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I'm not actually gay but was willing to try

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a floppy one, think anal was offered too soon cause was just trying out some man love. Did I get blocked for the floppy or just not knowing what I'm doing?

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By *ornyOAPMan
over a year ago

Fethiye


"Had a floppy one, think anal was offered too soon cause was just trying out some man love. Did I get blocked for the floppy or just not knowing what I'm doing?"

Says on your profile

NO MEN!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quote your profile

“NO SINGLE F----ing MEN!!!!!!!”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thankyou, will update that x

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"Quote your profile

“NO SINGLE F----ing MEN!!!!!!!”

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All updated now, thankyou x

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By *oubleTrouble666Couple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Your profile also states "can stretch to cock hold". Maybe more than holding a cock is too much at the moment

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By *iM4kinkMan
over a year ago

San Antonio

i have a fantasy of being owned by a Dom bi couple. If it happened i would be wanting his cock enough to studder at first too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another day on Fab

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

“I’m not actually gay but…….” was never going to end well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Last comment cracked me up lol.

but yeah I think I got unnerved cause only ever done cockhold on m/f swings, live and learn,will ask for slower,be patient with me if i try again. The guy was nice about tbh, he still shot a massive load over me so don't think he was bothered by my fail

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By *ubytuesdaysTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

I am not gay but its surprising how often i have to help them out when they are very busy.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I am not gay but its surprising how often i have to help them out when they are very busy."

Love this

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By *ral_isthenewblackMan
over a year ago

london


"I am not gay but its surprising how often i have to help them out when they are very busy.

Love this "

Sir, you are Gay but have been suppressing it.

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I’m not gay !!

And 9/10 times mine is floppy too

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

You can't 'try at being gay'. Your either gay or not.

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"You can't 'try at being gay'. Your either gay or not. "

That’s not entirely true

Bi sexual is a thing!

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

If your open to it FAB is great for pushing your boundaries and trying new things

But sometimes our head can be turned on by something our body is not quite ready to try

My husband enjoys oral play with guys and often meets with guys for oral only

He's also had a few meets where things have gone further & he's been a top or a bottom, I think he prefers the taboo ness of being a bottom but guys always want him to top as he has a nice large cock but often he finds while he's open to fucking them, he physically can't do it unless he pops a pill, a problem he never has with women, couples or if I'm present

I wouldn't read to much into it, do what you enjoy, take things at your own pace, as you get more used to being with guys you may relax more and your body may react differently or maybe you'll find you're only into certain kinds of play with guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your open to it FAB is great for pushing your boundaries and trying new things

But sometimes our head can be turned on by something our body is not quite ready to try

My husband enjoys oral play with guys and often meets with guys for oral only

He's also had a few meets where things have gone further & he's been a top or a bottom, I think he prefers the taboo ness of being a bottom but guys always want him to top as he has a nice large cock but often he finds while he's open to fucking them, he physically can't do it unless he pops a pill, a problem he never has with women, couples or if I'm present

I wouldn't read to much into it, do what you enjoy, take things at your own pace, as you get more used to being with guys you may relax more and your body may react differently or maybe you'll find you're only into certain kinds of play with guys "

Wow, thankyou so much, that's exactly how I feel and couldn't put into words. I can't thankyou enough, I couldn't get the words out but you have really helped thankyou massive hugs and love to all x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not gay !!

And 9/10 times mine is floppy too

"

Love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't 'try at being gay'. Your either gay or not.

That’s not entirely true

Bi sexual is a thing! "

Love

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't 'try at being gay'. Your either gay or not. "

Seems not, think we're all different, seeing it/myself in shades personally as I learn and explore myself a bit more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not gay !!

And 9/10 times mine is floppy too

"

This is what I didn't realize, thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" i have a fantasy of being owned by a Dom bi couple. If it happened i would be wanting his cock enough to studder at first too."
that's really beautiful and supportive thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just another day on Fab "

Can you imagine asking on twitter ?????? least get some support here and knowledge

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By *telksyMan
over a year ago

London


"You can't 'try at being gay'. Your either gay or not.

Seems not, think we're all different, seeing it/myself in shades personally as I learn and explore myself a bit more "

Some people see black and white and others see a rainbow, just be you bud, however you perceive yourself is fine and what you want to explore is up to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fluid,you maybe curious and wanting to explore. Whichever it's your life, ignore the internet experts

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

Agree with the previous two posts, go at your own pace, do what you enjoy, be respectful of others. Avoid labels, you may find you do fit into one but personally I find them too restrictive. Why limit your pleasure?

Be safe and happy fabbing.

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Maybe it's because there can only be 1 gay in the village haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

House to myself, still trying to figure it out. Got as far as cock being sicked but still afraid to go any further. It all seems so rushed, men are more open I think than women to just ask for what they want if all I'm learning. Just make a fool of myself as usual bit still trying and failing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't 'try at being gay'. Your either gay or not. "

what utter bolloxs ... so all these people trying new things are what they are trying? how do teenagers get thru exploring sex ?? oh you did that it makes you gay ?? people try things to see if they like or not ...

then the childish jokers on here trying to make joke of it grow up ...

to the op fair play to you ignore the ignorant/bullys/trolls you explore all you want its called living and having fun and if you enjoy even better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou, everyone is really nice tbh, only one or two have been mean, the fab community are really nice to me, I still have no clue what i want though, so some calling me a tourist is fair enough I think but like u say its all new to me x

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