FabSwingers.com forum: another member knows me

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Grass you up to who?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

why would he grass you up and out himself?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Grass you up to who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i have been messaging another member for awhile and sent a face pic to them and the reply was we know you and live near you so dont what to meet but iam now worried they will grass me up !!!! what do i do ?? "

Do they know your wife / girlfriend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One has nothing to worry if one does not have anything to hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why would he grass you up and out himself?"

Exactly!

I know loads of people on here...

my best mates mother and her partner to name one profile... oops

Just block them!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The fact that they don't want to meet you means they are just as concerned as you about being outed. If you think about it though unless you have a long term partner who doesn't know who are they going to tell and what would be their motive? If you feel guilty about what you're doing you'll lose half the pleasure.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"The fact that they don't want to meet you means they are just as concerned as you about being outed. If you think about it though unless you have a long term partner who doesn't know who are they going to tell and what would be their motive? If you feel guilty about what you're doing you'll lose half the pleasure."

Agreed.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I can see the headline now:

"Single guy looks to get laid shock,horror"

What's the problem.

You ARE single aren't you op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see the headline now:

"Single guy looks to get laid shock,horror"

What's the problem.

You ARE single aren't you op?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"another member knows me" .... and your problem is...?? It's the same as coming face to face (or some other part of your anatomy) with someone you know at a club, isn't it. You are BOTH here/there for the same reason. What would they gain from outing you, as they will out themselves in the process...?

Seen threads along these lines before and my response is always the same:- This is about YOU and YOUR attitudes and emotions concerning your sexuality - not about anyone outing you. You appear to be the one making an issue out of it - they just said they don't want to do it on their own doorstep, which is their PREFERENCE. As someone who was forced to examine the attitudes towards sex I was mindwashed with (some may call that being 'brought up with') at the age of 16 and rapidly realising the reasons behind them, it occurs to me you may need to do the same....

Pork

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I can kind of see the OP's worry - a friend of mine on here, (single) was outed by someone to her ex who told their grown-up children (I hope his dick rots and falls off, fucking wanker) and I wouldn't particularly want my parents finding out about my profile as they're elderly and old-fashioned...however I know at least 6 single guy profiles on here from my town - some of whom I chat to on Fab but as only 1 of them is actually single I won't play with them as it's a small town and I have no problems with my neighbours seeing strangers coming to my house, I don't want them seeing Jane Bloggs' husband knocking on my door...If I were to be outed, then such is life, if I knew who did the outing, then I'd make sure I returned the favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They would have as much to loose as the op, surely it works both ways? Unless everyone in town knows they put it about already !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just checked op profile it says Darren and a picture of his cock now you have to ask how do they know youdoes she know you cause she seen his cock or does he know you as he seen your cock get over it not

Much you can do until something happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow are you sure it's not an ex and she's spotted you from your willy?

I really wouldn't worry as it's been said before i don't think they would out you even if they did really know who you were.

I think they may have some explaining to do on how they found you looking through a swing site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says (in the bit copied from the OP) that he sent a face pic and they recognised him from that.... but he doesn't appear to know who they are, and I can imagine that could lead to him feeling a little paranoid about it if that is the case...whether it be any kids or other family he has finding out, it could be embarrassing.

The people who know him may not even be swingers, but someone attracted on here for a perv at naughty photos, and been trying it on? If he knows who they are then it's a bit different though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It says (in the bit copied from the OP) that he sent a face pic and they recognised him from that.... but he doesn't appear to know who they are, and I can imagine that could lead to him feeling a little paranoid about it if that is the case...whether it be any kids or other family he has finding out, it could be embarrassing."

.. which sounds like they didn't have any face pics on show, or HE may have recognised them first. Wonder if they asked him to send a face pic... ? Lesson in that for everyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got 'outed' locally once. Quite frankly we laughed it off as the people gossiping about it where only jealous as they were not doing it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you swing you will meet at some point a person that you may know or have seen locally.

Some poeple gossip and some are idiots, but in the main it is ok.

I am very disrete and do not advertise myself in real life....

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I was being given a BJ by mrs W in Chams Darleston when a for met colleague tapped me on back and shook my hand !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was being given a BJ by mrs W in Chams Darleston when a for met colleague tapped me on back and shook my hand !"

lol congratulating you for the BJ no wonder! lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I was being given a BJ by mrs W in Chams Darleston when a for met colleague tapped me on back and shook my hand !

lol congratulating you for the BJ no wonder! lol"

Did he shake anything else?

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Not on my behalf, no

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