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By *ickyJJ2024 OP   Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

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By *ickyJJ2024 OP   Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

Not into swapping but would open to meet a couple where we have a social and both play with respective partners in the same room. M maybe open to woman on woman touching depending how it goes.

Does this ever happen?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Course it does. Same room exhibitionism & voyeurism is definitely a thing.

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By *ickyJJ2024 OP   Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

didnt realise thats what it was called. Are many people into this? Wanting to explore this

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


" didnt realise thats what it was called. Are many people into this? Wanting to explore this"

It's how a lot of people start and there will be couples that only play this way.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Happens in clubs often enough

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We do that. Some more experienced swingers might view it as newbie behaviour. Yet, we've been doing this for years and still enjoy it.

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By *ickyJJ2024 OP   Couple
over a year ago

rotherham


"We do that. Some more experienced swingers might view it as newbie behaviour. Yet, we've been doing this for years and still enjoy it."

Any tips on how to go approach finding people for this approach?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Any tips on how to go approach finding people for this approach?"

Might be worth going to a local group social and just talking openly about what you like.

Or offer to take a new couple under your wing, as this is a less threatening starter for some couples. Keep an eye on local updates for new couples.

You could also periodically add it as a status and see who responds.

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

OP, this isn't unusual at all.

We know a couple who only play this way. And besides, there are no rules in this game beyond the ones you want to make for yourselves, so don't be afraid to ask for what you want and don't compromise

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By *ickyJJ2024 OP   Couple
over a year ago

rotherham


"Any tips on how to go approach finding people for this approach?

Might be worth going to a local group social and just talking openly about what you like.

Or offer to take a new couple under your wing, as this is a less threatening starter for some couples. Keep an eye on local updates for new couples.

You could also periodically add it as a status and see who responds. "

Thank you

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By *ickyJJ2024 OP   Couple
over a year ago

rotherham


"OP, this isn't unusual at all.

We know a couple who only play this way. And besides, there are no rules in this game beyond the ones you want to make for yourselves, so don't be afraid to ask for what you want and don't compromise "

this has made us feel abit more optimistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is definitely us! We are new, and this is currently the level that we feel comfortable with.

Neither of us are very good at sharing, he was the youngest child and I was an only child until a late age

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By *ickyJJ2024 OP   Couple
over a year ago

rotherham


"This is definitely us! We are new, and this is currently the level that we feel comfortable with.

Neither of us are very good at sharing, he was the youngest child and I was an only child until a late age "

We have brought a male in for threesomes J doesn't mind sharing but thats as far as it goes on that front. Shame you are so far away.

Don't seem to have many takers to the status

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By *eversayNeverCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We do.

We really enjoy same room NO swap, we both love watching others fuck, and we love fucking each other, so winner winner!!

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By *eaderMan
over a year ago

Shropshire

Definitely a place for this. Variety being the spice of life! Try it....

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By *oodAndLuckyCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


" didnt realise thats what it was called. Are many people into this? Wanting to explore this"

It’s the only way we play

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"Not into swapping but would open to meet a couple where we have a social and both play with respective partners in the same room. M maybe open to woman on woman touching depending how it goes.

Does this ever happen? "

Go to a club and you will experience this… it’s so erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's what we do soft swap

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

We would love to be watched and we aren’t interested in swinging.

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By *anilla-sinCouple
over a year ago

lancs

We are definitely interested in this.. We've never met a couple, so I think it is a good way to start out on that adventure..

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

This is exactly what we look for. Often people say they will observe our boundaries..and often dont which is frustrating..but when it happens its great. Xx

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By *ickyJJ2024 OP   Couple
over a year ago

rotherham

So glad to hear that there are others with similar thoughts. Always felt a degree of expectations where other couples are concerned.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

This is what we love doing! We had a hotel meet with a couple just to share a bed with them. It can be really intimate

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

This is how I and an old partner got into the scene. Progressed for us into giving oral to the others but everyone has a dynamic and many will respect if you don't want to swap. Best advice is what was said on the recent bedhoppers podcaste which is set out your guide lines first also don't be afraid to say no.

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By *otttcpl69Couple
over a year ago

Cramlington

Done exactly that many times...both love it.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

It's really normal same room soft swap, same room no swap or same room half soft swap (where only one of you does anything with either or both of the other couple). There's so much variation. Personally we normally same room soft swap. But occasionally with the right people when the feeling is right we do same room full swap. But we've also enjoy same room no swap. Sometimes it's just hot being close to another couple doing their thing and getting of on each other without touching.

The main thing is at the social stage if conversation is leading to the bedroom be open and honest with what you want and find out and listen to what they want. It doesn't have to be setting out a cold lists of demands. Just a fun conversation about what you all like, dislike and see things going down. In fact just discussing how you see things going together can be quite a turn on for all. Everyone has their boundaries but for many they don't need to be at the edge of those boundaries everytime. Many of us just want a hot time with people we fancy and are perfectly happy to meet other peoples boundaries even if a little more restrictive. Just be yourselves, be completely open and don't do anything with anyone you don't get a good vibe off.

Wishing you every success

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Not into swapping but would open to meet a couple where we have a social and both play with respective partners in the same room. M maybe open to woman on woman touching depending how it goes.

Does this ever happen?

Go to a club and you will experience this… it’s so erotic "

There is only right in swinging, what’s right for you, and what’s you consent too.

However, the whole scene opened up for us as we started visiting clubs.

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