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By *cc1864a OP   Man
over a year ago

grays

Hi, single bloke (one of many!!!) nobody really interested so far. Very interested in tips!!! I live near Lakeside so any ladies or couples interested, do look me up!!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Only 3 weeks.....But who are the fakes you are talking about? i did met some of those so called fakes and they were great...So you wont know till you meet them...

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Another 'straight' guy looking for tv meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another 'straight' guy looking for tv meets."

The world is full of them....going by what i have seen on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks and complaining already im not been funny but its not a sex for hire site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A really really really negative profile and negative update on profile.. Not very endearing to anyone wanting to meet, good luck.

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By *cc1864a OP   Man
over a year ago

grays

NOT actually looking for TV meets and dont really appreciate my sexuality being questioned. However thnk you for bringing this to my attention, I have amended my profile accordingly. As for having a negative profile, I posted my original comments for tips on how to improve it.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Still says looking for t/v meets Hun!!! Just so your aware!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to be patient 3 weeks is nothing on here.

You will also have to get people to trust you as not everybody on here will trust a newbie.

Keep your eyes open for socials so you can talk to people face to face or get into chat xxx

Good luck ... hold in there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might want to try smiling in your pictures...

You can accommodate which is a big advantage over many men on here, but your profile needs to stand out more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"NOT actually looking for TV meets and dont really appreciate my sexuality being questioned. However thnk you for bringing this to my attention, I have amended my profile accordingly. As for having a negative profile, I posted my original comments for tips on how to improve it."

Yes you did and in my opinion it was very negative so I'm assuming you took that as a tip on how to improve it as its a bit better now

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

Hang in there .i went months b4 my first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 pics the same and not 1 smile,like amother member said SMILE and you still looking for TVS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *cc1864a OP   Man
over a year ago

grays

Thank you all for your feedback. Especially Mts. AB and Chrissy and Nat, I wondered why so many TVs and men were looking at my profile! I have now amended my profile properly. As for the pictures of my face, true, I do look like a dogs bum with a hat on in them. I will change them soon. Guess I had my "bed-head" on when I took them. Hope they don't put too many people off their lunch. Thanks also to those nice fellow members who said to hang on in there. I will! Very kind regards, Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a few winks out and a polite message or two, then if you get a reply take it easy and be respectful when messaging back.

Just be nice and respectful and the meets will come mate.

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

Very interested in tips and lives near Lakeside... you could become a personal shopper for the rich and famous

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By *cc1864a OP   Man
over a year ago

grays

Thanks again (especially dirtdave and Essex Guy-the latest contributors to this string). Its amazing the difference between this site and the other one I am on an wont be renewing!!) The majority of you all seem to give a damn about your fellow members which I find very refreshing. I have now changed my profile intro and the godawful profil pic. Hope you think its a bit better! Thanks all.

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By *cc1864a OP   Man
over a year ago

grays

Thanks _orkie, but I would prefer to win the lotto and do my own shopping!!! Anyway some of our nice co-members have hopefully put me right with their advices and good wishes for whih I am grateful.

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By *cc1864a OP   Man
over a year ago

grays

Would someone please have a look at my profile and see if there is anything I'v missed? The only people that seem to view my profile are 92.73895% blokes. Im sure I put in ladies, couples. Only constructive critism would be appreciated. Many thanks. T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as said before pics arent the best, otherwise profile is ok, the problem is your one of so many on here that its going to be hard to find meets, why not try going to local socials, get your face known on thelocal scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sell yourself more, tell people what you are looking for and more importantly what you are offering them.

Also your face pics are a bit pants. Not your actual face though, that looks okay to me!. You need better lighting and a big happy toothy smile. I'm viewing them on my phone, but it looks like your dog just died at the moment.

Most important thing with pics. Take loads, don't settle for the first one ad "it'll do". It won't.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

For a single guy, you need to stand out from the crowd,... From my point of view (i dont really look at many blokes profiles ) your profile doesnt ,

You need to give people a sense of who you are, why they should meet you more than the next,..

Theres loads of tips hints in many similar threads on the forums,

Three rules, the three aitches

Honesty, humour, hung like a horse*

* the third is nt true,

or anywhere near as important as the other two..

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By *cc1864a OP   Man
over a year ago

grays

Thanks Swinger, Jenni and Johnsoda, Must try harder! I will have another look at the tips bit.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

You do look a bit miserable in your pics!! Smile!! This is all supposed to be FUN!! Good luck xx

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