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By *ewcouplemids OP   Couple
over a year ago

walsall

We are currently members of a club

Not yet lost our cherry taking things slowly plus it just seems weird when a couple asks if we want to fuck with them

Are clubs better for nervous couples as opposed to socials and what's soft swing

Sorry if we seem naive but we have only ever been with each other

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By *obsrocketMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


"We are currently members of a club

Not yet lost our cherry taking things slowly plus it just seems weird when a couple asks if we want to fuck with them

Are clubs better for nervous couples as opposed to socials and what's soft swing

Sorry if we seem naive but we have only ever been with each other "

There is nothing wrong in taking your time and perhaps you just havn't quite found the right couple to play with. A bit of soft play (no penetrative sex or oral sex) perhaps some stroking or caressing and just being close to others may suit you better first. Then you may want to take things further. You can be a member of a club and use it just to chat to other members, then with time as you find people you like to be with may progress on to other things, contrary to popular beliefs swinging is not all wild orgy's and sex. Its also about meeting like minded people in a safe environment .

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Don't worry, we were the same. WE started off our swinging by going clubbing each month; first couple of visits we just played together, then we had our first soft swap with another couple, basically just kissing and touching, then went back to our own partners to fuck. For the next few visits we did soft swaps, including oral with others. We did get asked to fuck but R didn't want to take things too fast and G was happy to wait until she was ready to go all the way. Finally one night we swapped with another couple, R really fancied her man and they fucked. G did the guys wife and we haven't looked back since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are currently members of a club

Not yet lost our cherry taking things slowly plus it just seems weird when a couple asks if we want to fuck with them

Are clubs better for nervous couples as opposed to socials and what's soft swing

Sorry if we seem naive but we have only ever been with each other

There is nothing wrong in taking your time and perhaps you just havn't quite found the right couple to play with. A bit of soft play (no penetrative sex or oral sex) perhaps some stroking or caressing and just being close to others may suit you better first. Then you may want to take things further. You can be a member of a club and use it just to chat to other members, then with time as you find people you like to be with may progress on to other things, contrary to popular beliefs swinging is not all wild orgy's and sex. Its also about meeting like minded people in a safe environment ."

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