FabSwingers.com forum: Where am I going wrong?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd like some feedback on my profile.

I've been on Fabs for a couple of years now and until I got verified earlier this year I wasn't having any luck at all. I've had several meets since then but 99% of my messages are deleted without any reply.

Could you take a look and tell me where I'm going wrong

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reduce the cock pics on public show. Women are in the fortunate position where they rule the roost, meaning they are the ones who get to choose so you have to learn to stand out from the masses of single men. Hope that little tip is useful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice, I'll get to changing them

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By *edonism44Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Thanks for the advice, I'll get to changing them

We are in a majority on here, and the women really do have the pick of the crop. I have learnt that without a something that makes you stand out then I think , personally, you are a number and not a person.

The other thing you can do is meet at a social !?? X

Good luck mate xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

speaking solely for myself I find that the guys who interact on the fora, make considered and pertinent replies to other peoples posts, chat nicely and just generally get along with everyone are far more attractive and far more likely to pique my interest. This leads me to look at their profile and if that is written in the same friendly vein I'm more likely to get Mr N to look and see if he thinks the same.

I hope you find what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your positive starts off negatively when you say you are nothing special to look at - how do you think people react when reading that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some sexy non cock shots on, nothing sexier than a man dressed seductively x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi - I'd like some feedback on my profile. I've been on Fabs for a couple of years now and until I got verified earlier this year I wasn't having any luck at all. I've had several meets since then but 99% of my messages are deleted without any reply. Could you take a look and tell me where I'm going wrong. Thanks

Only got a couple of points: for us (and it may apply to others) we wouldn't meet with a guy who appears to want to meet everyone and every sexuality - it's just too much. But that is our preference.

Which leads me one to... In your profile narrative you say you would ultimately like a buddy or FWB to go to parties to. Given my first comment, the question I have is, is that a fem or male buddy..???

The only other thing that I don't think anyone else has mentioned is your profile pic. It doesn't have to be a full face pic if you want to preserve your anonymity as far as possible, but the current one doesn't do much for you in my humble opinion....

Other than that, nice to see a profile which is well written, not in 'text speak' (Grrr!) and not plain boring..!

Hope you find what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

I'd like some feedback on my profile.

Could you take a look and tell me where I'm going wrong

Thanks

makes us laugh when men on here ask what they are doing wrong lol cock pics and bum pics alot of couples on here just hate it no face pics

but in all what you wrote is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi matey

I had the same problem and posted on here for some advice "attention please"

I was sent some good feed back so I altered my profile, took down a load if cock pics and am waiting to take some body / torso pics then upload them.

Like you I'm none pushy and there's loads of guys on here but can say that the fab members who came back to me helped my profile

Thanks fab members

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the feedback guys, I'll change my profile and see how it goes x

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