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"We’ve had two in the last few weeks…one when dressed and ready to leave home…we opt for zero tolerance…what do others do? Frustrating…" Zero tolerance. Our time is far too precious to have to second guess if they'll turn up the second time. | |||
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"We’ve had two in the last few weeks…one when dressed and ready to leave home…we opt for zero tolerance…what do others do? Frustrating…" Surprised you've been blown out. Wish I still played on Mere Heath Lane...... Would be very local | |||
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"We’ve had two in the last few weeks…one when dressed and ready to leave home…we opt for zero tolerance…what do others do? Frustrating…" It's terribly frustrating and only happened a few times for us. We always initially meet for a social drink and chat, if a no show we've had a nice evening in the pub together. Wouldn't meet anyone without verifications if they have been on the site for a while. Wishing you best of luck for the future, normal service seems to be resuming. | |||
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"We’ve had two in the last few weeks…one when dressed and ready to leave home…we opt for zero tolerance…what do others do? Frustrating…" I run a ‘two strikes and you’re out’ rule; the first cancellation can be down to circumstances, the second is taking the piss | |||
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"I have a lot less tolerance for a first meet cancellation. If you have already met then much more forgiving." You did understand when I had to cancel. We must arrange to meet up again | |||
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"I had a meet cancel our first meet but I gave him a second chance, he's now my husband " Hope for us all then. | |||
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"I had a meet cancel our first meet but I gave him a second chance, he's now my husband Hope for us all then." Definitely. I certainly didn't expect to find my husband on here. | |||
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"I had a meet cancel our first meet but I gave him a second chance, he's now my husband Hope for us all then. Definitely. I certainly didn't expect to find my husband on here. " Imagine it could end up being an r rated film. | |||
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"I had a meet arranged for Monday, 2nd time we`ve arranged, just come on here to confirm, lo and behold he`s disappeared again, Strangely all his messages have disappeared too, never known that happen before . He won`t be getting another chance if he turns up again on here " If all his messages have gone then he's left the site. When they leave all messages are automatically deleted. | |||
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"We’ve had two in the last few weeks…one when dressed and ready to leave home…we opt for zero tolerance…what do others do? Frustrating…" Play it by ear really, we had three in one week. But cos we didn’t just bum them off, we’ve subsequently met and had a really good time! | |||
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"That's a real shame. A couple I met recently asked me to live share my location on whatsapp as I drove. May sound a bit much but they'd had no shows last minute before, and it apparrently gets rid of quite a lot!" I have used that system. Never gave the exact address. Told them to call when they got to a particular spot where I could see them. Most were ok but I had the odd ones who were circa 20 miles away saying "I am here now. Which house?" I would suggest a future involving sex and travel. | |||
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"I had a meet arranged for Monday, 2nd time we`ve arranged, just come on here to confirm, lo and behold he`s disappeared again, Strangely all his messages have disappeared too, never known that happen before . He won`t be getting another chance if he turns up again on here " I had this happen on Monday! Just for a social, glad I was just laid on the sofa when I checked, got back under the blanket and had a nap. | |||
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"I had a meet arranged for Monday, 2nd time we`ve arranged, just come on here to confirm, lo and behold he`s disappeared again, Strangely all his messages have disappeared too, never known that happen before . He won`t be getting another chance if he turns up again on here If all his messages have gone then he's left the site. When they leave all messages are automatically deleted. " Thanks for that,,,,I`ve always had a message that can`t reply to a message cos user has left the site,,,,,so good to know its changed | |||
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"I had a meet arranged for Monday, 2nd time we`ve arranged, just come on here to confirm, lo and behold he`s disappeared again, Strangely all his messages have disappeared too, never known that happen before . He won`t be getting another chance if he turns up again on here I had this happen on Monday! Just for a social, glad I was just laid on the sofa when I checked, got back under the blanket and had a nap." Maybe it was the same Guy,,,lol | |||
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"I'm pretty zero tolerance. Best way to be on here I think." Quote possibly the only way! Obviously you can feel if a cancellation is genuine, the other party generally try and make it as painless as possible. But just standing you up..... Next! | |||
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"We’ve had two in the last few weeks…one when dressed and ready to leave home…we opt for zero tolerance…what do others do? Frustrating…" If the meeting is cancelled 24h in advance for a good reason - probably I’d understand. If it is cancelled last minute, no matter the reason - I’ll just block and move on. No hard feelings, it’s just how the Universe want it to be | |||
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