FabSwingers.com forum: Female advice

By *irdman21 OP Man
over a year ago

dublin

By _irdman21 OP Find posts by _irdman21 Man

32 minutes ago

dublin

ok so looking for some genuine advice about a woman from a woman as I find women impossible to read...not posting here as its quite personal to me,so if anyone fancys helping a fabber out,please send me a mail or give me the go ahead here and I'll mail you cheers..

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By _irdman21 OP Find posts by _irdman21 Man

32 minutes ago

dublin

Got too much time on my hands so going to break this post down. Why are you only looking for advice from women? You’re implying that all women are the same in that they’re impossible for you to read and for other men to read as well but all other women will be able to read the situation you’re in and help you. Firstly, I don’t believe anyone is impossible to read unless you have zero empathy or social skills, some are harder than others but no one is impossible. Secondly, not all women are the same, some are hard to read, some aren’t, just as some men are and some aren’t. To say ‘women are impossible to read’ shows that you may struggle to see women as individuals, with unique personalities and characteristics.

So it’s a personal issue but you’re prepared to discuss it with any woman who DM’s you or asks you to DM them? Also, you don’t show your face on your profile so no one knows who you are and therefore there’s no risk regarding discussing something personal in the forum.

If you do actually find all women impossible to read is there not a rush that you won’t be able to read the women who message you and not know whether they’re giving you serious advice or winding you up? Maybe they fancy you and give you bad advice to ruin your chances with the women you’re having trouble with and free you up for her. By highlighting the fact that you find women impossible to read you’ve set yourself up to being taken advantage of because you need to be able to read someone to know whether you’re being taken advantage of or not.