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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi there and can some please tell me how do you breaking the ice with the first message you send,my messages are nice and never rude and ask how they are etc,then i see they looked at me and never reply,so how do i get things going x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they aren't rude, just keep trying. People don't like 'copy and paste' messages so make sure you have read the profile carefully. Some fems, me included, ask for a face pic and a word to be put in subject matter, just to check that profile has been read. Make time to pay compliment, like..

Hi, just seen your profile. You have really lovely pics ESP .... one. Your interests are what I'm into too. Do you think we could chat sometime? I've enclosed a pic of my face, if you like perhaps you could reply?

Something short but thoughtful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi there and can some please tell me how do you breaking the ice with the first message you send,my messages are nice and never rude and ask how they are etc,then i see they looked at me and never reply,so how do i get things going x "

Make sure you read and understand the profile. Make sure you're nt wasting your it their time. Never use a blatant cut and paste message. Actually SAY something!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi there and can some please tell me how do you breaking the ice with the first message you send,my messages are nice and never rude and ask how they are etc,then i see they looked at me and never reply,so how do i get things going x

Make sure you read and understand the profile. Make sure you're nt wasting your it their time. Never use a blatant cut and paste message. Actually SAY something!"

What, so 'fancy a fuck - I'k well horny' doesn't work ? Lol.

To be honest, what people have said so far, is exactly what you'll should be doing.

But I'm also gonna chuck in another element into the equation. You both might be so right and sexually compatible for each other, but if you catch that person in the wrong mood and boom there goes any chance you ever had.

So you may be doing all the right things, you just may need lady luck to smile at ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi there and can some please tell me how do you breaking the ice with the first message you send,my messages are nice and never rude and ask how they are etc,then i see they looked at me and never reply,so how do i get things going x

Make sure you read and understand the profile. Make sure you're nt wasting your it their time. Never use a blatant cut and paste message. Actually SAY something!

What, so 'fancy a fuck - I'k well horny' doesn't work ? Lol.

To be honest, what people have said so far, is exactly what you'll should be doing.

But I'm also gonna chuck in another element into the equation. You both might be so right and sexually compatible for each other, but if you catch that person in the wrong mood and boom there goes any chance you ever had.

So you may be doing all the right things, you just may need lady luck to smile at ya.

"

'fancy a fuck - I'm well horny' works for us. Just not as a first message on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a thread on here recently about the sort of questions people hate - well worth reading.

But messages that show you've read the profile and ask a question worth replying too will always do well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

polar bear!!!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"hi there and can some please tell me how do you breaking the ice with the first message you send,my messages are nice and never rude and ask how they are etc,then i see they looked at me and never reply,so how do i get things going x "

If I knew exactly what to put in the message - maybe I'd have more luck in getting replies.

Just try to be yourself - and hope you make a connection with the person/people at the other end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instead of starting these threads every few weeks OP - as they clearly aren't helping you. Maybe you should invest in a good 'self help' book?

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"Instead of starting these threads every few weeks OP - as they clearly aren't helping you. Maybe you should invest in a good 'self help' book? "

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