FabSwingers.com forum: Finding like minded couples

By *BW F Herts couple 48 OP Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

We have been on fab a while, and so far have enjoyed the experience. We are on fab to meet couples, but this seems an area we struggle on. We dont seem to attract couples, we do appreciate that what we are looking for is quite specific so it does narrow our choices . Could do with some advise about the profile from a couple see if we can improve it .thanks

By *ihmMan
over a year ago

West Wales

"We have been on fab a while, and so far have enjoyed the experience. We are on fab to meet couples, but this seems an area we struggle on. We dont seem to attract couples, we do appreciate that what we are looking for is quite specific so it does narrow our choices . Could do with some advise about the profile from a couple see if we can improve it .thanks "

There seems to be plenty of other couples about looking for similar things. Every preference narrows your choices, yours don't seem to have narrowed them down to anything unachievable. Keep plugging away and you and your desired couple will find each other eventually

By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We tend to find it easier to find single females than couples or suprising blokes (tones of opportunity and offers with guys but Mrs Misfits is very picky). The main reason is it's hard to find chemistry and attraction for everyone. It's easier to find one person than two. We both have to like the man and/or woman. I'm straight but I still have to like guy because I don't want anyone who's not right for Mrs Misfits and I need a good repport with them because I have to work them. I suppose I'm fussy when it comes to the guys for Mrs Misfit too. Naturally I assume it's the same for you guys? Even though your both straight and not having sex with your same sex counterpart you still need to also like them personally? If so this is part of the difficulty being a couple looking for couples. So that's a difficulty faced by us all as attraction and chemistry is very subjective. To that end in some ways it more straightforward when we both attend clubs alone as we just have ourselves to please regarding who we go with.

Obviously being a straight couple may be a barrier. Many couples are bi-fem and some all bi. As a bi-fem couple naturally our preference would be another bi-fem couple because we could enjoy more with them. Not that we can't do straight, we have encountered straight women couples before. But that is clearly going to limit your opportunity. It just is what it is.

I think posting threads like this is helpful to you. Totally straight couples are a little niche on here and it's best to do what you can to reach out to other straight couples or those willing to play straight.

Most of all just recognise that your ok, it's actually hard for lots of couples. Especially if you don't participate in the club scene.