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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We went to a Naturist beach a while back, my Wife was a little apprehensive about going Naked in front of others, I was just being a Perv , but once we were both Naked, a lot of guys, and some couples walked passed us, they all looked, and she loved it.

After a while we went into the dunes, where it seemed more private, and even more people came by, she got more daring and laid on her back giving people a clear view of her nakedness.

I was getting turned on by her getting turned on.

She sat up and started stroking my cock, only stopping if anyone walked passed.

She then got on all fours, and allowed me to feel how wet she was, it was so horny.

We got up and went back to our Hotel for a very much needed fuck.

We are going back next weekend, so would love to know the best way of encouraging her to go further

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

It sounds like she had a good time

Have you asked her if she'd like to take things further, what further might mean to her & you, you each might have different ideas/fantasies

Maybe you could try a naturist club that allows some play (most don't do choose carefully)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have chatted about it, she sounded interested in taking it further, and to be honest, the difference in her from arriving at the beach, to when we left was astonishing, but I just want it to be her decision, not mine.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We have chatted about it, she sounded interested in taking it further, and to be honest, the difference in her from arriving at the beach, to when we left was astonishing, but I just want it to be her decision, not mine."

If you genuinely want it to be her decision talk to her and ask her how or if she would like to proceed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have talked, and all I can say for sure is, we are going again.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"We have chatted about it, she sounded interested in taking it further, and to be honest, the difference in her from arriving at the beach, to when we left was astonishing, but I just want it to be her decision, not mine."

Must you encourage her though? It does sound like she set her pace and took herself outside her comfort zone, pushed her limits but all in her own time and maybe why she really did enjoy it so much as no pressure. Communication with each other is the important thing. Share ideas/fantasies, throw suggestions out there. Be careful though that what you see as encouraging dosnt turn into nagging or she feels like it is. Also she sounds like had a great time but that dosnt mean she will want to repeat it or make it a regular thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought about showing her you fab profile?

KJ

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She has seen my profile, have had a bit profile on some site or other before we met. She has never been involved, but we do talk about what I get up to.

I think I had her on a pedestal, and thought she wouldn't be interested, how wrong I was.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"

Have you thought about showing her you fab profile?

KJ"

Why is that every couples go to in reply to every single guy post on here

Not all are cheating, plenty are on here with consent, but what's the point of them explaining themselves when people automatically presume the worst

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Have you thought about showing her you fab profile?

KJ

Why is that every couples go to in reply to every single guy post on here

Not all are cheating, plenty are on here with consent, but what's the point of them explaining themselves when people automatically presume the worst "

Two couples replied on this thread, only one said to show her his profile

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"

Have you thought about showing her you fab profile?

KJ

Why is that every couples go to in reply to every single guy post on here

Not all are cheating, plenty are on here with consent, but what's the point of them explaining themselves when people automatically presume the worst

Two couples replied on this thread, only one said to show her his profile "

I know I should of used every other just drives me bad that single guys get such a bad rap on here

Your always an impartial voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Have you thought about showing her you fab profile?

KJ

Why is that every couples go to in reply to every single guy post on here

Not all are cheating, plenty are on here with consent, but what's the point of them explaining themselves when people automatically presume the worst "

Its because a lot of couples (not all, obviously) on here are sanctimonious, holier-than-thou types. Ive had abusive messages from couples depite no prior interaction, and without them knowing the dynamic of my home life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was expecting crap comments, doesn't bother me, I know I'm genuine, and was only looking for advice.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Have you thought about showing her you fab profile?

KJ

Why is that every couples go to in reply to every single guy post on here

Not all are cheating, plenty are on here with consent, but what's the point of them explaining themselves when people automatically presume the worst

Two couples replied on this thread, only one said to show her his profile

I know I should of used every other just drives me bad that single guys get such a bad rap on here

Your always an impartial voice "

You don't want to know what goes on in my head though

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"

Have you thought about showing her you fab profile?

KJ

Why is that every couples go to in reply to every single guy post on here

Not all are cheating, plenty are on here with consent, but what's the point of them explaining themselves when people automatically presume the worst

Two couples replied on this thread, only one said to show her his profile

I know I should of used every other just drives me bad that single guys get such a bad rap on here

Your always an impartial voice

You don't want to know what goes on in my head though "

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By *eedshandymanMan
over a year ago

leeds

Just keep badgering her or threaten to leave her like most men do

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