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What would you have done?

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By *azzaste OP   Man
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

Just polling opinions really to see what people think. I have been chatting to a couple for a while and the wife suddenly asked if i would meet behind the husbands back. I said no because that is not something i want to be part of and is not what swinging is about to me.

What would you have done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly the same but then I would have told her I wouldn't meet them together anymore...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Exactly the same but then I would have told her I wouldn't meet them together anymore..."

+1

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

I was asked to meet a mates wife behind his back 2 years later she found someone else and a year after that left both of them for some one else!

The husband was devastated it took him years to come to terms with it.

But I wont be involved in the possibility of destroying a marriage / relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about the ops wife,does she know he swings?

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By *azzaste OP   Man
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"what about the ops wife,does she know he swings?"

My wife? Seperated 2 years ago so not really any of her business now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That may have been a test to see how genuine you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends how desperate i was.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"what about the ops wife,does she know he swings?

My wife? Seperated 2 years ago so not really any of her business now lol "

Hahaha!!!! Love it when someone makes assumptions and gets shot down....good work!!!!

I would have done the same and like others have said, I would also stop contact with them as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a similar situation. My logic was that although I don't care about their relationship, the problems in are their problems, I did care about potentially getting dragged into the middle of a break up. So stayed away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what about the ops wife,does she know he swings?

My wife? Seperated 2 years ago so not really any of her business now lol

Hahaha!!!! Love it when someone makes assumptions and gets shot down....good work!!!!

I would have done the same and like others have said, I would also stop contact with them as a couple. "

glad you are getting entertainment from the site,good for you

my assumption was based on the fact the op is wearing a wedding ring,but obviously he has explained that.lets hope i can provide more entertainment for you in the future

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

It occurs to me that by posting this on here, you may have inadvertently alerted the husband of the couple that his wife has made this approach behind his back.. assuming your contact with them was through Fab, of course!

Just a thought - hope you haven't kicked a hornet's nest here.. although some might argue that it's no less than the wife deserves (other opinions are available!)

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"That may have been a test to see how genuine you are."

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By *ugartitsandhimCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Exactly the same but then I would have told her I wouldn't meet them together anymore...

+1"

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


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my assumption was based on the fact the op is wearing a wedding ring,but obviously he has explained that."

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..and can't accommodate!

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands

As others have said, this is a couple to steer a wide berth around, there'll be trouble at t'mill otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what about the ops wife,does she know he swings?

My wife? Seperated 2 years ago so not really any of her business now lol

Hahaha!!!! Love it when someone makes assumptions and gets shot down....good work!!!!

I would have done the same and like others have said, I would also stop contact with them as a couple.

glad you are getting entertainment from the site,good for you

my assumption was based on the fact the op is wearing a wedding ring,but obviously he has explained that.lets hope i can provide more entertainment for you in the future

"

10/10 for Observation

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By *.S.SMan
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I met a really nice couple, was a great meet, everyone had fun.

The next day i recieved a txt from them saying she'd like to meet again, but just her alone. Didn't reallt question it!

Met her the next week at her house, she told me her husband was working and knew i was there, so again, we had a lot of fun!

The next day i get another txt saying 'How dare you meet my wife behind my back, don't ever txt again'.

Was a little shocked to say the least, but deleted their number anyway. Their profile was removed too.

2 weeks later i recieved a txt from them, asking to meet again!

Needless to say, that got ignored!

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By *onderlust76Woman
over a year ago

St helens


"Exactly the same but then I would have told her I wouldn't meet them together anymore..."
Kerching spot on xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"That may have been a test to see how genuine you are."

Possibly and if it was then it would be just another reason to steer clear

Can't think of any valid reason why anyone would even think it ok to set little traps and tests like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the first replt was correct.

maybe swinging but if your in a relationship of sorts with someone you still need amount of trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet singles and couples, I don't and am not interested in meeting half a couple for the reason that you have said and others too, no desire to be caught in the middle of a big row or divorce court

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a couple not long ago, we all got on and had a great evening together. We (the men) swapped numbers and agreed we should meet again. There was a few weeks of pleasant emails & texts.

He asked if I enjoyed fucking his wife, I replied it was very nice.

Then he asked if I would like to meet her on her own.

I made light of it and said my wife would be jealous as she would like to be there as well.

Needless to say we have not met them again.

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