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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do men come to mine after a gd chat then fook and go i,m sick i,m worth more than the crap they give me to get me knickers off.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

They came had sex and left... Sorry you feel let down.

It is all a learning experience, look for guys with verifications that maybe says repeater.

All the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cos you let them and you that good?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and you from hetton le hole ..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

maybe tell them you want more than a quick shag?

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Just had look at your profile and think you need to make it a little clearer ....... it looks like you want a long sex session, but doesnt say anything about wanting them to hang around for coffee afterwards, if you know what i mean.

Just a few tweaks will make it clearer.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Check to see if they say they love lots of foreplay. I do - and I love cuddles and a chat afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do men come to mine after a gd chat then fook and go i,m sick i,m worth more than the crap they give me to get me knickers off. "

You need to make it clear what your looking for before you meet.

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By *ikeoxbiggerMan
over a year ago

N Yorkshire

Stop judging by looks alone 9/10 pretty boys r players , if they show lots of verifications is another , usually the clues are all there in the profile or lack of it. The good guys are the ones u would least choose. One ugly good guy is worth a hundred 'pretty' bad guys .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because your lettin them,why not try a different approach instead of inviting them to yours,tell them first meet is for a social,a coffee or something,you don't play first meet,it might out the guys who fuck and go,tell them on that social what you are lookin for,see if they make an effort,not saying it would work all the time but it could make some difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP, a classic example of communication, or rather the lack of it.

You're allowed to say what you're looking for, in your profile and face-to-face chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one guy like that, decided not go get in touch again. They don't need to stay around afterwards for hours, just a bit more than leave straight after a shag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well i,m sorted now thanks for your kind messages ,but i have met a nice man so he can keep me going mind h gd at that i,m not looking for fun i goty a nice man for me fun and he dont fook n go . i,m happyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

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By *ovlad1986Man
over a year ago

Bedworth


"why do men come to mine after a gd chat then fook and go i,m sick i,m worth more than the crap they give me to get me knickers off. "

well i would make you a cuppa and chat the day away before round 2 and 3 but hey oh im to young x

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"Stop judging by looks alone 9/10 pretty boys r players , if they show lots of verifications is another , usually the clues are all there in the profile or lack of it. The good guys are the ones u would least choose. One ugly good guy is worth a hundred 'pretty' bad guys . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you have plenty of verifcations so i dont think your doing to badly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do men come to mine after a gd chat then fook and go i,m sick i,m worth more than the crap they give me to get me knickers off. "

thats what some men are like from here hun its happened to us twice well me should i say dont like it worry you they arent worth it

good luck hun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop judging by looks alone 9/10 pretty boys r players , if they show lots of verifications is another , usually the clues are all there in the profile or lack of it. The good guys are the ones u would least choose. One ugly good guy is worth a hundred 'pretty' bad guys . "

Yes, though I wouldn't dream of implying any of the guys I see are ugly. They're all gorgeous, just some would not be classed as 'pretty'.

I also adore the cuddles and snuggles, and any gentleman not prepared to spend a short while indulging me would not get a second invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do men come to mine after a gd chat then fook and go i,m sick i,m worth more than the crap they give me to get me knickers off. "

Probably has something to do with it being a swinging site - perhaps try a dating site or look for men on here that one more than just sex; you're right though I guess we're all worth more than that

All the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do men come to mine after a gd chat then fook and go i,m sick i,m worth more than the crap they give me to get me knickers off.

Probably has something to do with it being a swinging site - perhaps try a dating site or look for men on here that one more than just sex; you're right though I guess we're all worth more than that

All the best "

You see I don't get this? Why is looking for the whole sexual experience, from flirting to foreplay to sex to afterplay/snuggles more relevant to dating? Surely if you find a guy on a dating site they might expect 'more' than the sex and want a relationship?

I think the guys who fuck and go are the ones who should be looking elsewhere - most obviously to the phone number of the local hooker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do men come to mine after a gd chat then fook and go i,m sick i,m worth more than the crap they give me to get me knickers off. "

Full sack: Man will do almost anything to get a fuck.

Empty sack: Man will do almost anything to leave the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stop judging by looks alone 9/10 pretty boys r players , if they show lots of verifications is another , usually the clues are all there in the profile or lack of it. The good guys are the ones u would least choose. One ugly good guy is worth a hundred 'pretty' bad guys . "

i dont mind a fook and go.. and i get off on the pretty boys.. its 90% the fun for me.. sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do men come to mine after a gd chat then fook and go i,m sick i,m worth more than the crap they give me to get me knickers off. "

Maybe they don't agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do men come to mine after a gd chat then fook and go i,m sick i,m worth more than the crap they give me to get me knickers off.

Probably has something to do with it being a swinging site - perhaps try a dating site or look for men on here that one more than just sex; you're right though I guess we're all worth more than that

All the best

You see I don't get this? Why is looking for the whole sexual experience, from flirting to foreplay to sex to afterplay/snuggles more relevant to dating? Surely if you find a guy on a dating site they might expect 'more' than the sex and want a relationship?

I think the guys who fuck and go are the ones who should be looking elsewhere - most obviously to the phone number of the local hooker."
OP and Scarlett Heart: with the greatest respect ladies, I think you have missed the point of what Swinging is. It's is recreational sex. It's not relationship sex. What one person deems to be 'recreational' may well be a quick 'fuck n'go', but for others it can include flirting, wining and dining etc - you name it.

It is a very true rule in Swinging that you get back what you put out. If your profile 'puts out' the 'impression' that you are only interested in 'fuck n'go' sex, then - surprise, surprise - that is what you will get. OP - sorry to say it but your profile DOES give me that impression. I know your profile is quite short, but - probably unintentionally - it gives quite a strong message out.

And as for whether a guy who only wants 'fuck n'go' (that reminds me: need to buy shampoo...) that does NOT mean he should be looking to find a prostitute. If a guy - OR a woman - just wants that kind of sex, then that's what they want - and they usually want it with someone who WANTS (key word!!!!) the same. A prostitute doesn't 'want' that kind of sex - she is doing it for the money (it's not called the oldest profession for nothing...)

Pork

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