FabSwingers.com forum: Fascinated by bdsm want to learn

By *oskar1 OP Man
over a year ago

beckenham

Always had this fascination with bdsm looking for advice where to learn more about the lifestyle and talk to people about it.

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

BDSM is a very broad term. It's a bit like saying I'm interested in music where do i learn, but notwithstanding that I'd say go to LAM or a local munch (kink orientated social meet I'm a vanilla setting usually a pub)

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By *oskar1 OP Man
over a year ago

beckenham

Thanks i understand what your saying i suppose it trying to understand where the interest is.

Heard of munches but lam?

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By *aliceWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

London alternative market. Kink orientated market with an optional after party with play, workshops, demos etc.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Do a Google search for fetish web sites and read around the subject. You'll find out where your interests lay and probably where they definitely do not

You'll find people to chat to on fetish sites but to careful and don't get involved with anyone who tells you their way is the only way or is unhelpful.

Good luck and enjoy the journey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes always been curious I've done a bit of it I guess never professionally or anything but I make a good dom and I like being a sub too just can't seem to find a woman that will push me as far as I want to go.

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By *oskar1 OP Man
over a year ago

beckenham

Thank you for the information

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By *oskar1 OP Man
over a year ago

beckenham

Any recommendations for web sites as I tend to find the commercial ones with lots of fake profiles etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Posting links is against forum rules. I'm sure if you do a little research you'll find some. Also if you just want to gather information commercial sites are ok

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Munches are your best bet for connecting with people, just expect to put time and effort into making connections/friends.

There are lots of books and websites dedicated to the various aspects of BDSM. It is a journey of self discovery, learning about yourself.

I would be wanting to know what draws you to BDSM?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love going to munches, have met some great people and learned alot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a fet life website that has some great guidance

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By *aisyandCarlosCouple
over a year ago

fareham

"There's a fet life website that has some great guidance"

This

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By *aisyandCarlosCouple
over a year ago

fareham

"London alternative market. Kink orientated market with an optional after party with play, workshops, demos etc."

You will find this very welcoming with a broad spectrum of BDSM under one roof, eye opening

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By *oskar1 OP Man
over a year ago

beckenham

Thanks for some great advice

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Heard of munches but lam?

Munches are definitely a good introduction. Usually a totally pressure free gathering in a pub. The BDSM community is generally very friendly and helpful with newbies. As others have said, being interested in BDSM is quite a broad area, but get involved and see what you enjoy.

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