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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most guys that I've met want to have anal sex. How do I make sure it isn't messy? That's the main thing that puts me off it, would appreciate any advice I can get. Thanks.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Most guys that I've met want to have anal sex. How do I make sure it isn't messy? That's the main thing that puts me off it, would appreciate any advice I can get. Thanks."

I am not really sure to be honest but suppose start with some wet wipes? J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

buy a douche kit, you can even pick them up in anne summers now

Its just a ball with a tube, you fill it with warm water and squirt it up your bum, hold it a few seconds and sit down on the loo and relax

jobs a good un lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"buy a douche kit, you can even pick them up in anne summers now

Its just a ball with a tube, you fill it with warm water and squirt it up your bum, hold it a few seconds and sit down on the loo and relax

jobs a good un lol"

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

You can get a shower attachment too... but best try a manual thingy first if you're at all not sure.

I have an fb who preps and he's clean as a whistle

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What naught said but make sure you do it a few hours before and you will be fine

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By *uckknowsMan
over a year ago

here

If you don't do it early enough it can be a disaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sue's not into anal, just her preference and we appreciate that many, many folks enjoy this. However, amazing how many guys are 'amazed' when we tell them she's not into it. Then I remind them that the anatomy of the female rectum is as of male rectum and would they fancy having a pork sword rammed up their areas....often they rethink!lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"buy a douche kit, you can even pick them up in anne summers now

Its just a ball with a tube, you fill it with warm water and squirt it up your bum, hold it a few seconds and sit down on the loo and relax

jobs a good un lol"

I can recommend that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What naught said but make sure you do it a few hours before and you will be fine "

yeah i forgot to add that, dont do it straight before you do anal cause you may get a little after leakage lol i do it about 2 to 3 hours before that way you have been to the loo a couple of times after so any water etc that may still be there will have cleared out

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

dont see the appeal myself done it before i didnt think it felt any differnt,i also think the women like to do or try it as mch as the men want it. what do u think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What naught said but make sure you do it a few hours before and you will be fine

yeah i forgot to add that, dont do it straight before you do anal cause you may get a little after leakage lol i do it about 2 to 3 hours before that way you have been to the loo a couple of times after so any water etc that may still be there will have cleared out"

Prob best not having a jalfrezi the night before either too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like anal with the right person, its not something i would just let anyone do, but if ive met someone before and they're not porn star shaggers i will do anal, depending on cock size always of course lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What naught said but make sure you do it a few hours before and you will be fine

yeah i forgot to add that, dont do it straight before you do anal cause you may get a little after leakage lol i do it about 2 to 3 hours before that way you have been to the loo a couple of times after so any water etc that may still be there will have cleared out

Prob best not having a jalfrezi the night before either too"

prefer a nice rogan josh myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like anal with the right person, its not something i would just let anyone do, but if ive met someone before and they're not porn star shaggers i will do anal, depending on cock size always of course lol"

of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most guys that I've met want to have anal sex. How do I make sure it isn't messy? That's the main thing that puts me off it, would appreciate any advice I can get. Thanks."

well just cos they want to do it doesnt mean you have to if dont want to. Its not a must do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What naught said but make sure you do it a few hours before and you will be fine

yeah i forgot to add that, dont do it straight before you do anal cause you may get a little after leakage lol i do it about 2 to 3 hours before that way you have been to the loo a couple of times after so any water etc that may still be there will have cleared out

Prob best not having a jalfrezi the night before either too

prefer a nice rogan josh myself "

Tad messy lol

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By *toneblueMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Most guys that I've met want to have anal sex. How do I make sure it isn't messy? "

Suck it and see?

Sorry, couldn't resist!

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By *onderlust76Woman
over a year ago

St helens


"What naught said but make sure you do it a few hours before and you will be fine "
Not good tho for the spontaneous moment lol

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Only had a 'messy' experience once I have found there is no real need for hoses and pumps etc, just go to the loo and shower after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shower hose up ur bum the best way make ur self squeaky clean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only had a 'messy' experience once I have found there is no real need for hoses and pumps etc, just go to the loo and shower after. "

i find douching just makes me feel more relaxed

Im not saying if people dont there will be a mess, thats a 50/50 chance you take but knowing ive had a good clean out means if i do do anal i can relax and enjoy it without that wonder of 'i hope its clean when he takes it out' niggling in the back of my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have anal on a regular basis with hubby and/or butt plug. I've never douched and never had any accidents.

Please be aware that douching too often is bad for your intestinal flora. If you still want to do it you should eat yoghurt afterwards (preferably bifidus type).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like anal with the right person, its not something i would just let anyone do, but if ive met someone before and they're not porn star shaggers i will do anal, depending on cock size always of course lol"

I don't do anal the first time I meet someone and size certainly matters. My ex put me off sex it as he wanted it every time we had sex so I could never relax because I always waiting on him putting it up my ass.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have anal on a regular basis with hubby and/or butt plug. I've never douched and never had any accidents.

Please be aware that douching too often is bad for your intestinal flora. If you still want to do it you should eat yoghurt afterwards (preferably bifidus type)."

If I used my anal toys a while before sex would that help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sue's not into anal, just her preference and we appreciate that many, many folks enjoy this. However, amazing how many guys are 'amazed' when we tell them she's not into it. Then I remind them that the anatomy of the female rectum is as of male rectum and would they fancy having a pork sword rammed up their areas....often they rethink!lol"

Which is fair enough, however there is pleasure to be had for both, it's just a question of relaxation and trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I douch my hubbys cock real good with lots off pussy juice very enjoyable for both x

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

It is about communication, patience and trust ( oh, and lube ).

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