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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Mrs D is no longer the busty curvaceous lady she once was. She has lost a considerable amount of weight and has suggested we delete the old pics as they don’t represent who she is now. Thoughts please fabbers, should we delete the old her and start again? Or just update our profile to explain?

Thanks in advance.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Does she want her old pictures deleted? Her opinion is the only one that matters

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle


"Mrs D is no longer the busty curvaceous lady she once was. She has lost a considerable amount of weight and has suggested we delete the old pics as they don’t represent who she is now. Thoughts please fabbers, should we delete the old her and start again? Or just update our profile to explain?

Thanks in advance. "

Surely its your decision and yours only...

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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derby


"Does she want her old pictures deleted? Her opinion is the only one that matters"

She is unsure.

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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derby


"Mrs D is no longer the busty curvaceous lady she once was. She has lost a considerable amount of weight and has suggested we delete the old pics as they don’t represent who she is now. Thoughts please fabbers, should we delete the old her and start again? Or just update our profile to explain?

Thanks in advance.

Surely its your decision and yours only... "

We are struggling to decide. Hence the forum post.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Providing the more recent photos represent what she looks like now that's all that matters

I did try and take a look but 10-15 photos is kind of my limit, I'm not sure anyone would look through almost 300photos & then complain your misrepresenting yourself, all I'd say is I couldn't get any idea of body shape from the first dozen or so photos

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does she want her old pictures deleted? Her opinion is the only one that matters

She is unsure. "

oh right. Why not set them to friends only and if she decides she wants them back in public she can just put them there

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Everyone changes over time and the photos are dated, so I don't see it being a problem.

Especially if you have newer photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its quite hard to constantly keep up to date pics on a profile when we all change so much. I say keep the old pics, its who she was. As long as any potential meets have the option of seeing recent pics then thats fine.

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

Some of my photos are 10 years old.

I show guys my recent pictures if I'm interested in them.

Everyone I'm interested gets told.

I don't delete my old pictures as I don't have more recent ones to show.

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

288 photos? Jeez I started to look, even fabbed a couple, but really, no I can't see any point in more than a dozen tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think of it the other way around if a guy put old pics of his being slim and you decided to meet and now hes large ? how would that feel ? men get slated for this all the time ... the pics should be of you as you are now so if you meet then you are that person and not your old self ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If unsure, pop them into Private....

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By *erbys_couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derby

Thank you for your input everyone.

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Probably best to show as you are now tbh, a true representation for those interested in meeting you. If you're putting pics up for your own pleasure then it really doesn't matter.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

Maybe leave them on if she wants to ,but pop a note on your profile explaining she has lost weight now ,so looks like the newer pics.

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By *itygamesMan
over a year ago

UK

Have a mixture.........before and after.

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

[Removed by poster at 03/06/22 15:27:28]

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

We always try and keep the pics current!

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

Either way, it drew to your profile and her pictures, a fine looking woman.

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By *teph BitchTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester


"Mrs D is no longer the busty curvaceous lady she once was. She has lost a considerable amount of weight and has suggested we delete the old pics as they don’t represent who she is now. Thoughts please fabbers, should we delete the old her and start again? Or just update our profile to explain?

Thanks in advance. "

Leave decision to Mrs D

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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

For us personally it depends how different they are. We like pics to represent the current ‘state of play’

That said Mrs leaves her pregnancy pics up as we both love them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe hide them in private until Mrs D has decided what to do with them.

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath


"Does she want her old pictures deleted? Her opinion is the only one that matters

She is unsure. "

How about just making the pics private and waiting ,decide in time !

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Does she want her old pictures deleted? Her opinion is the only one that matters

She is unsure. "

OK so, if you guys were chatting to a man on here and are doing so because you like the look of him so you arrange a meet.

He turns up and his body looks nothing like the pics he has on his profile, would you be happy with that? I would say that with our experience on fab and have read others that we like to see more up to date pics of someone on their profile and not what they looked like years ago....so my advice would be yes..but as said before..its up to you guys but mostly up to her.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

You should keep them and feel proud of what you have achieved losing the weight that you looked good anyway but if you feel better then just go with it

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Just take some new photos, it's easy enough to see people's progression from the dates.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Just take some new photos, it's easy enough to see people's progression from the dates. "

This 100%

Fox has lost weight in the last couple of years and I may (cough) have added a little timber.

But there's no need for a total overhaul. Images have dates on them so old ones (some of ours are a decade old!) are obvious as are new ones, so just take some more.

We've added a couple of new ones but there's still some old favourites too.

A

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

She looks gorgeous in all her pics keep them all and just add more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep the pics in chronological order, people will understand the situation

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you


"Mrs D is no longer the busty curvaceous lady she once was. She has lost a considerable amount of weight and has suggested we delete the old pics as they don’t represent who she is now. Thoughts please fabbers, should we delete the old her and start again? Or just update our profile to explain?

Thanks in advance. "

I say delete the old pics if they don't portray yiu correctly to potential meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs D is no longer the busty curvaceous lady she once was. She has lost a considerable amount of weight and has suggested we delete the old pics as they don’t represent who she is now. Thoughts please fabbers, should we delete the old her and start again? Or just update our profile to explain?

Thanks in advance. "

If you start to form a friendship with a new individual/ couple you could exchange more recent pictures of yourselves. Surely they will find it more personal that way as they are directed towards them instead of anyone who checks your profile out randomly. Either way we find chemistry is the key to a positive connection over anyones personal appearance. Hope you figure everything out guys x

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By *namoratomanMan
over a year ago

Herefordshire

Why not place them in the private category? That way they are still available for you to share should you want to and they are not visible to either public or friends. In other words, you have control and they are not ‘lost’.

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By *ughandJayneCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

Great question.

In the main we try to keep our photo section up to date ( mostly pictures taken within the last twelve months )

The main driver as to whether a picture stays up on our profile is the number of Fabs it gets, we have a regular cull of those that, for whatever reason, don't seem to appeal to our audience.

Having said that, we do have half a dozen or so "Greatest Hits" that have stayed visible even since we joined Fabs back in 2019.

My favourite picture of Jayne was taken long before we got involved with the lifestyle. Would we put it up here? Probably not, and if so, only as a private image to share with friends and clearly classified as "Nostalgia"

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By *uffintwoCouple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

Your oldest pictures are 2016 which is six years ago. We all change and this site is really about now, so why keep them? However as long as you have recent pictures it really doesn't matter. What we really dislike are profiles with only photos that are five or even ten years old.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We have new and old pics dating back to 2016. I think it shows We are experienced in the lifestyle. All photos are dated and I always send any potential meet a recent pic. I think that is an honest and authentic representation of us as a couple. You can do no more x

Mrs N

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By *luemeanie050Man
over a year ago

Poole

First off, this sounds like an awesome achievement for her!

It's up to her/you two I guess don't worry about the hive mind on here, do what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're trying to attract meets it's probably best to have reasonably up-to-date pictures. Keep in mind pictures do show the date they were uploaded when people view them in your gallery. That could arguably give folk a good clue that they are x years old.

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