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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" Sounds like its already ruined | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" If you're asking if you'll get feelings you probably already have. Also what about the young guy? He might get feelings, he's more than an accessory to your sex life. He doesn't want what you want. Leave him be | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" I’d have no problem having fun together in front of your hubby | |||
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"Swinging should always be about you and your Hubby's fun. You two should be your priority. If the young guy won't include your husband you should move on. Their are hundreds of young single guys who will only be too happy to perform stud duties in front of a voyeur husband" Well said. | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" When you first entered the swinging world and fab did you both set some rules? And if so think back to what rules you set..and if it was that you do not play separately or your relationship/marriage comes first above all else then there is your answer. You have to be careful here because if your hubby tells you that he is happy for you to go ahead because he knows you really like him and because of how much he adores you...he could just be saying this to give you what you want but there is a niggling feeling at the back of his head telling him he isn't all that happy with this, but you did it and once it's done its done and there is no rewinding time therfore having an impact on your marriage. I would carefully consider this before putting a young shy 22 year old first. | |||
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"Why do you want it to continue? He’s not what you’re looking for. Keep the memories but move on without him." This. Leave him where you found him. Find someone that works for you both, reduce the potential for things turning bad. Why take the risk? Unless that is adding to the appeal somewhat maybe? | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" SELFISH is the word that springs to mind. Blunt but honest let’s all agree. I have joined couples and many married women in all kinds of scenarios and even if a women is telling me she has permission I do like the husband to confirm this directly to me. I slightly feel this post is more fantasy than truth. Very hotwife though | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" I would happily fuck you in front of your hubby My profile age is incorrect btw; I’m 35 not 53. Honest | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" As a married swinging couple of the young guy doesn't want your hubby present then do the correct thing n get shut off the toy boy !!! It's suppose to be a joint venture your both on n not just yours .. your a good looking lady so find a young guy who comfortable playing while your hubby watches .. xx | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" Move past this real quick, what you and your hubby have is 50 times more important than solo fun with a youngster. Give it a swerve and move on. | |||
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"Maybe its time to cuck your hubby so you can enjoy the pleasures of younger studs on your terms. So long as he knows where and when then he might be cool with it, you can still include him by letting him help you dress for your meets and you sitting on his face the moment you get home, then he can lick your pussy as you tell him exactly what you and the young stud got upto x" There a couple n obviously the guy isn't a cuck !! Help dress her ffs .. who helps you dress ?? Ya granny | |||
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" There a couple n obviously the guy isn't a cuck !! Help dress her ffs .. who helps you dress ?? Ya granny " No need to be so dismissive, just because it isn't your way of doing things. The Mrs has really enjoyed helping me dress to go out, then loves wearing my shirt when I get home. | |||
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"Maybe its time to cuck your hubby so you can enjoy the pleasures of younger studs on your terms. So long as he knows where and when then he might be cool with it, you can still include him by letting him help you dress for your meets and you sitting on his face the moment you get home, then he can lick your pussy as you tell him exactly what you and the young stud got upto x" Not all partners are cuck I would def not be up for some stranger having fun with the wife and me being left at home and being told later how much fun the two of them had. | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" According to our personal agreement, for the Mrs and I that would be an immediate hard pass. The only two people who should have any say, the only two people who will have the best chance of answering the question are you and hubby. The young chap shouldn't matter, if he does, drop him and work it out with someone that doesn't. | |||
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" He doesn't want what you want. Leave him be" The best advice OP will get in this thread. The reality is in these situations, more often than not, if you have to ask the question it’s because you already know the answer but are hoping someone will tell you differently. | |||
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"At 22 would you want to be watched by the husband? Poor guy is just finding his way and your introducing him to a lifestyle he probably knew nothing about. " I did, my first swinging experience was with a couple when I was 22. Some people are swingers and some aren't. | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" If he won’t in front of the hubby then maybe that’s where you draw the line and move on. Sounds like shaky territory here. You seem a little glossy eyed about the young stud. Which might not be too healthy | |||
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"Swinging should always be about you and your Hubby's fun. You two should be your priority. If the young guy won't include your husband you should move on. Their are hundreds of young single guys who will only be too happy to perform stud duties in front of a voyeur husband" Definitely agree, swinging as a couple should mean as a couple, the moment you exclude one another that can only spell trouble or end of a relationship/marriage. Enjoy the moment and move on do not wreck your happiness | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" In my experience ALL THREE partys have and need to feel comfortable for it all to work well all. If one feels out of the zone then an air of tension could creep in and it could ruin the event for everyone. What a bloody shame, does the young guy say what it is exactly that he is struggling with in terms of being watched? | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" Each to their own, but you are stunning and any guy being invited to the bedroom with you for your hubby to watch is incredibly lucky in my eyes. I think if he is not comfortable doing it now then he never will be, the cuck / bull scene mostly doesn't suit shy people. | |||
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"Swinging should be something done with mutual respect or else it is likely to ruin something that you have in front of you and might later regret terribly." | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life? ***In my experience ALL THREE partys have and need to feel comfortable for it all to work well all. *** If one feels out of the zone then an air of tension could creep in and it could ruin the event for everyone. What a bloody shame, does the young guy say what it is exactly that he is struggling with in terms of being watched?" *** | |||
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" There a couple n obviously the guy isn't a cuck !! Help dress her ffs .. who helps you dress ?? Ya granny No need to be so dismissive, just because it isn't your way of doing things. The Mrs has really enjoyed helping me dress to go out, then loves wearing my shirt when I get home. " Nowt dismissive about me pal.. he's telling her to basically fuck her hubby n do as she likes .. then have him help her get dressed ffs .. i just love these sad twats telling others what they should do .. yours may be ok helping you but it sounds like that guy isn't . | |||
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" There a couple n obviously the guy isn't a cuck !! Help dress her ffs .. who helps you dress ?? Ya granny No need to be so dismissive, just because it isn't your way of doing things. The Mrs has really enjoyed helping me dress to go out, then loves wearing my shirt when I get home. Nowt dismissive about me pal.. he's telling her to basically fuck her hubby n do as she likes .. then have him help her get dressed ffs .. i just love these sad twats telling others what they should do .. yours may be ok helping you but it sounds like that guy isn't . " No, I get your point, assuming he isn't into it. It was the second part of that post that could well come across as dismissive of the idea generally. | |||
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" There a couple n obviously the guy isn't a cuck !! Help dress her ffs .. who helps you dress ?? Ya granny No need to be so dismissive, just because it isn't your way of doing things. The Mrs has really enjoyed helping me dress to go out, then loves wearing my shirt when I get home. Nowt dismissive about me pal.. he's telling her to basically fuck her hubby n do as she likes .. then have him help her get dressed ffs .. i just love these sad twats telling others what they should do .. yours may be ok helping you but it sounds like that guy isn't . No, I get your point, assuming he isn't into it. It was the second part of that post that could well come across as dismissive of the idea generally. " As in ... who dresses you ??; | |||
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" There a couple n obviously the guy isn't a cuck !! Help dress her ffs .. who helps you dress ?? Ya granny No need to be so dismissive, just because it isn't your way of doing things. The Mrs has really enjoyed helping me dress to go out, then loves wearing my shirt when I get home. Nowt dismissive about me pal.. he's telling her to basically fuck her hubby n do as she likes .. then have him help her get dressed ffs .. i just love these sad twats telling others what they should do .. yours may be ok helping you but it sounds like that guy isn't . No, I get your point, assuming he isn't into it. It was the second part of that post that could well come across as dismissive of the idea generally. As in ... who dresses you ??;" Yeah. | |||
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"Wife got too involved with an older mam we met on here. Started off with all 3 of us involved mfm. Wife wanted to meet him for mf play and so did he. Had to break up ties with him as it was causing friction in our marriage. Be careful what you wish for Him x" I have a fab friend couple. This happened to them too. They had to stop seeing him. | |||
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"It’s a guy 22 I’m 38 and been together 21 years with hubby who I adore he is a prince and gym regular and would fuck me 5x a day still or even just go down on me. But this was in a bar and the guy was hot and so shy I loved it. Not sure if I loved it due to the crazy location or both as he is good looking and nice. Question is he won’t in front of hubby which hubby likes and I like him watching so can it continue? Or will I get feeling and ruin my life?" you might get feelings if it's an alone thing , but I'd happy do what it takes to show ya a good time in front of the hubby | |||
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"It can be fun for hubby even if not present so maybe should explore that ….." I would have thought so too. You could come back seductively posing in front of you husband and slowly undress revealing what he's left inside you | |||
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