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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
Well, going off of people's profiles that I've read, be it couples or single females, they usually put somewhere what they're after from Fab / swinging.
And actually, most will claim the opposite. They'll say that they're not interested in one offs, one night stands, quickies, NSA, etc... but rather they're after something more meaningful and deeper in the form of a connection / relationship. They'll also put in things like "not looking to meet / shag the whole of Fab" and "quality over quantity" and "looking someone to be more of a regular FB / FWB dynamic," etc.
I've also read on couples and single female profiles that they ARE specifically after NSA fun, though. So they are out there, but just not nearly as common as the aforementioned above.
Therefore, my advice to you is to just be upfront and honest in your wants and desires, and what it is you're offering, both in your bio on your profile and in any messages you send. This will minimise time wasting for all parties concerned, as being more specific and intentional in regards to seeking matches, your pool will be smaller, yes, but those in that pool will be far, far more likely to want to meet with you, as your wants / needs will be much more aligned.
In short, be as forward and as direct as possible. As that's the quickest and easiest way to actually get what you want, and also to give that to those who are seeking the same thing as you.
I'll add in some generic pointers, too;
- add a profile pic
- add some pics to your profile
- make these pics interesting
- if you think you need a dick pic then one is fine
- put something in your bio, you don't need a novel but two or three paragraphs that display something interesting about you as a person
- don't send any dick pics to other people unless / until they ask for one
- don't continue to message people who ignore, delete or say "no thank you," or take it personally. Just move on
Good luck and have fun!  |
