that is crossing road and not traveling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a fuck buddy at end of rd i consider it as traveling as im not accomodating"

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It may be to you, however, not necessarily the case for other people.

You asked for opinions in an open forum, therefore, please be prepared to accept those that differ from your own!

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By *at1980 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Totaly accept other peoples views so not accomodating means never a your house and not travel means i will travel but depends how far im willing to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi this might sound a silly question but if it says on a female profile looking to meet guys but cant accom or travel how can they meet ????"

For women, it's usually a sign they have a young family and you can't go to hers and she can't travel outside her home town. The terms are a bit ambiguous and vary according to who is stating them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or she may choose not to accommodate to say being talked about by neighbours if she lives in a little village, or she may just choose not too, lots do as their home is not a knocking shop

we meet people in our home occasionally and don't consider it to be a knocking shop in any way "

But it is a comment I have seen by several women when accommodating was being discussed on the forums, so no disrespect was meant by it and I was merely trying to answer the OP's comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a fuck buddy at end of rd i consider it as traveling as im not accomodating"

If I have to get in my car to go and meet someone, I would deem that travelling, wandering to the end of the road I would not deem as travelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi this might sound a silly question but if it says on a female profile looking to meet guys but cant accom or travel how can they meet ????

whenever I see this I assume that the person isn't meeting, it never occurred to me to think otherwise I'll have to rethink now as it seems to have different meanings for different people"

I have always thought cannot accommodate and cannot travel meant exactly what they mean not a code for not meeting people or am I missing something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotel is surely traveling think there needs to be an option saying how far you would travel"

Not necessarily as I say how far I am prepared to travel on my profile, others don't but either meet people whilst on holiday or can travel round the world, how would you define that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe she wants all thefun with no expense"

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I'm with KinkyKytten on this one. I'd not class meeting someone within my hometown as travelling, but anything further afield I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotel is surely traveling think there needs to be an option saying how far you would travel"

I think they should have that option too!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's not just females who do this - I've seen single guys who've said 'no accom' as well as 'do not travel', and it's made me wonder how they ever get many meets. I think these men don't think it through so well, but appreciate for single women, with kids etc at home, that things can be more complex.

It's best to say something in your profile about how/when you meet really. I prefer to accom, occasionally go to clubs, but state this in the text part. I would gladly travel to Australia for a meet, as long as the First Class flight ticket is pre-paid etc - I can be flexible.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hi this might sound a silly question but if it says on a female profile looking to meet guys but cant accom or travel how can they meet ????

whenever I see this I assume that the person isn't meeting, it never occurred to me to think otherwise I'll have to rethink now as it seems to have different meanings for different people

I have always thought cannot accommodate and cannot travel meant exactly what they mean not a code for not meeting people or am I missing something "

No I think it just depends on who is posting it and who is reading it

Ihave seen some profiles where the person says they aren't meeting at the moment and tehy put can't accommodate can't travel so I just put 2 and 2 togetehr and got 47

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Princess to be avoided lol! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm with KinkyKytten on this one. I'd not class meeting someone within my hometown as travelling, but anything further afield I would."

I agree with that, though I usually assume can't travel and can't accomodate as meeting at clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it means you can't stay the night and we can't go far as we have kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a fuck buddy at end of rd i consider it as traveling as im not accomodating"

nitpicking springs to mind lol.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

we used to have this on our profile

what we meant was .. u cant stay at our place .. ie we wud like guys who can accomodate

local guys as we dont drive

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I have cannot accommodate and cannot travel because it doesn't give me the option to say what I actually mean so I tell anyone that asks.

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