FabSwingers.com forum: Number of unread messages

By *ames Best OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

Afternoon all

Long time lurker first time poster here

I’m curious - who holds the record for total unread messages in there inbox

There are some incredibly hot fabbers on here and it got me thinking, I bet there are some fabbers who are inundated

James

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard women say 1000+ however mine start to self delete at around the 450 Mark, so I've never had more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m extremely lucky to get one, they usually say go away so never more than one

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I just delete as it gets too much after awhile

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I put one pic up once and got over 200 messages in 2 hours of posting. I have a busy full time job etc, I can't read all of them,let alone reply back to all. Especially when 99% are unsuitable

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Just think people need to not get upset or angry if someone can't or don't want to reply. As some men send you novel excerpts and keep sending you constant messages, hoping you eventually reply back and thank him for his efforts

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

There are some incredibly hot fabbers on here and it got me thinking, I bet there are some fabbers who are inundated

Your thinking is correct. But some of the hot ones don't get inundated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got three and a half thousand right now

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've none and thats pretty much the norm for me. I've tight filters so don't get many messages and I usually read or delete them within a day if I get some .It suits the way I do fab.

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By *ames Best OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"I’m extremely lucky to get one, they usually say go away so never more than one"

I’ll send you one mate

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I've got no unread messages

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By *ames Best OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"I’ve got three and a half thousand right now"
blimey !

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By *ames Best OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

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By *ames Best OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

I wonder why ?

There are some incredibly hot fabbers on here and it got me thinking, I bet there are some fabbers who are inundated

Your thinking is correct. But some of the hot ones don't get inundated."

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By *ames Best OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

That’s probably a good idea, very wise
"I've none and thats pretty much the norm for me. I've tight filters so don't get many messages and I usually read or delete them within a day if I get some .It suits the way I do fab."

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By *ames Best OP Man
over a year ago

Somerset

"I’ve got three and a half thousand right now"

No surprise fantastic photos on your profile

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

As a well verified couple , with decent up to date pics , we struggle to get a message full stop

So not too much danger of ang going unread !

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I wonder why ?

They exert controls.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

0 for us.

Maybe our filters and profile text are working after all....

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By *ortherner81Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I've got no unread messages

Well set up filters or strong with the delete button..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now I have 4 unread I keep on top of my mailbox I hate seeing a number. I do delete a lot everyday though

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Never been inundated, not sure I could cope getting that many messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

213 & I have no intention of answering either this is a swinging site not insta-shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

400 odd currently but many ladies have much more

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

0 for us. Usually delete most straight away

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

13 at the minute.

(But have "Not meeting/Chatting" as my tagline)

Previously up to 200 on any given day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bulk deleted 2100 the other day, and I’ve got 758 today. Most of them are so dreadful, they are not worth reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bulk deleted 2100 the other day, and I’ve got 758 today. Most of them are so dreadful, they are not worth reading. "

Ditto lol! I lose the will to even open most of them!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Since I logged on about 45 mins ago I've got 3 unread messages

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By *rs W AnchorWoman
over a year ago

North Norfolk

I'm often at 1000+. There is just noway I could keep up with them all. I need a fabmin assistant!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

With filters I now have no unread messages. Even when I had no filters as I was organising a social, I'd only get about 50 to 60 messages a day and I skim / read / reply or delete daily.

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

I've got one. It's off fab

I've blocked everyone else

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By *ysteriousgirl97Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Currently only 1, but I'm an organisation freak so I like to keep on top of them and probably reply to like 1 in 100

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By *ustus696969Couple
over a year ago

Southampton

Maximum is about 5 for us not popular at all

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Zero, OCD doesn't allow notifications of any kind to hang around, and not enough daily to mount up to much anyway

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