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"Should we have left him as a friend even though having seen more we had no interest ? " unless u get off with him seeing ur hot private pics...then u coulda kept him..otherwise..who cares? | |||
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"Should we have left him as a friend even though having seen more we had no interest ? unless u get off with him seeing ur hot private pics...then u coulda kept him..otherwise..who cares?" We were not asking anyone to care !!! Just constructive advice but thanks Non the less. | |||
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"Should we have left him as a friend even though having seen more we had no interest ? unless u get off with him seeing ur hot private pics...then u coulda kept him..otherwise..who cares? We were not asking anyone to care !!! Just constructive advice but thanks Non the less. " I wasnt getting at U's lol..I was saying who cares, meaning, there are plenty of others.One deleted friend(lets say internet acquaintance), shouldnt make a dent on either party. sorry if u misread my post | |||
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"Should we have left him as a friend even though having seen more we had no interest ? " I think his response to you deleting him makes it clear that you have made the right decision,he felt you had given him false hope with a view to meeting him,clearly you won't meet him because of different preferences | |||
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"We accept friend invites... But if it looks like we are not going to meet.....we delete within a week..." i think thats fair. i get some nasty comments from people when ive removed them from friends list after a while. here to meet not look at pics. | |||
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"One of the great joys of the internet is that's it's wholly unreliable. If I delete someone (as I regularly do on Faceache) and they bitch about it - I blame the net. If they ask to be re-instated and I don't want to - I blame the net. Do they believe me? I don't give a monkeys." Oh I luv this quote person after me own heart lol | |||
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"Just looking for opinions so if we acted wrongly can avoid doing it again. We were messaged by a guy who said he liked our profile and pics and sent a friend invite with it which we accepted as he seemed nice. when we looked at his private pics they were full of bareback pics and as we try to avoid people who bareback there was no chance of a meet so we deleted him as a friend. As we were on a phone we were going to message him later on comp to explain why we did so, but in meantime got a message saying we were rude to accept invite and then delete as it was giving false hope and he messaged us but we didn't reply. Did we act rudely ? And should we maybe handle things differently next time ?" No, you didn't do anything wrong, and he has a bloody cheek telling you you had been rude. We do exactly the same if, as soon as we see someones private pics, they don't give us the 'comforting feeling' we are looking for. You can delete friends when YOU want, without giving a reason, and you can block people - again without giving a reason and when YOU want. Always remember - this is NOT Facebook and the 'friends' system should never be looked on in the same way. Carry on doing things the way you did - your safety comes first. Pork PS we only accept Friend Invites when it is 90% that we are going to meet or have met. We NEVER accept them just because someone 'seems nice'... | |||
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" PS we only accept Friend Invites when it is 90% that we are going to meet or have met. We NEVER accept them just because someone 'seems nice'..." Same here. Some get the royal arse that you won't accept them straight off, despite saying in the profile that you only add them after meeting in person. We always say that any pictures they want to see just ask and we'll send them out in messages. It's a swinging site, not feckbook. Wolf | |||
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"Should we have left him as a friend even though having seen more we had no interest ? " Nope you did the right thing, we often get friend requests without messages, so we accept when they are offline, perv their pics then delete them. No message first will guarantee that they wont be on our friends list. | |||
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"Should we have left him as a friend even though having seen more we had no interest ? Nope you did the right thing, we often get friend requests without messages, so we accept when they are offline, perv their pics then delete them. No message first will guarantee that they wont be on our friends list." You are missing our the important stage of fabbing a pic so they know you've done it | |||
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"Should we have left him as a friend even though having seen more we had no interest ? Nope you did the right thing, we often get friend requests without messages, so we accept when they are offline, perv their pics then delete them. No message first will guarantee that they wont be on our friends list." | |||
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"Should we have left him as a friend even though having seen more we had no interest ? Nope you did the right thing, we often get friend requests without messages, so we accept when they are offline, perv their pics then delete them. No message first will guarantee that they wont be on our friends list. You are missing our the important stage of fabbing a pic so they know you've done it" As if people ever do that! | |||
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"We don't accept friend invites until we've spoken for a bit, I can see how it looks from his point of view as well as yours, and as for people saying the guy sounds like an idiot, he didn't really do anything wrong I reckon " Sorry but I stand by my idiot comment. The guy sent an arsey message for no other reason than a friend request being accepted and then deleted. Apparently that gives false hope? I mean seriously? | |||
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"Should we have left him as a friend even though having seen more we had no interest ? Nope you did the right thing, we often get friend requests without messages, so we accept when they are offline, perv their pics then delete them. No message first will guarantee that they wont be on our friends list. You are missing our the important stage of fabbing a pic so they know you've done it" Thank you, next time we will | |||
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"We don't accept friend invites until we've spoken for a bit, I can see how it looks from his point of view as well as yours, and as for people saying the guy sounds like an idiot, he didn't really do anything wrong I reckon Sorry but I stand by my idiot comment. The guy sent an arsey message for no other reason than a friend request being accepted and then deleted. Apparently that gives false hope? I mean seriously? " As far as he's concerned they've accepted, seen his pics and deleted him, no explanation. Now maybe he sent the message in the heat of the moment but obviously he was pissed off and honestly if it was a single woman instead of a single man I don't think the response would be the same here | |||
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"If he had told you during conversation that he wouldnt practice 'safe sex' then you would never of accepted him as a friend. How it happened is immaterial ......the point is you do not want to meet him and are not going to converse with him again. So dont worry about if you have upset him or not. Move on have fun and stay safe, and dont change your 'rules' for anyone x " | |||
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"The reply was along the lines of... We were wrong to have judged as we got it wrong and he doesn't bareback meets these women were girlfriends( lots of different women in pics) over a period Of a year. " So... now he's also told you he takes pics of him in action with his girlfriends and posts them on a Swingers site (probably) without their knowledge or permission..? I wouldn't be questioning your actions if I were you... | |||
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