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By *orny_lifeguard OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

It’s tough for guys on here to get replies from women. Women get 100s of messages and the site is flooded with blokes.

Any women out there willing to give me some tips. Maybe let me pm you and let me know what you think I’m doing wrong from a woman’s perspective.

Thanks in advance.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You know and accept it's tough. What I'm curious about is what you think you've done well, to improve your chances? Have you read tips and advice given to other guys in a similar situation, adapted and implemented it etc?

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By *orny_lifeguard OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

No. I’m asking for your advice. ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I can’t critique your profile as you haven’t asked us to but I will say that, from reading comments in other threads, I’ve learned that 2 things which put women off the most are profiles with a single dick pic as the only profile picture and a short bio that hasn’t had any thought or effort put into it. This is just general advice you might want to consider, I’m not saying it applies to your profile because I’m not allowed to say that.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Our profiles on here are our shop windows, to help people notice something interesting while passing, and decide to step in have a look round and maybe make some enquiries about what's on offer.

It's a good idea to make sure that we all display all the information people might need to know whether they would be interested in learning more about the owner of said profile.

I don't think it matters how many messages people may get, the well thought out, interesting, unique messages coming from stimulating profiles are likely to get attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s tough for guys on here to get replies from women. Women get 100s of messages and the site is flooded with blokes.

Any women out there willing to give me some tips. Maybe let me pm you and let me know what you think I’m doing wrong from a woman’s perspective.

Thanks in advance.

Op, if you don't mind a little review on your profile: I'm sure you can take one (or rather a few) better quality and more appealing photo of yourself, also add a bit more to your bio...

But the results will be still disappointing. Not coz you'd look bad or anything but single men are trying to sell themselves here on a heavily oversaturated market, where the disappointment is almost guaranteed.

If you want to meet women, try clubs and normal dating apps, you have 100x more chances.

One question that got my attention from your profile: how did you manage to find this many fab-friends? I guess those answered your message first at least? Or did you just send thousands of friend requests?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our profiles on here are our shop windows, to help people notice something interesting while passing, and decide to step in have a look round and maybe make some enquiries about what's on offer.

It's a good idea to make sure that we all display all the information people might need to know whether they would be interested in learning more about the owner of said profile.

I don't think it matters how many messages people may get, the well thought out, interesting, unique messages coming from stimulating profiles are likely to get attention."

You’re profile’s amazing, you look amazing in your pictures and videos.

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

"It’s tough for guys on here to get replies from women. Women get 100s of messages and the site is flooded with blokes.

Any women out there willing to give me some tips. Maybe let me pm you and let me know what you think I’m doing wrong from a woman’s perspective.

Thanks in advance.

if they arent interested then what makes you think a different message will make them interested, block and move on

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

OP...there are hundreds of men on fab in your situation. You can't just join a swingers site and expect to get an instant shag just because you sent a nice msg..I'm not trying to make this sound rude or nasty but thats really the crux of it..if you don't help yourself stand out from the others then there isn't much chance for you. Have a look at some of the more established and experienced single male swingers profile, might give you more of an idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buff out your bio.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"No. I’m asking for your advice. ???? "

So NOT reading through the advice given in other threads shows exactly how much effort you're prepared to put in, which reflects on your results.

(Bry)

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Ok your one photo isn’t great and your bio rubbish. Go away and think about how you can improve both. We can’t write it for you

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

We don't all get 100s of messages, so that's not a valid reason.

What Glitterbabe said about your profile being your shop window is true

Look at yours and what does it tell people?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Best advice OP is to use the forum search and find all the answers you need.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Maybe they arnt impressed by the photo from 2017

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Definitely need some more photos of yourself, and have more in your bio so people can learn more about you. It will help get more views and interest.

You are right, it's a lot tougher for guys on fab than couples and women, so a little extra effort could make a big difference to you, set you apart from other profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One picture and it’s a dick pic. I would hazard a guess that 95% will pass right by. I just do get why so many guys put in such little effort and wonder why then get no responses.

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