FabSwingers.com forum: Attention please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I really like this site but could you kind fab members help me out. I get plenty of views, but not many people winking or fabbing my photos. Is my profile ok or is there something missing.

I don't think I'm expecting to much from this site... It's an adult site and along with easy going conversation "and I'm not the pushy type" If something comes from it and I get an invite from a couple / lady then great.

Or is it really hard for guys on here?

Thanks

Lee

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I can get hard on here, looking at pics and getting saucy emails which make me blush!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi I really like this site but could you kind fab members help me out. I get plenty of views, but not many people winking or fabbing my photos. Is my profile ok or is there something missing.

Or is it really hard for guys on here?

Thanks

Lee"

There are plenty of posts on other forums that may help you and point you in the right direction. Read them and see what other guys suggest!

This may be a swing site but nothing is guarenteed, not even winks, requests or meets!

Just be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a fan of cock pics and you have quite a few, from every angle. But then some of the ladies like them, so you can't keep us all happy.

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't accomOdate and your pics are mostly all cock pics turns me off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can't accomOdate and your pics are mostly all cock pics turns me off "
hi thanks for your reply, what pics could I upload

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You can't accomOdate and your pics are mostly all cock pics turns me off hi thanks for your reply, what pics could I upload"

I quite like photos of wildlife, action shots etc.

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By *hobos46Man
over a year ago

Royston

From experience on another site, yes, it is difficult for single guys to get laid. That's partly because of the cultural views which seem to think bisexuality in women is more acceptable in women than men, and the fear a lot of men have that being in a MMF will make them see 'gay', so most couples will look for a female rather than a male.

It's also to do with numbers. Females are usually vastly outnumbered by men, meaning they can pick and choose.

I've had some success on my other site, despite my situation at home, no luck here yet but it's early days. Just keep trying and you'll find success.

Also, I'd have to say that some of my success on the other site was because of my presence on the forum, so you could do worse than join in here, as I'm trying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't accomOdate and your pics are mostly all cock pics turns me off hi thanks for your reply, what pics could I upload"

Torso pics ass even anything other than that some girls like it most don't one good cock pic is more than enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well your profile says 'Here for chat only'. You call yourself Mr Kinky but I can't see anything remotely kinky on there. And nobody is going to message you 'Hi, read your profile and would like to know more'.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

If your looking for more than chat only why have that as the first thing you see on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't accomOdate and your pics are mostly all cock pics turns me off "

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

"Hi I really like this site but could you kind fab members help me out. I get plenty of views, but not many people winking or fabbing my photos. Is my profile ok or is there something missing.

Not only hard for men on here, wouldn't say I get that many winks and not many of my pics get fabbed ..... do I question why? People seem to put to much emphasise on getting their pics fabbed !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Morning fab people, thanks for all your replies so far. I've updated my profile and took down some pics and will take more torso, ass and none cock pics later.

Any more comments are really welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes that is much better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well your profile says 'Here for chat only'. You call yourself Mr Kinky but I can't see anything remotely kinky on there. And nobody is going to message you 'Hi, read your profile and would like to know more'."
morning, I put chat only as my leg is in plaster at the minute and didn't want to mislead anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd keep a look out for the fab socials as there are several a month not to far from you. This will improve your chances of meeting greatly.

Cali

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

You've come on the forum with a common question but you have asked it well, so you've got some good advice there.

Ultimately it's down to you to find a way that works and run with it. Don't be afraid to try and keep thinking of ways to stand out from all the other guys.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't accomOdate and your pics are mostly all cock pics turns me off "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You can't accomOdate and your pics are mostly all cock pics turns me off

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hi my profile has been updated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I didn't read the original profile so can't comment on that. Out of 6 public pics 4 are cock shots and the other 2 are a bit blurred (could be my eyesight tho!) so I'd recommend uploading more body and face pics. You state that you can only accomodate in a hotel which will lead a lot of people to assume you're married and playing away without permission so that would rule some potential meets out. Hope this helps and good luck Ms x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi, I didn't read the original profile so can't comment on that. Out of 6 public pics 4 are cock shots and the other 2 are a bit blurred (could be my eyesight tho!) so I'd recommend uploading more body and face pics. You state that you can only accomodate in a hotel which will lead a lot of people to assume you're married and playing away without permission so that would rule some potential meets out. Hope this helps and good luck Ms x"
hi I will update the blurred pics, I am married and in a complete sexless marriage and things have not been good for some time but hope one day things change. I'm not on this site looking for love just adult conversation , and maybe more. Please don't judge me we are all on here for our own reasons

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi, I didn't read the original profile so can't comment on that. Out of 6 public pics 4 are cock shots and the other 2 are a bit blurred (could be my eyesight tho!) so I'd recommend uploading more body and face pics. You state that you can only accomodate in a hotel which will lead a lot of people to assume you're married and playing away without permission so that would rule some potential meets out. Hope this helps and good luck Ms xhi I will update the blurred pics, I am married and in a complete sexless marriage and things have not been good for some time but hope one day things change. I'm not on this site looking for love just adult conversation , and maybe more. Please don't judge me we are all on here for our own reasons

Thanks

May I suggest you need to make that clear in your profile. There are a LOT of women on here who will not have anything to do with married guys (for their own reasons), but there are those women on here in the same situation as you and that may actually be of interest to them. There is nothing worse on here than a married guy (or woman) trying to hide that fact.

Had a feeling that was your situation from how your profile comes over.

It's not a barrier to fun, but honesty is what Swinging is actually about (hard to believe sometimes, but it is) and many will view what you are doing as cheating, so best to be upfront about it.

The points others have made, particularly about your pics, are all relevant too.

Good luck finding what you are looking for though.

Pork

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